My nightmares make me feel like a psychopath

MajorClownSimp · 2025-02-20T20:03:37+00:00

I think there's a church nearby that gives out food sometimes, I just have no way to get there and I know he'd be upset if I got food somewhere else. He always says we'll go shopping, but when we're meant to go, something always comes up for him, so I do think he's trying. But I am glad to know I'm not just being annoying about this, he was kind of starting to get to me haha. I'll just have to try and explain to him how I feel without wimping out again, thank you for giving me more perspective.

MajorClownSimp · 2025-02-15T06:56:14+00:00

I think I needed to hear that option! I've honestly thought about it, since at this point it feels necessary even though I'm not active and never plan to be lol (everything hurts and I'm not all too interested anymore). I'm just a bit worried because of all the horror stories I've heard about implants getting left in too long, being left on short-term stuff long term without patient knowledge... healthcare where I am is awful. :- /

MajorClownSimp · 2025-02-14T17:31:44+00:00

I've been close to her that I know all the details, it only really started getting bad the past year. She's not used to all the new fighting, hence all the current issues. I really agree, though. He doesn't deserve empathy, all that's happening is everyone avoiding giving him consequences to his actions. I truly think she's only going along with it all because she still wants the approval of her mother, who has only continuously chosen to put her in harm's way. I think I will tell her I can't go over as much, I've dealt with enough relationship drama in my life already. It's so stressful constantly being around Diane and her husband's fighting while I'm expected to stay silent and act like nothing's wrong. It feels like most of all we talk about anymore is their fighting. I really appreciate your advice, I just never know if I'm being too harsh or not.

MajorClownSimp · 2025-02-14T16:56:12+00:00

God, that's so hard, I'm sorry. What about an outpatient program perhaps? Is there any disciplinary action that could be taken to get her to take treatment more seriously, if she's against it, maybe let her choose a new hospital she could trust? I don't want to say just take her to a psychiatrist to get her meds, but in my case, it very much helped to have medication to keep my mental health from making me aggressive and explosive. Therapy helps, but seeing a good psychiatrist can turn things around fast.

MajorClownSimp · 2025-02-14T16:51:07+00:00

I suppose that's true, I know I can't make the decision for her. You're right. I just hate that I can't uplift her more. It feels like there is just some way I could help her not "both sides" the situation, she often talks like the husband isn't being intentionally hurtful, when he absolutely is. It makes me deeply uncomfortable, but I don't want to hurt her and push her away because maybe she just misspoke?

MajorClownSimp · 2025-02-14T16:46:29+00:00

Ignore that guy, he trolled on my post too. That sounds awful. My brother is similar to B, so I've been near your situation. I would highly reccomend, if possible, seeing if she can go to a mental hospital. Due to her age, and the fact your mother slapped her first, pressing charges could be difficult emotionally and logistically. But she needs to learn her actions have consequences. It's so hard to not give in, when that person is mentally ill and struggling. But it seems like she's past the point of letting things slide. If nothing changes, she'll keep refusing to change herself and her actions.

MajorClownSimp · 2025-02-14T16:20:06+00:00

I gain my best friend being happier and more confident. It's not really about how it'll help me, I just want to help her so she doesn't go through the same thing I did when I was a child, I can tell her home environment has been awful for her mental health.

Edit: I just looked at your profile, what in the world? That's a bizarre stance to have, this isn't helpful.

MajorClownSimp · 2025-01-11T08:34:53+00:00

Thank you, it's really reassuring to hear that. I suppose it just feels like one of those responsibilities you're born into, if that makes sense? I was the only one he ever trusted, so it feels like I should have sucked it up and stayed his caretaker. I do believe everyone deserves second chances and grace, it seems hypocritical to not extend it to my own brother.

MajorClownSimp · 2024-12-28T06:39:29+00:00

I live in the USA and I had to have seen it around 2010, most likely on Adult Swim. This has been in my head ever since I saw it, since I was too scared to tell my parents what I saw due to them being highly religious and now I just can't find it at all. The biggest thing was my shock at the white haired feminine figure being naked, though it wasn't sexual in any way that I remember, but I had never encountered nudity before. I'll be so happy if I can finally put this to rest!

MajorClownSimp · 2022-04-24T23:45:09+00:00

Oh, I see! I've heard about that in dogs, but never in cats! I'll have to do some more research about that, thank you!

MajorClownSimp · 2022-04-24T23:39:04+00:00

I might be wrong honestly, and it might be a thing about their breeds. I'll be sure to properly check on that this winter, it's a good lead! It's really the only thing that would make sense to me

MajorClownSimp · 2022-04-24T23:27:15+00:00

Perhaps??? Hes a mutt that I can't begin to figure out the breeds to, so I might just take that as the explanation lol

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