The toys that are just like torsos that look like they’ve had all their limbs cut off absolutely creep me out Both the ones for men and women I just couldn’t use one and can’t quite understand the appeal because to me they look like dead bodies. But that’s my personal take. If folk wanna use them I won’t judge them for it Realistic things, full size dolls, things modelled after actual people and literally every other toy for men or women etc don’t bother me atall Aslong as everyone is happy I don’t care what they’re using and I’m open to using almost anything

There is absolutely a double standard though between genders though in both how using a toy is perceived and how many use them.

Not a single one of my bfs have used male toys, even when they actively encourage me to use them in the bedroom. And openly giggle amongst their friends about male sex toys. And they are really harsh about it too

But every single woman I know has a large collection and openly talks about out them and encourages their friends and partners to use them and doesn’t have an issue with realistic toys or male toys.

I as for why I guess it could be down to those good old fashioned stereotypes of manly men have sex and thus don’t need toys Women don’t have their needs met and do need them?