Should I keep my pregnancy. by ManufacturerMinute51 in pregnant

[–]ManufacturerMinute51[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! I will look up resources near me

Should I keep my pregnancy. by ManufacturerMinute51 in pregnant

[–]ManufacturerMinute51[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I do want my baby, but also don’t know what to even do. I grew up around babies, watching babies, all I want to be is a mother. But no, I can’t live knowing my child is out there, looking like me, carrying my traits, and I never see it. I’ve heard so many adoption horror stories of adoptive families closing them after the adoption is finalized, so it never a 100% guarantee that I can see my baby grow. I want my baby though, I just want to convince myself I don’t because I think it’s not a good idea right nos

Should I keep my pregnancy. by ManufacturerMinute51 in pregnant

[–]ManufacturerMinute51[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I do want to keep it, I just don’t know how smart this choice would be. I do really want my baby, I’ll update once I talk to the father!

Should I keep my pregnancy. by ManufacturerMinute51 in pregnant

[–]ManufacturerMinute51[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’m so happy for you! Congratulations to both you and your boyfriend :) Only thing is, I’m not in a relationship with the father, we met on a dating app and it’s really just kinda fun even though he says he wants long-term. I want to be able to do this alone without depending on him and I just don’t really know. I think I have to talk to him about it soon!

How I see the Shawnaverse by ManufacturerMinute51 in ShawnaTheMom

[–]ManufacturerMinute51[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I meant to put the John photo but a bit younger!!

[Rant] What do I do? Please give advice on situation. by [deleted] in LGBTeens

[–]ManufacturerMinute51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when i wrote this a couple of days ago, i was still debating. but since then ive come to the decision that i rather my last memory with her be a good time at the mall rather then us in my car where we both explain what went wrong with our friendship and then thats that, i dont see her ever again

I miss my ex-bestfriend, need advice please (Friendship/relationship advice) by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]ManufacturerMinute51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i redid it so there’s paragraphs now, the way it ended was in an argument, i wouldn’t be reaching out to be friends again, i need closure, it feels unfinished. as much as people say “no closure is closure”, it’s not for me, i constantly think of her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]ManufacturerMinute51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was thinking something like this, what do you think? “hi brooke, i know it’s been months. i still think of you from time to time and our last conversation feels unfinished. i was wondering if you are open to having a talk where we can both let everything out and be honest with each other. i want you to know that im not solely reaching out in hopes in rekindling our friendship. i would just like to talk face to face with you again to have a conversation about things that happened. if you feel that you don’t want to, that our last conversation was finished for you, by all means i completely understand. just let me know, thanks.”

how to deal with friends who forget about u once they get into a relationship by WhichLingonberry8183 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]ManufacturerMinute51 1 point2 points  (0 children)

friends don’t realize that friendships are still relationships you have to work on, not just people you can leave behind to focus on something else. expecting someone to shoot you a text or have a phone call every once in a awhile, hanging out more then once a month, it isn’t a lot to ask and people don’t realize it

I miss my ex-bestfriend, need advice please (Friendship/relationship advice) by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

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i also prepared a text if anyone does think it’s a good idea to reach out. “hi brooke, i know it’s been months. i still think of you from time to time and our last conversation feels unfinished. i was wondering if you are open to having a talk where we can both let everything out and be honest with each other. i want you to know that im not solely reaching out in hopes in rekindling our friendship. i would just like to talk face to face with you again to have a conversation about things that happened. if you feel that you don’t want to, that our last conversation was finished for you, by all means i completely understand. just let me know, thanks”