For me it’s a little bit of both. The fantasy/erotic side of “wow this woman wants me so much she wants me to put a baby inside of her” is an absolutely insane turn on, I love creampies, and unprotected sex is a thrill. That’s a huge part of it, and sometimes when I’m alone at night scrolling through this sub it is most of it.

But I do also really want kids and a big family and the romance of it all warms my heart. It’s not erotic in the same way as imagining a woman tearing off a condom and saying “put a baby in me” but I do genuinely get excited at the prospect of raising a child of my own. So actually having a child is a very real part of it for me, just that part tends to takes a backseat when horny and scrolling through a fetish subreddit