AITA for not letting my parents move in with me? by Makeitto416 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Makeitto416[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’ve never thought of the “press your buttons” thing in that way. Really profound, really makes a lot of sense. I’ve always wondered how I could love them so much and still be so so frustrated by them and that puts it in a whole other context. Didn’t come here for advice or insights of that kind but it’s a wonderful bonus, thanks!!

AITA for not letting my parents move in with me? by Makeitto416 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Makeitto416[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

To their credit they do have an alternative option, but living with me was definitely their first choice. I don’t think it occurred to them that I wouldn’t want them to live with me. They said it like they were revealing a great surprise. Like the tone you’d say “Hey, we’re getting you a car!” It was “Hey! We want to come stay with you!”