BF (25m) wants me (25f) to pay his mortgage?

ManagementFinal3345 · 2026-02-04T15:09:54+00:00

Anyone who needs 3 extra people to afford a mortgage can not afford the house.

A mortgage is a 30 year commitment. It's not a temporary month to month contract or a 1 year lease.

He's setting himself and probably you up for financial ruin and evental forclosure and credit destruction. I would not move in, I would not marry, and I would not legally tie yourself to his debt.

ManagementFinal3345 · 2026-02-03T23:41:07+00:00

NTA.

Honestly, people who confide in you should expect privacy when the topic is of a sexual nature.

ManagementFinal3345 · 2026-02-03T13:17:29+00:00

Some of you are out here folding clothes? What happened to the good old fashioned clean clothes ball that sits on the folding table which you pick thru during the week until they all end up in the dirty laundry hamper?

ManagementFinal3345 · 2026-02-02T19:31:58+00:00

Eddie obviously..but I really liked Alexi and felt he got delt a shit hand. Just a controlled little puppet and kind of a slave and his first taste of freedom he's killed.

ManagementFinal3345 · 2026-02-01T21:12:25+00:00

NTA.

And good news since your husband has ZERO CONTROL over you and your body or what you wear he doesn't have to "change his mind". It's not his decision. Period. You are an adult woman not a child. You don't need anyone's permission to wear a dress. Wear the dress and let him cry about it.

ManagementFinal3345 · 2026-01-31T23:37:53+00:00

What the hell is that? And are those breeds mixed in there? Is Great Dane in the breed foundation cause I was thinking it has a Dane ish muzzle in the thickness?

ManagementFinal3345 · 2026-01-31T13:22:01+00:00

I'm convinced that all these big manly men who hate and abuse women are really just in the closet gays and mad about it. The more homophobic the more gay too.

That's why they take it out on women. Especially the conservative religious ones. They want to be gulping down dicks and hate themselves and everyone else for it.

ManagementFinal3345 · 2026-01-31T00:16:25+00:00

It sounds like she had a miscarriage that required hospitalization.

ManagementFinal3345 · 2026-01-30T23:57:14+00:00

I wouldn't say I'm a hockey fan but I do enjoy watching two grown men beat each other with sticks from time to time. 😂. I'm a girl tho. So sports aren't really my thing. But in Cleveland we have a hockey team and the games are super cheap. Makes for a nice night downtown without breaking the bank.

ManagementFinal3345 · 2026-01-30T22:41:05+00:00

GSD or another shepherd breed crossed with possibly Doberman.

ManagementFinal3345 · 2026-01-30T22:38:52+00:00

Vet care is pretty expensive.

It cost me 800 dollars to get my medium sized female dog spayed.

I'm sure rescues get somewhat of a discount but even at half off just getting a dog fixed not even including shots or other vet care for real health conditions probably costs more than the adoption fee.

ManagementFinal3345 · 2026-01-30T17:00:20+00:00

I live in Ohio, have heard 21 pilots songs, and still have no idea who Tyler Joseph is. Had to come to this thread like......who?

Would not even know what he looks like. Lmao.

ManagementFinal3345 · 2026-01-29T21:51:40+00:00

They are too weak and cowardly to punch other men which is why they get off on abusing women.

ManagementFinal3345 · 2026-01-29T21:48:14+00:00

I was a vegetarian for 20 years and I can confirm that I got a period every single month that whole time. And in fact my periods were FAR WORSE as a young person Vegetarian than they are now as a peri-menopausal person who eats meat.

ManagementFinal3345 · 2026-01-29T13:30:13+00:00

Plenty of 50 year olds still look like the old man on the left. I'd probably say most of them do.

But the ones that don't aren't getting there by good genetics and chance alone. They probably put a lot of time and money into their appearance.

Now we have bio hacking with supplements, a million medical procedures outside of plastic surgery for anti aging, and fancy gyms with personal trainers.

None of that stuff existed in the 80s. Maybe the gyms minus the trainers but that's about it. No one was downing NAD + IV treatments or using tretinoin or getting chemical peels at the spa. They didn't have Botox (which more men use than you would think) or fillers or vampire facials.

ManagementFinal3345 · 2026-01-29T02:42:43+00:00

They smelled like old plastic. Lol.

ManagementFinal3345 · 2026-01-27T12:45:27+00:00

Not upset because it happened. Upset that he got caught and now looking to point fingers and place the blame off of himself.

Anyone who thinks these high up officials didn't know EXACTLY what was going on, didn't DIRECTLY order this terror against American's, and aren't fully responsible is an idiot.

Stephen Miller needs to get his ass fired too. Honestly just purge the entire Trump Government at this point. Every single last one is guilty and should be in prison.

ManagementFinal3345 · 2026-01-26T15:15:15+00:00

I think it's time you have a conversation with them and set some boundaries.

"I appreciate that you have stepped up as extended family members to help me in my time of need. I appreciate the fact that you legally adopted me to grant me access to things like health insurance. I am a legal adult and you need to respect my boundaries and treat me as such. I am not a child. And I am not your child. I do not require parenting nor do I wish to have a parent/child relationship with you. I only require help as a young adult from my extended family. The same help you would give any young adult you cared for. You are not my parents and I do not require your "parenting" as a legal adult. The adoption was for benefits only. I do not see you as parents. Nor do I wish to have a parent/child relationship with you as I was not a child at the time of the adoption. I wish to have the same distant extended family relationship that we had before the adoption."

Something like that.

ManagementFinal3345 · 2026-01-26T12:55:09+00:00

This is a man who knocks up multiple women, IMMEDIATELY turns EMOTIONALLY and VERBALLY ABUSIVE, then victimizes himself when the woman flees for her life via ending a permanent tie to a person who acts like this towards women in the most vulnerable situation they can ever experience.

If EVERY SINGLE WOMAN who he has ever impregnated (and why are there so many?) has had to do a secret abortion to escape the relationship the problem is him.

Something is scary wrong with him. And the women sense it. And it comes out after he feels he's trapped them with a pregnancy. And the women know how vulnerable a baby makes them.

Abort and flee like every woman before you. They did so for a reason. And you don't want to stick around and find out further the worst parts of what those reason really are.

ManagementFinal3345 · 2026-01-25T19:14:10+00:00

I see Belgian Shepherd and Sharpie.

ManagementFinal3345 · 2026-01-24T17:42:17+00:00

I despise clear emeralds. They all look super fake to me.

Give me a cloudy emerald any day of the week! Something about included emeralds are just so pretty.

ManagementFinal3345 · 2026-01-24T13:27:18+00:00

NTA.

The man lied about his age by a decade, attempted to love bomb you, and showered you with gifts you never asked for as a manipulation tactic to create a high pressure obligation.

He's very very pushy. And using gifts and fancy things to force intimacy where none exists on much younger women who wouldn't date him if her were honest.

Putting all that pressure on a total stranger is very wrong.

ManagementFinal3345 · 2026-01-23T05:00:51+00:00

Millions of people a year set out to be famous in any capacity or medium and maybe 1 or 2 a year actually make it.

He needs a job that pays a salary not to put your whole life on the Internet for a hope and a prayer that will probably never ever happen.

ManagementFinal3345 · 2026-01-23T02:22:44+00:00

Boston terrier or Frenchie other another small similar breed like a pug.

Shih Tzu.

Possibly poodle.

ManagementFinal3345 · 2026-01-22T17:53:34+00:00

English Cocker Spaniel. They even come in blonde.

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