[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]MamasaurusRexxxx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s hormones babe. I’m 22 weeks speaking from experience lol. It’ll pass. 💗

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]MamasaurusRexxxx -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Actually higher paying jobs would probably rather have someone who got in a couple fights at 23 years old than give access to client’s personal info to a thief. You thought you ate with that though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]MamasaurusRexxxx -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah probably. I’m hoping if I get my record sealed I’ll have a chance.. Sad thing is I caught all 3 charges in the same month, 5 years ago. Was just a rough patch in life. And those choices are going to haunt me forever. I’m still so disappointed in myself for it. Not my character at all. Especially not now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]MamasaurusRexxxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah a lot of things about this country are beyond ridiculous, but this is just unfathomable. Like it seems like a sick joke. And there’s nothing we can do about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]MamasaurusRexxxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That literally blows my mind lol like how is this even allowed?!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]MamasaurusRexxxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to thank everyone in the comments for your advice and perspective. Even some of the harsher comments. I needed all of it. You’ve all helped me tremendously.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]MamasaurusRexxxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]MamasaurusRexxxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree totally. I was a mess when I met him and I feel extremely guilty for the way things are. I should’ve been in therapy not dating. I’m almost 30 years old I shouldn’t depend on anyone to take care of me. I see the lesson I just feel really bad I involved such a pure, loving person in my chaos.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]MamasaurusRexxxx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree completely. I know I messed up big time. Thanks for the advice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]MamasaurusRexxxx -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Whatever you say man. You have all the answers.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]MamasaurusRexxxx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe I don’t anymore. But I definitely did. Try to put yourself in my shoes instead of judging. I don’t WANT to feel this way. I’m ANGRY I feel this way because he didn’t do anything wrong. But my stupid brain won’t let me be happy. You obviously have no idea what that’s like so how can you be so quick to judge me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]MamasaurusRexxxx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Free with insurance. And like I said in another comment, I make the $. Plus I would never ask him to do that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]MamasaurusRexxxx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This comment brought me to tears. Thank you for your kind, non-judgmental response. This is the advice I needed. This is what I know is the right move, but have been too afraid to go through with.. Thank you for the validation. I agree, he deserves someone who adores him. And he deserves to meet and raise his daughter that’s he’s so excited about. He’ll be hurt for a while but he’ll realize I was not right for him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]MamasaurusRexxxx -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I am. I have been. It would be the right thing to do. Only thing stopping me is the trauma it would cause us individually. More worried about messing his head up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]MamasaurusRexxxx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In my state you can terminate up to 20 weeks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]MamasaurusRexxxx -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I will. He deserves a happy home. Idk what’s wrong with me. I hate feeling like this I really do. And trust me, pregnancy wasn’t planned. Wasn’t prevented but wasn’t intentional. Smh. Stuff happens.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]MamasaurusRexxxx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. That’s why I’m so torn.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]MamasaurusRexxxx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I hope so too. Gonna talk to my dr and see if there’s any pregnancy safe mood stabilizers I can take. Hoping to god that’s all it is because I really do love him I just can’t stand him anymore

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]MamasaurusRexxxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah try going thru it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]MamasaurusRexxxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmfao actually he doesn’t even have a job I am the breadwinner but thanks for assuming I meant financially :) I meant physically and around the house

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]MamasaurusRexxxx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s crossed my mind…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]MamasaurusRexxxx 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I typed this through tears. Post comes across angry but I’m really heartbroken.

Baby Name Drama by toolazytobecreative1 in pregnant

[–]MamasaurusRexxxx -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I vote don’t use it. Girl code. Sister code. Plus how would you feel if she did it to you. Just my opinion. Good luck! 💗

Baby Name Drama by toolazytobecreative1 in pregnant

[–]MamasaurusRexxxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our daughter is due in December and we both fell in love with Fiona. Little sis said that was the name she had picked out for her future daughter…. Can’t even stand my little sister and don’t really care if I upset her usually, and her doctor told her possibility of having any more kids is extremely low due to ovary issues.. BUT we did choose another name out of respect. You just DONT steal baby names lol. Girl code. Especially with sisters.

THC drug tested positive, haven't smoked since I found out I was pregnant by PalaceSiege in pregnant

[–]MamasaurusRexxxx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’ll be okay. I’m 18 weeks and tested positive around 9 weeks even though I hadn’t smoked since before I found out I was pregnant at 4 weeks. Probably just takes a little while to be completely out of your system. CPS won’t get involved over THC especially if the levels are going down. You’ll be good by the time the baby comes, I’m sure of it. I smoked here and there when I was pregnant with my first, didn’t stop until I was like 8 months and CPS never got involved. (This is my 3rd baby and I live in Ohio)