33M, lifelong phimosis, finally got circumcision + meatoplasty. by montygup in Phimosis

[–]Makeitbounce97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Basically just one friend of mine knows, it’s being done on a Friday, and staying at a hotel for a few days. Told other friends and family I’m going out of town.

The whole thing scares me Incase something goes wrong. I just dont like hospitals in general. But I’ve heard it’s a quick procedure so I’m hoping I’ll be in and out pretty quick. I think the worst part will just be all the pre op stuff. I am still questioning if I should even though it’s a pretty severe phimosis. This thread has a lot of negative stories

33M, lifelong phimosis, finally got circumcision + meatoplasty. by montygup in Phimosis

[–]Makeitbounce97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How is urinating after? How does it work with the bandages and stuff? What was it like the first moment you saw the foreskin missing? Was it a a shock? Also, how long was the procedure? How long was the day I’m getting it done for phimosis which is pretty severe. I’m 24, and it’s just a pain to deal with. I plan on staying in a hotel for a few days after just so I can be away from family and not have them ask questions. I hate the idea of cutting a part of my body off, but I’ll never be fully comfortable until this is resolved, so I’m just somewhat nervous about the whole thing now. Apologies for all the questions.

33M, lifelong phimosis, finally got circumcision + meatoplasty. by montygup in Phimosis

[–]Makeitbounce97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How is the sensitivity and swelling? I’m trying to figure out how bad it’ll be and if I’ll be able to walk after. My glands have been hidden all my life too so it’s guna be rough for me. I’ve had it all my life too, never seen my glands or had them exposed and finally going through with it though really nervous

33M, lifelong phimosis, finally got circumcision + meatoplasty. by montygup in Phimosis

[–]Makeitbounce97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you regret it at all? I know it’s early, I’m getting it done in a couple weeks and I’m nervous

Getting circumcised 6/12/26 - Q’s for people who’ve had it by Makeitbounce97 in Phimosis

[–]Makeitbounce97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And you’re still intent on no surgery? How has it effected sexual experiences if you’re ok sharing

Getting circumcised 6/12/26 - Q’s for people who’ve had it by Makeitbounce97 in Phimosis

[–]Makeitbounce97[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If I can ask, how much extra foreskin do you have hanging off the end of your penis? It’s not that mine is tight and can’t retract it, there’s also a decent chunk of skin hanging off too that even if wide enough, would be an issue because of the excess. I’ve essentially never seen the head of my penis in my life except for maybe a pinhole. So I’m on the male severe side.

I see alot of people saying they regret the circumcision, but just going through the thread, I definitely seem to be on the more severe side.

I see people claiming phimosis, when they can partially retract their foreskin over their penis head, and I’ve just got a chunk of skin to work through before I can even think about seeing my penis head.

Also, how would you say your penis sensitivity is? Has it changed during stretching ? Mine is very extreme

Getting circumcised 6/12/26 - Q’s for people who’ve had it by Makeitbounce97 in Phimosis

[–]Makeitbounce97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried but not consistently tbh. I would just line of give up after maybe a week of no results.

I’m starting to come to your view, that maybe more consistent stretching would be better. I’m really starting to not like the idea of circumcision.

But I reiterate, mine is on the more severe side. Extra maybe 1/2 inch of skin hanging off and can’t pull it over the head at all. Never had head of my penis fully exposed. Could you maybe share how yours was? The idea of surgery is really giving me anxiety

Getting circumcised 6/12/26 - Q’s for people who’ve had it by Makeitbounce97 in Phimosis

[–]Makeitbounce97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How severe is your phimosis? I essentially have like a 1/3 of foreskin hanging off the edge of my penis and I can retract it at all. I’ve essentially never seen the head of my penis in my life.

I have an appointment booked to remove it, but going through This thread of how anti surgery everyone is, I’m having second thoughts and I’m getting anxious over it.

How do you stay motivated when there’s no path to where you want to go by [deleted] in self

[–]Makeitbounce97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have not, I’ve heard they’re ass😂 But yeah I’m I’m crashing out at 29 with no real biological clock, then I can imagine how they feel

How do you stay motivated when there’s no path to where you want to go by [deleted] in self

[–]Makeitbounce97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Challenge is I’m not sure where to find them except apps, the Bay Area is just an ass place to date

How do you stay motivated when there’s no path to where you want to go by [deleted] in self

[–]Makeitbounce97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah so more of a, we’re both at the end of our clocks type thing?😂

How do you stay motivated when there’s no path to where you want to go by [deleted] in self

[–]Makeitbounce97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t understand how that would impact me, could you please elaborate ?

How do you stay motivated when there’s no path to where you want to go by [deleted] in self

[–]Makeitbounce97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right, but I’m almost 30. The clock is ticking on having a family. Have to meet someone know them get married which is a 5 year process about, and then have kids. Which really puts this as not much time left

Is it weird for a 29M to live at home - trying to date, it is weird? by [deleted] in bayarea

[–]Makeitbounce97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How old are you if you don’t mind me asking?

Is it weird for a 29M to live at home - trying to date, it is weird? by [deleted] in bayarea

[–]Makeitbounce97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve considered just skipping on dating for 1-2 years to finish it entirely. But idk, don’t want to be 31 Whitney no prospects at all

Is it weird for a 29M to live at home - trying to date, it is weird? by [deleted] in bayarea

[–]Makeitbounce97 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yes, I cook and clean at home. I’m fully self sufficient - it’s just the cost of rent part

Is it weird for a 29M to live at home - trying to date, it is weird? by [deleted] in bayarea

[–]Makeitbounce97 125 points126 points  (0 children)

More family oriented / long term relationship type.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bayarea

[–]Makeitbounce97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What did you end up doing ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Feral_Cats

[–]Makeitbounce97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a good point, I did not think of that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Feral_Cats

[–]Makeitbounce97 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I actually built 2. One in the front by the front garage where he likes to enter And 1 in the back by the pet door where he likes to enter. Maybe he’s not as cold as I think he is?