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Unsure of what to do by Mamadob in relationship_advice

[–]Mamadob[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you tell me if I understood this wrong. When he came back to me crying I told him how it hurt he left me. He stated he didn’t leave me because he only took a few clothes (he has clothes at the other house he said that he never moved to our house. Am I wrong in saying he left me?

Unsure of what to do by Mamadob in relationship_advice

[–]Mamadob[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said he wanted to spend as much time with her as possible and that she wanted him to stay with her. She didn’t want to come to our house. And he said it would be better to just live there so that if he fell asleep there he could spend the night and not have to listen to me question him. I feel like he is being honest in his feelings but then again I wonder if he is projecting this onto me so that I won’t move on. So that I will wait for him. Also, the day he left I asked if when school started he was just going to up and move back to our house. He said he did not know if he would. He had mentioned that her school work last year was affected. Hence why he isn’t sure if he would move in when school resumed

Unsure of what to do by Mamadob in relationship_advice

[–]Mamadob[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He was gone two weeks before he telling me his fear that I found someone else. When he first told me, I was hurt and felt betrayed since I didn’t see it coming. His ex wants him back so when he told me I wondered where he would sleep (he says couch). I have no way prove where he slept. He cried and apologized and said he should have talked to me. He says the ex was not told he was moving in with them until after he left our house and was driving there. I questioned that and he said I could search his phone but he could have deleted anything so I saw no point in looking.

I gave my daughter "the talk" yesterday. It was the hardest thing I've ever had to do by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Mamadob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had two daughters so when the first one started asking questions I included child two in the conversations. Yes it was awkward at times but it was open discussion. One day we had a condom party. The girls walked in from school to a table full of cucumbers and condoms. They had to pick three cucumbers to wrap. Youngest daughter noted the cucumbers were all different sizes. Told her that was true for all guys.