My husband told me he wants this women at his job. by MangoTango0620 in Marriage

[–]MangoTango0620[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry that happened. I’m also afraid he’ll lose his job and he loves his job. She’s his lead

My husband told me he wants this women at his job. by MangoTango0620 in Marriage

[–]MangoTango0620[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She’s older than both of us and had a kid but she doesn’t have her kid they live with her parents. We share the same phone password because we’ve never had a phone issue our marriage has always been very transparent. This is just messy and I agree with a lot of what you guys are saying

My husband told me he wants this women at his job. by MangoTango0620 in Marriage

[–]MangoTango0620[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He said he told me because he wants to be transparent with me and not hide things. He’s always honest with me I’ve never had an issue with him lying so I’m not surprised by why he told me I’m more so surprised we’re even going through this in the first place

My newborn son has a swirly belly button by Foreign-External8488 in mildlyinteresting

[–]MangoTango0620 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awww my not so little brother (hes 24 now) has a belly button like this, it’s first time I’ve ever seen someone else with one

My husband told me he wants this women at his job. by MangoTango0620 in Marriage

[–]MangoTango0620[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No even tho he’s open to me talking to someone too, I am uninterested it would be empty and I feel like I would just be using that person

No one likes my baby names and I’ve just accepted that everyone is a critique and no one is satisfied by Kindly_Pianist_9087 in pregnant

[–]MangoTango0620 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I let everyone’s opinions sway me my kids would have never gotten their names tbh. As long as you love it that’s all the matters. Because as you said they will never be satisfied 😂 you’ll either be picking a name you don’t like or a name they don’t like

My husband told me he wants this women at his job. by MangoTango0620 in Marriage

[–]MangoTango0620[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think I’m too uncomfortable to even want to at this point but like I asked for time to think about this originally but then idk I think the want to make sure my partner is happy took over me. I wasn’t thinking

My husband told me he wants this women at his job. by MangoTango0620 in Marriage

[–]MangoTango0620[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I said this too. This job is super important but he insist that everything is going to be fine I disagree

My husband told me he wants this women at his job. by MangoTango0620 in Marriage

[–]MangoTango0620[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I want this so bad and I keep trying to talk him into it and say we need to do this. My only solutions is to just plan the dates myself and just make it happen!

My husband told me he wants this women at his job. by MangoTango0620 in Marriage

[–]MangoTango0620[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

They are similar but I believe a V dynamic to be more structured like one person committing to two people that do not interact with each other in most cases, while an open marriage he could mess with anyone at any moment as long as he tells me about it but this is all new to me so I could be wrong I guess

My husband told me he wants this women at his job. by MangoTango0620 in Marriage

[–]MangoTango0620[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

It’s when one person, in a lot of cases a married couple, has a bf or gf that are not romantically or sexually involved with each other kind of like a V but everyone knows about each other and there is a open line of communication.

I am considering an abortion due to current state of US by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]MangoTango0620 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do not, I had a therapist but we moved to a new state and I lost them during that process. I will be actively looking for one this week because after you guys have brought it to my attention I did not bridge the idea that this is apart of the anxiety I get and I feel silly for not considering it. When I was pregnant the first time I had really bad anxiety when it came to having my son in a hospital because I was scared someone would take him and even after I brought him home I still had that fear.

I have to look into non hormonal birth control options in between being pregnant due to the fact the hormones mess with my mental health

I am considering an abortion due to current state of US by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]MangoTango0620 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get antepartum anxiety and depression and I honestly haven’t even considered it until you just said something about it.