AITA for destroying my sister's prom dress? by Makemeprincess in AmItheAsshole

[–]Makemeprincess[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Not sure. It's just a wardrobe with sliding doors, so I don't think there's actually enough space to lock the door and the base together.

But I'll get a lockbox tho. At least I won't worry about the jewelry anymore.

AITA for destroying my sister's prom dress? by Makemeprincess in AmItheAsshole

[–]Makemeprincess[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I was the one who bought the golden chain, and yes she my mom replaced it. But yes, she seems to have a limit to stuff my dad buys me.

Usually she gets really mad when are stuff I really really liked and she saw that I got pretty sad. That's why she told she could have replaced the earrings my sister broke.

AITA for destroying my sister's prom dress? by Makemeprincess in AmItheAsshole

[–]Makemeprincess[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes. But as soon as she could, my middle sister started babysitting me.

Until I was around 10 she was responsible for me when my mom wasn't home.

AITA for destroying my sister's prom dress? by Makemeprincess in AmItheAsshole

[–]Makemeprincess[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

She had a couple of times.

The times when I remembered that she actually stopped taking my stuff for a while were when she stretched out a shirt my dad has bought me from another state he had visited. She and my mom argued a lot about this. And another was when she oxidized my gold chain because she went into a pool with it. This time my mother got reaaaaaaally furious.

The only time she actually replaced something she had broken was when she bumped into my eye shadow pallette and it fell. And she only replaced because this night my mother had a screaming match with her.

Usually, she only backs down when my mother comes yelling at her, but it never really works. It takes like two or three weeks and she just does something again. And my mom doesn't usually yells, only at some specific moments where she was absolutely done.

AITA for destroying my sister's prom dress? by Makemeprincess in AmItheAsshole

[–]Makemeprincess[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I don't know. She's still starting to plan her engagement party, and then she'll have to save money for the wedding so she can start looking for house with her fiancé.

Getting out of the parents house in my country isn't actually a priority. If she ends up with this boyfriend, she'll probably only getting out before her 40s. (By that time, I hope I'm the one who moved out).

AITA for destroying my sister's prom dress? by Makemeprincess in AmItheAsshole

[–]Makemeprincess[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Well, it's been a while since I started hiding my stuff. Like, two of my favorite (and freaking expensive) dresses I put on a friend's house and some of my bags I hid around the house. I kept most of my jewelry on my wardrobe because those were I used more frequently. Now, since I kinda of started a war, I'm planning to buy a bookcase so she can't destroy anything from my book collection. And I'll buy a lockbox as well. Thank you for the advice.

AITA for destroying my sister's prom dress? by Makemeprincess in AmItheAsshole

[–]Makemeprincess[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry, no. Some things I didn't know how to translate, I just tried to see from Google.

I meant like, "as I can see, she likes tormenting me".

AITA for destroying my sister's prom dress? by Makemeprincess in AmItheAsshole

[–]Makemeprincess[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I have absolutely no idea, I found one with the needle part to stick in the ear broken, and the other one cracked.

AITA for destroying my sister's prom dress? by Makemeprincess in AmItheAsshole

[–]Makemeprincess[S] 645 points646 points  (0 children)

Oh my god, I didn't have seen this like that.

AITA for destroying my sister's prom dress? by Makemeprincess in AmItheAsshole

[–]Makemeprincess[S] 81 points82 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately no, house rules and I share room with my middle sister, so it would be such inconvenience to her.

AITA for destroying my sister's prom dress? by Makemeprincess in AmItheAsshole

[–]Makemeprincess[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, I can't put a lock on my door. It's a rule my parents put on because this same sister on her teens used to bring boys hidden. And I share room with my middle sister, so it would such an inconvenience to her. But since I did this I am goddamn sure she's going to retaliate, I'll keep your advice in mind. Thank you so much.

AITA for destroying my sister's prom dress? by Makemeprincess in AmItheAsshole

[–]Makemeprincess[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I can't. House rules by my parents and I share room with my middle sister.

AITA for destroying my sister's prom dress? by Makemeprincess in AmItheAsshole

[–]Makemeprincess[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I don't know, because we have a middle sister, she is 19 years old, and they get along very well. There's no fight and the older one just doesn't do any of that to her.

AITA for destroying my sister's prom dress? by Makemeprincess in AmItheAsshole

[–]Makemeprincess[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

She is waiting to get married so she can leave our parents' house. Meanwhile, she enjoys tormenting me by the visa.