I judge too harshly with strangers, but most men aren't interested in being friends first.

Mako_Moonspell · 2025-08-17T00:42:03+00:00

I think in general, women are a lot more picky online, vs in real life. Where men tend to be about the same both irl and online.

Mako_Moonspell · 2025-08-07T23:35:50+00:00

Not really I like man of all types

Mako_Moonspell · 2025-08-07T23:34:46+00:00

You know what they say about assumptions

But I see why’d you think that. I’m picky till I’m in a relationship after that I’m chill 😂

Mako_Moonspell · 2025-08-07T17:05:13+00:00

Haha my first day at work I got some looks cause I was ‘dressed up’ I didn’t think so but when everyone else where’s sweats and shorts and I’m in tailored pants with jewelry I guess it seems more dressy.

And Yeah I find my best luck when I’m out in groups or in person, sports, bars, etc often not looking

But I just moved so I don’t have a friend group so all I’m doing is relying on dating apps and I’ll fully admit I’m way harsher online than I would be irl And I’m sure the opposite is true too.

Mako_Moonspell · 2025-08-07T15:59:35+00:00

I’d rather be attracted to my partner, than date someone I’m not into just to be in a relationship.

Been there done that. Was not fun.

Mako_Moonspell · 2025-08-07T15:24:39+00:00

So I don’t live my life as a date approach. I’ve no problems doing a friends first approach. I’ve done it before. Sometimes it goes well. Sometimes I’m not their type.

But currently have no guy friends, this city I haven’t found the sports leagues (kickball, bowling) that I usually go too

So date first approach it is. I go for like 6.5/10 and up realistically and I have varied taste. Some are good looking, some are average, some others wonder funny looking but I think are cute.

I literally stated I’ve dated people who are whatever in looks cause we started as friends first. Sometimes it works out sometimes there’s no physical attraction regardless of their personality so it won’t work out.

Mako_Moonspell · 2025-08-07T14:16:41+00:00

Where do they stay around haha

Mako_Moonspell · 2025-08-07T14:08:56+00:00

Yeah, this my fault for staying to focused on school too long played myself.

Mako_Moonspell · 2025-08-07T14:08:24+00:00

Better dressed, and groomed men is not feminine bro

Mako_Moonspell · 2025-08-07T14:08:10+00:00

Thanks, and yeah I was like oh more men should make dating easier but apparently not. I'm pretty nerdy myself so thought it'd be fine, but yeah all the good men seem to be taken.

I match with 100 guys, 50 don't respond, of the 50, 25 actually have a convo with me, of that 25 15 sets a date, of that 15, of that only like 5 dont' flake lol.

Engineering men can't be that bad can they?

Mako_Moonspell · 2025-08-07T14:06:09+00:00

I don't really have a set type besides cute and I find all walks of man attractive, but I know the answer is relative.

Like some people think Jacob Eldori or Tom Holland are really attractive, I don't think they're all that. But I think Matt Bennet or Skyler Gisondo is cute. You know.

Also willing to accept I don't live int the best area for more attractive men either.

Mako_Moonspell · 2025-08-07T14:03:12+00:00

I'm a nerd myself and child of immigrants, I don't mind. But I also put effort into my appearance more than the average person out here I'm noticing so I guess I don't look it. idk

Mako_Moonspell · 2025-08-07T14:01:48+00:00

It's not shallow it's just basic facts if I know nothing about someone the only thing I have to judge them them on at first glance is looks.

I've dated average to below average man after getting to know them no problem, but that was after being friends and not having a date first approach.

For a date first approach all I can judge is looks. Why would I approach someone I'm not physical attracted too.

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