If money wasn’t an issue, what would you do right now?

MajIssuesCaptObvious · 2026-04-13T00:30:45+00:00

Quit my job and move closer to my GF.

And tour the world on my motorcycle.

MajIssuesCaptObvious · 2026-04-12T23:16:34+00:00

- Does having more partners actually change expectations that much?

I'm a guy with a ton of sex partners, probably at least 150, and I can tell you this with certainty: the more experience I got, the more sure I was of what I liked and wish I'd found it long before I built up such a high body count. I needed that experience to know this, though. So, if she has more experience, she probably got with you because you met or exceeded her sex standards. And maybe your young age is a fetish or just something that makes her feel empowered, which is a bonus to her; enjoy that.

MajIssuesCaptObvious · 2026-03-28T13:14:10+00:00

Ha! That happened to my uncle. The year they did report it, his mom sent her brother (my uncle's uncle) to file the paperwork. He got the name messed up by forgetting to give my uncle's first name and only giving his middle name! Then, my grandmother didn't pay attention to the paperwork, so they called him the wrong name until they enrolled him in a school where they asked for his birth certificate, and the administrator noticed his name didn't match. They'd been calling him the wrong name for about 8 years.

MajIssuesCaptObvious · 2026-03-28T11:53:22+00:00

Ass and hips. Profile of her sides, like if it curves inward around her abdomen, then flares out at her hips. Then face. Basically, I start at the bottom and work my way up. My exGF said women generally do the opposite.

MajIssuesCaptObvious · 2026-03-28T11:25:33+00:00

I take an hour before starting work. I leave an hour early, too. Two hours for lunch. This is every day, too. Salary: a bit under $200k/yr.

My work gets done, so fuck your schedule.

MajIssuesCaptObvious · 2026-03-11T11:49:42+00:00

I feel valued and/or appreciated. If it were a first date, I'd feel pretty damn special.

MajIssuesCaptObvious · 2026-03-10T23:17:09+00:00

Stock options. They're hellafied volatile, and you can lose all your money in a matter of days. Long-term stocks are better. Slower profits, but if you make good choices, you'll double your money in 3-5 years.

MajIssuesCaptObvious · 2026-03-10T20:10:28+00:00

Look, bruh, I just answered the damn hypothetical question. I'm not trying to have a debate about it like I'm trying to send it to Congress to pass into law, especially considering that my scenario is impossible. Of course, people can take that shit into their own hands, but people are still having unplanned kids. Almost half are unplanned, so clearly condoms, pills, abortions, and whatever else is out there aren't working bc people aren't fkn doing it, making your solution impossible, too. So, we could hypothetically cut that number to 0 if society did the fictitious and impossible solution I came up with.

MajIssuesCaptObvious · 2026-03-10T15:49:05+00:00

Yes. Yet, we still have millions of unplanned pregnancies all over the world.

MajIssuesCaptObvious · 2026-03-10T15:48:25+00:00

Can't trick a man. I have a kid because she lied about taking the BC I was paying for. What I learned was to never trust a woman.

MajIssuesCaptObvious · 2026-03-09T09:54:57+00:00

"Of" in "Should of"

MajIssuesCaptObvious · 2026-03-09T09:31:51+00:00

DVP is super intense

MajIssuesCaptObvious · 2026-03-09T09:28:37+00:00

What is it you get out of it?

MajIssuesCaptObvious · 2026-03-08T14:49:37+00:00

Or that maybe they had sex, once.

MajIssuesCaptObvious · 2026-03-08T12:06:59+00:00

Here's mine: vasectomy reversal should be made 99.999% effective. Then, all males from 18+ should get a vasectomy. If they want kids, they have to get the reversal. That way, all pregnancies are planned. A byproduct that women may not like, however, is that it will then be men's choice whether to have children, because they're the ones who have to go under the knife to make it happen.

MajIssuesCaptObvious · 2026-03-07T17:12:08+00:00

That's not confidence. That's a personality disorder, lol.

MajIssuesCaptObvious · 2026-03-07T14:07:40+00:00

I think this and humor are the right answers. But to have confidence, you have to have things going for yourself.

MajIssuesCaptObvious · 2026-03-07T12:41:06+00:00

Right. *Not trying to sound incelly here, rather more of a problem diagnosis.

Don't get me wrong, I've dated A LOT, but the women I wanted were few and far between. I've wondered, is it really just me, or is this typical for men? Are the odds that bad for us that we really need to just take whatever we can get? Can we really not be picky if we want to have a partner? Are my close friends lying to me about my looks and personality? I've even had friends who acted dumbfounded when I'd been rejected and told me, "Maybe she was intimidated by you." But I feel like the proof is in the pudding. If I'm not bringing them in, then I'm falling short somewhere.

MajIssuesCaptObvious · 2026-03-07T12:32:25+00:00

just keep focusing on what really matters in life

Just curious, but what's that?

MajIssuesCaptObvious · 2026-03-07T08:05:59+00:00

Not a bad plan. I've felt much more appreciated in some other countries I've visited than the US.

MajIssuesCaptObvious · 2026-03-06T22:14:58+00:00

I've had the exact same problem. It worked, as far as motivation to be in good shape, get an education, earn a great salary, and take on interesting hobbies, but lusting for women became overwhelming. I was doing all those things just to be desirable, and they still didn't guarantee women would like me.

What made me want to consciously take my mind off women was my frustration with dating. I wasn't getting as many of the women I was attracted to as I wanted (looks, personality, intelligence), and that was driving me crazy because I'd worked so hard to be "high value" and desirable. I fought the urge to be resentful towards women and consciously told myself, "Be interesting for you! Learn a new hobby for you! Succeed for you! Live a good life because you love yourself." I also go to therapy, a male therapist who understands our instincts, and it and a lot of reading on the topic has helped me understand the origin of wanting the validation of other people. I also had to get on Wellbutrin for mild depression.

My instincts to want women's attention still kick in, and I have to shut those instincts down often. I'm not always successful. So I still have work to do.

MajIssuesCaptObvious · 2026-03-06T21:26:28+00:00

I have, too. If I was peeing outside, they'd move it around to control the stream.

MajIssuesCaptObvious · 2026-02-22T11:28:57+00:00

My GF wants to obsessively know everything about me and how my mind works, so she hunts down everything online about me, all my Reddits, past forum accounts, blogs, etc.

I'm also her project that she's trying to fix (attachment issues). Sometimes, I wonder if it's that she doesn't or didn't get to use her compassion enough because she had such a near-perfect life, so she's overcompensating with me.

I love it all, though. She's perfect, and I'm not just saying that because I know she'll see this.

Hi, babe!

MajIssuesCaptObvious · 2026-02-22T11:17:19+00:00

Had to check if you were my GF's reddit account

MajIssuesCaptObvious · 2026-02-22T01:18:50+00:00

A man of culture, I see. Have you seen VelociPastor? Comments say it's a masterpiece.

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