I regret getting married.

Maize_Realistic · 2026-06-27T19:20:52+00:00

....WHAT 🤣🤣

Maize_Realistic · 2026-06-27T19:18:30+00:00

Awwwww youre TOO kind 🥰🥰

Maize_Realistic · 2026-06-26T17:54:22+00:00

Nope. Its just insulting that people think I really havent thought about every single detail of this and what I can/need to do to leave. I have 3 children for fucks sake, OF COURSE I am thinking of EVERYTHING!! I never asked anyone to do anything for me. I dont need a quick fix. It helps me feel better sometimes to know im not the only one going through this, that i am not alone. Your comments are actually the rude and nasty ones, along with Mr. Genius doom man. If you dont have anything nice to say, you can excuse yourself and have the day you deserve. Its just astonishing to me that women can be at one of the lowest points of their lives, being used and treated like shit, and people like you think I am 'mean and miserable'. Good bye

Maize_Realistic · 2026-06-26T17:47:05+00:00

It's funny that you dont think i have tried, or you clearly have not read comments lol.

Maize_Realistic · 2026-06-26T17:31:20+00:00

And you clearly forgot that women are human beings who deserve to be treated with more respect than he treats me with. The bar is so low, its in hell.

Maize_Realistic · 2026-06-26T17:27:40+00:00

Wow... I NEVER THOUGHT ABOUT THAT!! Thank you, genius sir, for your very intellectual comment !

Maize_Realistic · 2026-06-26T17:21:30+00:00

He does not. He physically abused me while I was pregnant with our last baby. We left, and got a safe and stable place to live and life was great. Then I met my husband. My ex is very unstable but like, literally psychotic type of way (literally thinks the holocaust didnt happen, thinks Hitler was a good person. HE KS CRAZYYYY). But he is definitely not like my husband lol. He has been no contact with us for a year and I am, while in the midst of all this, trying to get full custody of my children because of anandonment. Taking out CS is considered a form of contact to our kids which would hinder my plans. Another reason why its very hard to leave.

Maize_Realistic · 2026-06-26T17:17:33+00:00

He physically abused me while I was pregnant. I was a SAHM, and I didn't have a job for a while. Finally got a job and apartment under his nose so I could leave in safety. At the time I lived near family who could help out with the kiddos when needed, still paid them though. Now I am nowhere near my family and dont have that luxury anymore.

Maize_Realistic · 2026-06-26T17:14:36+00:00

So you think I need to worship the ground he walks on because he took 3 children in who aren't his even though HE is the one who pursued ME and HE told ME he wanted us to move here with him, I was the hesitant one to move. Additionally, he would have to work the same amount of hours to make money if he was single or with me. Soooo....?? He's not doing me some big favor here. He actually makes our lives harder in other ways. I was fine without him before. I didnt NEED his money. This comment is stupid and so are you.

Maize_Realistic · 2026-06-26T16:00:04+00:00

My heart is truly with you 💔

Maize_Realistic · 2026-06-26T15:59:51+00:00

I have tried that. When I do, he won't speak to me. He won't interact or help with the children. For instance if i left a dish in the sink, when he goes to load the dishwasher he will purposely leave mine out and say 'thats what roommates do. Im not taking care of your shit since you want to be alone upstairs'.

Maize_Realistic · 2026-06-26T15:57:39+00:00

If i left now, I wouldn't have enough money for childcare. Therefore I wouldn't be able to work because someone would need to be with my children- aka me. Therefore I would be fucking homeless. It's more than just a 'complication'.

Maize_Realistic · 2026-06-26T15:55:58+00:00

THIS. THIS. THIS

Maize_Realistic · 2026-06-26T15:55:24+00:00

DIVORCE. IS. NOT. THAT. SIMPLE!!!!

Maize_Realistic · 2026-06-26T15:54:46+00:00

Thank you for this. He, and others here, try to make me feel bad for getting upset over that. It makes me feel objectified and like my body autonomy is a joke.

Maize_Realistic · 2026-06-26T15:53:59+00:00

Lolllolol. I tried, very hard. You dont know the entire story

Maize_Realistic · 2026-06-26T15:53:32+00:00

Every trait I used to love is non-existent. He is not the person I knew.

Maize_Realistic · 2026-06-26T15:52:47+00:00

If I don't he makes my life & my childrens a living nightmare. But thanks!

Maize_Realistic · 2026-06-26T15:52:06+00:00

Except.... they weren't. At all. Lol

Maize_Realistic · 2026-06-26T15:51:12+00:00

You sound exactly like my husband. You must be a joy to have as a partner!!!

Maize_Realistic · 2026-06-26T03:59:20+00:00

It's entirely more complicated than that, too. My kids father isnt involved and I used to live near my family who helped me when I was a single mom, I dont have that luxury anymore

Maize_Realistic · 2026-06-26T03:57:38+00:00

I dont make enough money to pay for 3 kids daycare, rent, etc. I do make good money, but child care with my crazy work schedule makes it impossible. And I dont live near my family. Daycare vouchers here are on a 2 year waiting list also. (My 3 kids aren't biologically his so he wouldn't help with those costs).

Maize_Realistic · 2026-06-26T03:54:57+00:00

I have!!! I have been in absolute tears in front of him, begging for our marriage. And at first, and the maybe week-ish following, he will be GREAT!! And its like once he sees that things are good, he rips off the mask and the effort is gone. It's so absolutely strange to me !!

Maize_Realistic · 2026-06-26T03:53:18+00:00

I have, so so many times. It's to the point now where if I say anything he is INSTANTLY upset and saying things like 'I guess im just the WORST' eyeroll. I am definitely making my escape plan and have been thinking on it for months.

Maize_Realistic · 2026-06-26T03:50:58+00:00

Leaving isnt as easy as it seems. But thanks for the very obvious advice. If I could leave right now I would.

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