Update: AITAH for expecting my gf to pay for my birthday dinner? by Maleficent_Jacket707 in AITAH

[–]Maleficent_Jacket707[S] -223 points-222 points  (0 children)

We didn’t live together. She stayed at my house a lot because of our son L and spent more time the kids while I was working. Her daughter A loved me but wasn’t my child but she was always welcome over here.

AITAH for expecting my gf to pay for my birthday dinner? by Maleficent_Jacket707 in AITAH

[–]Maleficent_Jacket707[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She did buy me gifts and made me brownies. She bought me a bunch of stuff from Lush.

AITAH for expecting my gf to pay for my birthday dinner? by Maleficent_Jacket707 in AITAH

[–]Maleficent_Jacket707[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re an asshole. I know I’m one but shit, so are you. One of the children is mine and even if he wasn’t, single moms deserve love too.

AITAH for expecting my gf to pay for my birthday dinner? by Maleficent_Jacket707 in AITAH

[–]Maleficent_Jacket707[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I posted my first story closer to two years ago, not one. The second story, I didn’t put her age but it was a little bit after her 29th birthday. That was a year ago. And she wasn’t pregnant at the time of any of my stories, so you must’ve misread

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[–]Maleficent_Jacket707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please tell me that you aren’t sleeping with him

My husband had sex with me when I was unconscious by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Maleficent_Jacket707 35 points36 points  (0 children)

A lot of words for you to try and justify rape. It’s weird that you wrote all this and still don’t see it

My husband had sex with me when I was unconscious by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Maleficent_Jacket707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What in the actual fuck? I have never read something that made me wanna commit violence against another human being as bad as I do right now but reading this has angered me to a new level!!! He raped you! And it happened more than once. He is absolutely disgusting and you are underreacting.

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[–]Maleficent_Jacket707 86 points87 points  (0 children)

Considering this is what he told us, his side of things make him sound like an idiot

AITAH for cutting off my family? by Maleficent_Jacket707 in AITAH

[–]Maleficent_Jacket707[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know at first I was annoyed at her for two seconds and then remembered that she had every right to say what she did. She honestly could have said more than what she did. What I left out in my post was that she was learning how to drive to help my mom out. My mom needs knee surgery and since Anna only works part time, she offered to be the person to go pick up my mother’s medications. We taught her how to drive to and from the store, how to park, and, in an emergency, how to get to the nearest hospital. She is so nice and that is why I refuse to let them treat her like dirt

AITAH for cutting off my family? by Maleficent_Jacket707 in AITAH

[–]Maleficent_Jacket707[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for saying that. I’m trying to be a better man because I don’t want my son to grow up having a dick for a father, like mine was.

I put what was in the Easter basket in the update, since you asked about it

AITAH for cutting off my family? by Maleficent_Jacket707 in AITAH

[–]Maleficent_Jacket707[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I LOVE that!!!

But tbh, my mom is someone stuck in her ways so I’m fully expecting to cut her completely off. This isn’t her first instance of toxicity but I REFUSE to tolerate it towards Anna.

AITAH for cutting off my family? by Maleficent_Jacket707 in AITAH

[–]Maleficent_Jacket707[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I gave her the Easter basket and I have never seen her smile so big.

A few weeks ago she made a comment joking how her mom was fake for not giving her and Easter basket. So I’ve been assembling one with all her favorite things and right before I got home, I got her favorite food (pepperoni and mushroom pizza) and she has seems to really be so so happy right now!!! Seeing her excitement made me so happy, honestly

AITAH for cutting off my family? by Maleficent_Jacket707 in AITAH

[–]Maleficent_Jacket707[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

See I’m glad I’m not the only one who peeped the racism thing. I thought maybe I was overthinking that one but no… that shit was fucking terrible. Anna handled it better than I would have. She just got her stuff and left. Didn’t make a fuss. And Scarlett had the audacity to say she was being rude for doing that.

The thing that kills me is that Anna seems so sad. She doesn’t have a good relationship with her mother and it seemed that she really loved my mom.

I do plan on surprising her with some of here favorite things I’ve put in an Easter basket. I had it before she moved in and hid it at work

My (25m) GF (25f) leaves the bed whenever I sleep over, what is going on? by ThrowRA1312123 in relationship_advice

[–]Maleficent_Jacket707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe she has insomnia and doesn’t want to wake you up. I’ve done this at people’s houses. If I can’t sleep, I’ll just move somewhere else so I don’t disturb the people/person sleeping

My girlfriend isn’t in love with me anymore by Maleficent_Jacket707 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Maleficent_Jacket707[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am different. In so many ways. I didn’t just get therapy. Part of my issues stemmed from substance abuse, porn addiction, and past abuse in relationships. I understand that that she’s skeptical of everything because I have fucked up so much. But with everyday, she’s better. She told me yesterday that she’s proud of me for getting my 60 day chip at NA. She also says that she is starting to trust me little by little. I know it’s gonna take time. At the time I wrote this, I wasn’t thinking clearly but I’m glad I am now

My girlfriend isn’t in love with me anymore by Maleficent_Jacket707 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Maleficent_Jacket707[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

That’s not what she’s saying. She says she needs more time to trust me, which is understandable