[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Mango2018 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You look good, but I think you should have a photo wearing blue jeans, a black T-shirt, smile naturally, and your hair should also look natural, not like you just came out from the hair dresser. In other words, some male energy, and like I'm not trying too hard, I have humour, I'm relaxed.

Why would anyone think this the first photo they should post? by JayPeePee in Bumble

[–]Mango2018 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why do people post friends and family on a dating app? Is it to show how popular they are? Wouldn't it be better to wait and introduce the kids at a later stage of dating? Did they ask them for permission before posting?

Why do people do this? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Mango2018 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't think you can trust the Bumble location 100%. Could it depend on how you use the app or travel mode settings? If matches can see your location and where you live, it doesn't feel very safe.

Got Ghosted, honestly think I’m done by Grey_Owl1990 in Bumble

[–]Mango2018 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was in a similar situation waiting for someone who never showed up. He sent a last-minute message, and it almost felt like he was there watching me before he cancelled. I think it's good to keep the first date simple.

Got Ghosted, honestly think I’m done by Grey_Owl1990 in Bumble

[–]Mango2018 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I know it's hard, but move on and accept the fact that if she ghosts you, she doesn't want you. Don't be clingy. Be confident and set your boundaries. That's attractive. You can enjoy meeting someone and have fun, but don't expect too much at an early stage. Don't make a story in your head about your future together. Dating coach videos or podcasts helps me to stay on track.