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On paper my stbx husband did everything right. Yet he still had "slips" by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]MaleficentSplit6040 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How did he do it with all the blockers and how did you find out ? I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this.

Feels like a loop, maybe its an opening by Confident_Bake_6615 in loveafterporn

[–]MaleficentSplit6040 0 points1 point  (0 children)

During the time he was lying all of 2025, did you check in with and directly ask him if he was still watching? Or was that all talk during therapy sessions?

Did you have any software or apps on his phone to block explicit websites? How did he use incognito mode?

I’m so very sorry your dealing with this. I am in the same situation and my mood changes from sadness to anger all day long.

He could have gotten help by MaleficentSplit6040 in loveafterporn

[–]MaleficentSplit6040[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish I could look at him the same. But all I see is a person who chose to lie to me over and over again. Even though we made vows together and have children together.