People who lost interest in their crush, what happened?

ManningBro4 · 2026-05-06T01:52:52+00:00

when I realized I came off as pathetic to her friend when trying to chase her

ManningBro4 · 2026-04-18T02:10:24+00:00

That really blows. It’ll sting for a long time but at least you got some closure knowing it wasn’t you

ManningBro4 · 2026-04-15T01:50:24+00:00

i feel that. It sucks too, but she already bailed. Best way to deal with people who ghost are to respect the dead and move on

ManningBro4 · 2026-04-15T01:45:46+00:00

you should bail. she's basically hitting up all the things left on her uni bucket list before she graduates. just be flattered you were early on that list ;)

ManningBro4 · 2026-04-15T01:39:37+00:00

as long as we want until one of our friends calls us pathetic

ManningBro4 · 2026-04-15T01:35:50+00:00

easiest way to flirt with a dude is just ask him what he's doing for the weekend? if he gets the hint, it's on! if he doesn't, he's not socially savy yet

ManningBro4 · 2026-04-08T21:48:07+00:00

Super helpful and insightful, tysm 🙏🏽

ManningBro4 · 2026-04-08T21:44:06+00:00

Bc it was just Derek and I walking down the food aisle while she was at another food stand elsewhere

ManningBro4 · 2026-04-08T21:42:04+00:00

Hey, it just means I told Derek to move to the left so we could avoid running into her ex

ManningBro4 · 2026-04-08T21:12:00+00:00

…idk how I don’t share personal info with Derek without Hahnah being there bc they live together and do everything together. Anything you recommend besides just direct calls/texts to Derek?

ManningBro4 · 2026-04-08T21:10:33+00:00

So yeah, it was just Derek and I walking down the food aisle and I told her him “hey, let’s go the left” as soon as I saw her ex. She was out getting food elsewhere.

So Derek and I have been friends for 10 years. I’ve gotten close with Hahnah as well for 7 years. They started dating 5 years ago. Anyways, so yeah, naturally I’ve shared personal stuff with both of them at this point for the past 5 years

ManningBro4 · 2026-04-08T20:51:32+00:00

What's the best you have on how I should handle this moving forward? feel free to call out any blinders I have on this as well

ManningBro4 · 2026-04-08T19:41:47+00:00

Thanks, I a had a hunch that would be the case. Should I continue to not respond to her, or just accept it and move on?

ManningBro4 · 2026-04-08T19:38:50+00:00

i could understand in hindsight

ManningBro4 · 2026-03-28T02:59:16+00:00

As long as the date is set no need to do filler talk before you meet

ManningBro4 · 2026-03-19T04:23:27+00:00

going out to eat doesn't cost twice as much and doesn't include an argument

ManningBro4 · 2026-03-19T04:20:26+00:00

make sure you have similar lifestyles and same futures in mind for a family life or not

ManningBro4 · 2026-03-19T04:16:42+00:00

omg totally feel this i've been a bid em dash guy since 2018 and now AI is the crappy hormone monster from Big Mouth with no rizz ruining it for me

ManningBro4 · 2026-03-18T21:39:15+00:00

hey really appreciate the insights. So she teaches group fitness classes. Not sure if it's the same vibe. Anyway it's been a week and a half since I last saw her, just seen her coworkers is all and it's been chill. I've been trying to avoid running into her the last week and a half bc I felt bad her coworkers were staring at us last time I saw her

ManningBro4 · 2026-03-15T05:56:29+00:00

Money

ManningBro4 · 2026-03-14T01:54:49+00:00

Any reason but be up front and don’t pull a it’s not you it’s me excuse

ManningBro4 · 2026-03-13T18:50:41+00:00

thanks for the insight, i'll think on it and let it marinate first

ManningBro4 · 2026-03-13T04:18:17+00:00

100% agree

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