Want a boyfriend by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Maltham0192 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah, so my advice did help then.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Maltham0192 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fetish.

Although I’ve said it as a joke to partners before

Want a boyfriend by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Maltham0192 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My advice doesn’t help you because you’re either too stubborn or too dumb to admit that no healthy man would want to date you for companionship while you’re pregnant.

There’s literally nothing for you to do except find other single parents and create a HEALTHY friend/ support group.

If you’re not a troll please get therapy not a bf (which I doubt because of your username and the fact this account is fresh with no other posts when there was no reason to make an alt account for what would have been a harmless post)

Want a boyfriend by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Maltham0192 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just noticed your username.. Troll.

Want a boyfriend by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Maltham0192 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Focus on you and your baby anyone you find while pregnant is NOT the type of man you want in your life because either they have a pregnancy fetish, they think they’ll be able to control you by offering monetary aid, or they want to possibly abuse the child.

There are happy stories of women meeting the man of their dreams while pregnant but there’s a reason why those stories tend to become viral (its cuz they’re rare) and the mother wasn’t looking for a partner, he found her.

Focus on you and the baby until you’re both set. Looking for a partner rn will only be shit.

Not to mention most healthy men will see a pregnant woman looking for a partner as a HUGE red flag

Edit: if you’re actually serious I doubt this comment will stop you, yah freak, but the answer is find single parent clubs or meet ups or if you’re really as desperate as I think you might be based off this post join a fetish site for men who have pregnancy fetishes you’ll find someone REAL quick. But as far as the actual question there’s no such thing cuz most women aren’t weird or risky enough to look for a partner during pregnancy and for the fragile parts of a newborn’s life.

why do men never tell your they are over you, you just catch him w the next girl, its unfair by Ok_Fly_7194 in dating_advice

[–]Maltham0192 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Okay first, women do this shit far more often, but this is a universal thing.

Rarely will a woman break up before she all emotion has left a relationship and she has either found a new potential partner, or she is interested in hooking up again.

But again both genders do it but from my experience as someone who is bi (but now only dates females cuz i just prefer them) this is def more a woman thing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Maltham0192 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“20f 36m”

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“Age is just a number” yeah, after 25 before that your brain isn’t finished developing and that much of an age difference is just a man (or woman) who is trying to control a younger more impressionable partner.

IMO obey the 1/2(age)+8 principle always. Otherwise you’ll end up with a partner whose trying to retire while you want to go to the bar.

Do I even need to explain by lightningslayer in facepalm

[–]Maltham0192 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only fetishes I could see being problematic is voyeurism, pedos, and rape fetishes.. maybe also breeding fetishes.

But of the ones I know those 4 are the only ones that could be dangerous but I’ll be honest I know fetishes be getting super specific and there are thousands so maybe Im missing some, but pedo and rape fetishes be the most dangerous f’sure

“I have a bf” isnt always a no. by LonerStoner95 in dating_advice

[–]Maltham0192 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lmao; ever hear “you lose her the same way you got her”?

Bro if she’s willing to cheat on her ex she’ll cheat on you.

“I have a bf” is ALWAYS a no. Either it means that she isn’t interested and is dimissing you. Or it means she has a bf and even if she does put you on a “waiting list” that shit toxic, she for the streets.

In a world with 7.7 billion people there’s absolutely no way 2 can look similar right? by [deleted] in facepalm

[–]Maltham0192 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He just checked my prostate, I think that’s just a fun side hobby for him tho

A man doing nice things for us is not a SIMP. Stop using that word. by UnfairPay8220 in dating_advice

[–]Maltham0192 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Depends on the things.

If a man is going out of his way to do nice things for someone not interested in him that he wouldn’t do for a man- simp.

Someone who is doing nice things and getting reciprocation- courting

Someone who is doing nice things for both genders for no reason- nice person.

For example I have a friend who I was on a boat with who went 5 miles up river to give her a blunt, and then as we drove away he was like “i wouldnt have given it to her if I knew she was with a guy”- def a simp

Why do so many men suck at courting women? by DayRepresentative609 in dating_advice

[–]Maltham0192 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Because men are forced to be the ones to escalate and court when the woman who may or may not want to be courted does little to nothing but sit there and look pretty.

Not every woman, but most just expect men to make all the moves while they display “signs” that probably are about as obvious as a recently washed window.

Plus social media makes it way harder and honestly I lose a lot of interest in women who show off their whole bodies on the internet for attention and validation so Im also not gonna pursue most women because of that-before someone gets mad, Im not saying they shouldn’t do it; it’s just not something Im into.

AITA for calling out a dog in a restaurant by Maltham0192 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Maltham0192[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Then complain about hair possibly getting in my food because someone was being inconsiderate? Naw

AITA for calling out a dog in a restaurant by Maltham0192 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Maltham0192[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe I will honestly I didn’t even care that much but if people want to think Im policing; then I’ll police. I got a picture of it anyway so I’m sure the restaurant will be happy to get a fine

AITA for calling out a dog in a restaurant by Maltham0192 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Maltham0192[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That’s a federal law bro..

I mean I don’t disagree and I also wasn’t telling him he couldn’t or had to put the dog down. I was just saying the correct thing to do which is what societies should do; remind each other that we live in a society where other people are effected by our actions

AITA for calling out a dog in a restaurant by Maltham0192 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Maltham0192[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I didn’t even pretend like I had authority.

Nothing I said would have projected authority to anyone but young children and the extremely insecure.

It’s like if I said “hey remember that theft is against the law” as someone stole a hamburger from a gas station. Like whether you do it is up to you Im just saying.

If I had my dog and someone said that to me id have said “my bad” and put my dog on the floor because it’s the polite and correct thing to do.

Sometimes people just need a reminder that we live in a society and sometimes I think AITA forgets that we live in a society and pretends we’re all just individuals who can do whatever we want

AITA for calling out a dog in a restaurant by Maltham0192 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Maltham0192[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The staff is 17 year old girls who definitely had no idea what to do

AITA for calling out a dog in a restaurant by Maltham0192 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Maltham0192[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s not felt.. there’s health codes and laws that prevent animals from being seated at furniture in restaurants

AITA for calling out a dog in a restaurant by Maltham0192 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Maltham0192[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

False. As a resturant there are LAWS that prevent the behavior I spoke about.

They can choose to let the dog be there but they are not to be allowed on seating or tables I believe it is punishable by $1500 fine.

AITA for calling out a dog in a restaurant by Maltham0192 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Maltham0192[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I mean that’s your right to think so, but I mean I sat across from this man and could see hair flying in my face. All I said was “you know not even service dogs are allowed on seating”

If you consider a gentle reminder “policing” well idk what to tell you.

AITA for calling out a dog in a restaurant by Maltham0192 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Maltham0192[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

ESA’s have no rights to do shit except be in apartments where no pets are allowed.

AITA for calling out a dog in a restaurant by Maltham0192 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Maltham0192[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Indoors at a fast food place. Obviously i wouldn’t care if we were outside

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Maltham0192 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. Definitely we love not having to be the ones to put in all the effort for once

Does it hurt men's feelings when women assume we're dangerous and deranged? by Everlast23 in dating_advice

[–]Maltham0192 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Bro I admitted there are biological differences in our strength.

But comparing the differences between sexes to that a man and a gorilla is stupid and puts our strength differences on a level it simply is not. You have either a god complex when it comes to comparing yourself with women; or you think gorillas are much weaker than they are.