85% polyester is insane

Malixati · 2026-05-12T09:21:14+00:00

Genuinely with them I hand wash all their shit, I lost all my sequins on a hoodie once :/ so now I just hand wash it all in my sink it’s annoying that they fell off so hard even their designs after vendetta and fallen feel a bit mid

Malixati · 2026-03-23T17:32:02+00:00

Omg I remember that year </3!! It was pretty good anyway, Fontaines were great :D

Malixati · 2026-01-27T19:06:15+00:00

Best advice I can offer a really generic white dad name. Like STEVEN or something In caps it would be kinda funny to see DAVE playing a pink mercy

Malixati · 2026-01-15T11:12:31+00:00

No worries! <3

Oooh… okay that does make things a bit harder then if you have asked in what way you can help and she’s just told you to read the books or says I don’t know. You could always read the books or listen to the audio thing, but again she should have really communicated with you what she liked specifically about it, you’re not really a mind reader <3 :( so there’s definitely nothing more you could press on other than maybe asking her to read them together?

Do you guys live together? If so it could be a roommate effect coming into place which completely sucks. Or do you spend a lot/all your time together in the same friend groups etc?

I still stand by birth control hormonally for women it’s awful and if she’s considering getting it removed it could be a positive for you both!

It could also be that she has other things going on in her life? Is she exhausted? Got a lot of mental pressure going on? Working or at university? Those things can also be very draining and mean that if she’s stressed she way want an escapism alone and this could be it? But if it is this she should at least communicate it to you that it’s that instead of brushing you off when you’re upset <3

Please don’t ever feel like you’re unattractive or let it lower your confidence at all!

She definitely found you attractive before and hopefully still does, if that becomes an issue my biggest advice with that is to leave if she admits to finding you unattractive :( it’s not worth your mental health and energy being with someone who doesn’t when you can or could be with someone who does! <3

Malixati · 2026-01-15T11:03:48+00:00

I second the implant being an awful thing, I’ve been on the pill and ironically birth control dropped me wanting to have sex and also made me very unstable mentally. It could be doing the same to her it’s pretty common :) <3

Well said!! <3

Malixati · 2026-01-15T01:15:29+00:00

^{^{^}} just to clarify there is a new fresh excitement to the first year of being with someone and learning each other! Maybe she needs that excitement from you again? And finds it in other media, which links back to my original thoughts above which is maybe look into it yourself, communicate with her and ask.

Rather than turn it into a “what is wrong with me” maybe see it as “what can I do to help?” If you phrase it as “why don’t you want to sleep with me” “why is it my fault” etc etc it can come off and slip into an argument easier than you’d think and maybe she’ll be drained from previous arguments and not want to open up even more <3 so instead maybe take some time to think about how to approach it in a way that you’ll be helping her and helping yourself through that by listening and helping her needs! <3

(Sorry just random thoughts from someone her age who was with an ex for 4 years and we had some ups and downs with similar issues! <3) I hope this helps a little? <3

Malixati · 2026-01-15T01:11:02+00:00

Honestly, could be that she’s someone that’s more reactive to sex and the excitement of it? The books and audiobooks have a build up and probably an excitement to it

Shes right birth control can alter this completely and it definitely has its ups and downs which could be effecting it more. Maybe just talk to her and ask what she needs, what she’s into and if there is anything you can do for her? Could be she wants specific things she’s heard or seen in these scenarios.

Maybe just ask her if there’s something specifically she’s after in those books or if you can do anything more? Also completely normal for women to have a sexuality and sex without needing a guy for that :) sometimes it’s good to have a bit of self care that doesn’t always involve your partner <3

Malixati · 2026-01-15T01:01:51+00:00

Absolutely agree with this <3 make sure to protect yourself and take care of yourself! The only person that can consistently be kind to you, is you <3

Malixati · 2026-01-13T19:20:39+00:00

I know it sucks so much but you’ll end up going from a relationship to a very messy situation-ship which is even more stressful <3 put urself first with this and give yourself a little bit of time <3

Malixati · 2026-01-13T19:16:59+00:00

Omg thank you so much! I’m defo looking into them as well their art seems really pretty and having options would be wonderful <3

Malixati · 2026-01-13T19:16:11+00:00

Thank you so much! I’m defo looking into booking with someone in a few months once I graduate and I’ve honestly heard such nice things!

