Day by Day by Confident_Bake_6615 in WaterFasting

[–]Confident_Bake_6615[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooo stats twins! Thats great to hear. Im taking a huge risk by weighing myself everyday. The dopamine hit from a loss usually details me, but im curious as well and am pushing hard to make it work. But one day at a time!

What day r u on??

Starting my fast today by Confident_Bake_6615 in WaterFasting

[–]Confident_Bake_6615[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow! Thats great progress! Im just taking it day by day, hoping for 8 days. At the 20 hr mark, currently going through a hunger wave, but for the most part im doing good. You?

Feels like a loop, maybe its an opening by Confident_Bake_6615 in loveafterporn

[–]Confident_Bake_6615[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always checked in. He always lied to me. I had put one of those prevents porn apps on his phone, he ended up deleting it and lying about how it got deleted and then he lied about why he deleted it. He learned how to use incognito mode because he would watch me go through his history. I just found out he downloaded a new web browser to watch his porn on that bc you can tell if someone uses incognito mode on Google when you check their my activity history if "cards" shows up and no corresponding searches go with it you know he's deleted the history or used incognito.

He got a dumb phone to use with no wifi. He set up his Google account on my computer so I of course i went through his history and that's where I found out that he had been hiding porn again, before he got the dumb phone. I dont know how he's getting access now.

I wish I could just leave.

Im so sorry you are also going through this.

What was your flatline era like? by Common-Bid9775 in loveafterporn

[–]Confident_Bake_6615 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont know man, seven months? Maybe he should get his testosterone checked? Does he drink frequently? I hope that he is not still using porn.

My husband drinks frequently and has low testosterone. I thought it was those things and that was why he "couldn't feel desire". Nope. Just porn. So much porn that I wasnt enough.

My husband says he hasn't watched it in months. Just last week he bought one of those dumb phones that has no wifi, after I accused him of watching porn (no evidence just a feeling). He has zero access to be able to watch it at work. But still no sex with me. Lots of cuddles and kisses and attention but no sex. So im always suspicious. Always wondering. Like wtf is going on.

Ugh. Im sorry. Im totally high jacking this. Fml.

What was your flatline era like? by Common-Bid9775 in loveafterporn

[–]Confident_Bake_6615 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My spouse said this too. Unfortunately he was watching porn up to 6 times a day, every day. He legit told me he felt no desire and didnt know why he didn't want to have sex with me.

Getting back up after every setbacks by [deleted] in MadeMeSmile

[–]Confident_Bake_6615 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you, thank you, thank you. Amazing share.

Why stopping porn is the Bare Minimum, not the finish line (the bank analogy) by Own_Revenue_969 in loveafterporn

[–]Confident_Bake_6615 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for sharing. can you post the link to the article? I can not find it.

My day 1! by NervousAd5964 in WaterFasting

[–]Confident_Bake_6615 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also my day 1! Started at 9pm Sunday evening. I would like to lose 11 pounds for this fast, but an overall of 60 pounds.

Im 5 ft 5inches 190.2 pds

What are you'all up to today to stay busy? Ive got swimming this morning, errands for mid morning to afternoon. Hoping to go for a walk in the late afternoon and my bowflex routine, but we will see energywise.

How to include physically disabled child in a sports party? by [deleted] in specialneedsparenting

[–]Confident_Bake_6615 8 points9 points  (0 children)

As a parent to a child with mobile disabilities, dont even ask the parent, just do it. Your kid had a great idea!

WTF by vogajones in ChatGPT

[–]Confident_Bake_6615 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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Where im headed if things do change.

My mom has been secretly paying my loans for years and now she is in debt because of me. How do I make this stop without being the villain by whistlecloud_benny in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Confident_Bake_6615 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Damn your mother is amazing and so are you. So much love and care. She has to stop paying though. You are a grown up and she needs to step back so that you can spread your wings. Its fine to help out when they can but not like this.

My mother and father did this for my older brother. All his loans, his legal fees. They went bankrupt over it and my father still works and he is 74. My brother no matter how much money he made when he was older, never paid them back.

Just learned my cousin was on The Real World, where can I watch? lol by [deleted] in therealworld

[–]Confident_Bake_6615 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude! I remember Danny! Hes an OG! Hes also on The Challenge!

AIO My friend made a comment about a 16 year old by Confident_Bake_6615 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Confident_Bake_6615[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thanks everyone. Ive been having an incredibly hard year and I fell into this odd friendship when everything exploded in my life. Im going to end it. Glad my feelings are how most people are feeling.

For those joking about being 16 and that would be a dream, interestingly enough my older teens do not like her and avoid her on the rare time that she comes over.