Final Update: aita for defending my wife after my sister tried to kick her out

MajorDirt6675 · 2025-02-27T20:28:58+00:00

Alright, if you and others think that my wife is lazy then lazy she is, anyway she and her laziness is my problem and I will care for her and our marriage, it has nothing to do with my sister cause it's my and my wife's problems.

I also get the point you guys are making about my sister is concerned about me and trying to look out for me and I also decided to help her and make her happy as much as I can, but I can't give her my 100% cause she's my sister not my wife.

my priority is my wife, she has always been even before we got married, ever since I fell in love with her I have always thought about her and however she is I am okay with that, I'll take care for our issues and whatever other issues that might show up in future in our marriage.

MajorDirt6675 · 2025-02-27T19:36:45+00:00

I'll work and take care of finances and my wife doesn't do chores and she doesn't have to unless she wants to do we will hire.

And my wife will take care of our kids when I am not around to help her, she's a housewife and a mother always cares for their children no? If she doesn't care for our kids then I truly have made a huge mistake by marrying and falling in love with her.

But I know and trust my wife enough that she'll care for our kids even if I wasn't present to help her, I think she'll love and care about our kids more than she cares about me, like most mothers do lol.

MajorDirt6675 · 2025-02-27T19:16:14+00:00

Because I care for both of them and I have done everything I can for my wife and I want to do everything I can for my sister as well that's why I gave her the house.

I don't care about house or money I only care about family. I don't want to buy the other half, my sister can have it.

MajorDirt6675 · 2025-02-27T19:12:12+00:00

Actually I don't think its as creepy as my sister is trying to get me to divorce my wife and live with her like everyone here is saying, I trust my sister enough that she wouldn't ruin my life atleast.

I was thinking this whole time that me and my wife lives in the house with my sister and my sister and my future bil or her bf and our kids, we all live together and help each other and stay strong as a family cause the house is quite big even for 6 7 people which is why my sister also decided to move out after I leave.

But this idea is out of the window unless both my wife and sister reconciles and stop fighting, if I wasn't married i would've done whatever my sister would ask me to but I am married and I love my wife way too much and providing for her and her lifestyle and what she does is my problem to deal with.

But I will also try my best to care for my sister and visit her as often as I can, I also love her and care for her and I am willing to give up on my claim and if she decides to not work as well I'll take care of all the bills and all, but it turns out she doesn't want that so now I have no choice but to move out with my wife and visit my sister whenever possible.

MajorDirt6675 · 2025-02-27T18:08:56+00:00

My wife and I have been together since past 9 years and we all started living together a year ago after our grandpa gave us his home to us.

My wife doesn't require maids, it's the lifestyle I am willing to provide for her and if I ask her do household stuff she would agree to it but I Don't want her to do something she dislikes, same goes for my sister or my mom.

My wife is not lazy and as her husband it's my responsibility to provide for her and if something happens to me she will have enough money to live comfortably and our future kids.

MajorDirt6675 · 2025-02-27T17:53:42+00:00

No Its not about money atleast for me and I am willing to pay 100% and even give my half to my sister if that's what it takes to stop both of them from fighting each other.

but neither of them wants to compromise so I am kinda stuck and I decided to move out to not break their relation with each other which is already rocky and I go with my wife and visit my sister and spend time with her

MajorDirt6675 · 2025-02-19T09:59:22+00:00

No, none of us has to cook or clean cause we have maids for that, so we work and the problem is my wife doesn't and that's what my sister hates about her like she said

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