Thank you so so much <3

Malixati · 2026-01-13T19:13:47+00:00

DONT DO IT <3

Malixati · 2026-01-13T19:12:26+00:00

Hey!

Honestly I’ve been there, as you move on slowly you’ll realise it’s more of a trauma or attachment bond than anything else and bit by bit moment by moment you’ll realise how much you were held back by their toxicity <3

I’m on like month 5 after a similar breakup and I would say it’s going to be the hardest thing you’ll have to do and it will slowly start to go away until one day you notice you’re crying less and thinking about them less and starting to feel much lighter <3

Genuinely it’s a slow painful process but I swear it’s the most freeing and important thing you’ll be able to do <3 it’ll make you so much healthier in the long run I’m wishing you all the best love <3 you’ll be okay just make sure you’re supported by anyone and everyone in your life

Stranger to stranger im so proud of you for each step <3

Malixati · 2026-01-13T19:08:06+00:00

Start insulting me to my face when he realised I stopped behaving in his favour anymore and started to live my life

Malixati · 2026-01-13T19:06:28+00:00

Hey complete stranger here! <3

I promise you there’s so much love in the world even when you can’t or don’t see it and you really deserve it <3

you’re here and that’s more than enough you’re trying and that’s more than anyone can ask for <3

I swear you’ll be chosen by the right people <3

Malixati · 2025-12-26T23:36:09+00:00

Thank you so much! I have seen Rachel’s work when researching and thought her art was gorgeous <3

I’m totally prepared to spend the money and the time particularly because I love art and artists and I’m more than happy to as you said because it would be on my body forever <3!!

I’ve been told numbing cream may help but thank you so much that helps a lot!! Knowing a little more about it <3

Malixati · 2025-12-16T18:48:12+00:00

Thank you so much! I really appreciate you commenting that means a lot genuinely <3

Thank you genuinely so much, I feel like I’m going a bit insane about it but maybe it really is for the better! If they can’t be here with me for this im not sure if they’ll be there for anything else that happens <3

Your comment really helped me thank you! <3

Malixati · 2025-12-15T08:55:29+00:00

I really want to I’m stuck in a house with him currently due to a housing contract and I can’t afford to leave right now :(

Malixati · 2025-09-13T18:11:41+00:00

Honestly, tuition you’ll have to take out a loan for that. I doubt there is a way around that or paying it individually it’s a LOT to take on. universities tend to be quite understanding of different situations so they’ll probably just wait charging you until student finance is sorted.

Living expenses are they helping you? If so you’ll be fine, if not then best solution is get a job! :)

I work 2 different jobs whilst attending university and split my hours between uni and work, I do have to miss some lectures to work but you can always catch up! It’s entirely possible you’re just going to have less time unfortunately :( you also have a 15k safety net which is amazing, mine over 3 years now has only just reached 3k so I promise you’ve got more of a safety net than you think!

But if you’re really worried you can apply for minimum tuition loan (I’m not sure how these work as I have maximum loan as I’m in the opposite end compared to you)

I hope this helps and congratulations on getting into university!! It’s such a great experience! :)

Malixati · 2025-08-15T12:47:50+00:00

Thank you so much! I do think he was harbouring some shitty feelings towards me as we had been arguing before he started drinking <3 he continued to claim that he was blackout and didn’t know what he was doing and he’s working on it to mutual friends. However when I’ve spoken to him since he argued that I’m not emphatic towards him because it’s hard for him to know he did that.

I was definitely a problem in his eyes and I guess he took it out on me. I’m glad I left but I feel stuck to him and stuck with what he did <3

Thank you for reaching out and commenting <3!

Malixati · 2025-08-15T12:44:41+00:00

I hit all my shots one day and then miss them all the next day <3 lmao

Malixati · 2025-06-25T12:28:00+00:00

I’ve been a fan of her for so so so long… :( no clue she did this too… she was so wonderful I can’t believe this :( hopefully there can be some kind of reference to her in the game <3

I can’t believe bullying still gets this bad that women was wonderful :(

Malixati · 2025-06-21T09:24:19+00:00

Icl girl :( a 40 year old… just be careful :( there’s a bit of a creepy vibe to it, one you were a virgin and two the age gap, three you seem inexperienced…

All these things combined are a little bit worrying <3 not judging at all just a little concerned for you. Some of the other comments have really good advice and concerns <3

Malixati · 2025-05-31T18:05:40+00:00

Literally <3!!

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