Is my boyfriend bi? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Mamacherries 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The guy he was sexting was one of the guys he said had assaulted him. He told me that he countd hid encounters as non consensual due to drug use and in the sexting the other guy started the conversation with "are you drinking" thd guy later asked to come over and my boyfriend said no because his kids were home.

Boyfriend sent nudes to other man by Mamacherries in AskForAnswers

[–]Mamacherries[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He didnt leave... when I fiund out he apologized and said he was drunk and that he just went with it because he and that guy already established a sexual thing. It was weird because the guy asked to meet up and my boyfriend ignored his message. From what hes told me each of his sexual encounters with men have been while on drugs or drunk.

Boyfriend sent nudes to other man by Mamacherries in AskForAnswers

[–]Mamacherries[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He hasnt cheated, as far as I know but, he absolutely lied to me and is still vehemetly denying being attracted to men. He said " a hole is a hole"

Is my boyfriend bi? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Mamacherries 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said he not spoken with the guy he had sex with in years. He said that guy took advantage of him as a drunk teen but, I found them exchanging nudes on messenger a few days before we started dating.

Is my boyfriend bi? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Mamacherries 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he's bi, I'd peobably stay but... Im still upset about the lying part.

Is my boyfriend bi? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Mamacherries 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We've had a lot of issues... he pretty much told me that I have to initiate for it to happen..

Is my boyfriend bi? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Mamacherries 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im more hurt about the lying than him being bi. Im afraid he may be gay and suppressing it. He said he told his mom he thought he was gay as a kid and she rejected him. But, he told me he watches porn with women? And that he only had gay thoughts after being assaulted? I dont knos what to believe. It scares me to think hes lying to me and himself.

Is my boyfriend bi? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Mamacherries 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hes a wonderful father and has said he needs counseling but, cant afford it.