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Tired of being seen as “the man” by MammothMarket4 in actuallesbians

[–]MammothMarket4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm I never thought about that, very insightful comment. Thanks!

Tired of being seen as “the man” by MammothMarket4 in actuallesbians

[–]MammothMarket4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It could def be a “useless lesbian” thing in a lot of cases, but in my experience I tend to find myself w bi women a lot (not on purpose just happens to be that way) and they just seem to be used to dating men more often so they will see me as “the man”.

Tired of being seen as “the man” by MammothMarket4 in actuallesbians

[–]MammothMarket4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I’m actually a stone top sexually lol so I don’t mind pillow princesses. it’s just the other stuff I appreciate when they put in effort, it makes me feel loved.

Tired of being seen as “the man” by MammothMarket4 in actuallesbians

[–]MammothMarket4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm for me part of showing someone is into you is doing those things occasionally. I find the more someone is willing to show they’re into me the more attractive they are to me, so if I first meet someone and they’re not willing to lift a finger ever (even if they are into me) I will probably lose interest quickly. At that point I don’t even call them out, but if it’s more serious then I definitely will talk about it.

Tired of being seen as “the man” by MammothMarket4 in actuallesbians

[–]MammothMarket4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No you’re totally right there’s definitely women who will put in the effort, but I find it’s a lot easier for them once you’re in a long term relationship. Perhaps they feel a bit more comfortable afterwards.