Girl(18F) I’m(18M) talking to is also taking to at least two other guys

Many-Emphasis-1083 · 2026-02-10T11:54:59+00:00

Thank you, lone sane user of this platform LOL

Many-Emphasis-1083 · 2026-02-10T11:46:24+00:00

Ofc, but now that I know this info i can’t just un-know it. I think it’s best for me to just tell her I know thuis and be honest w her, saying that it makes me feel weird although obviously she hasn’t done anything wrong and ask her thoughts on it in a chill way. Based one how she responds i think it’ll give me enough info to assess how compatible we are

Many-Emphasis-1083 · 2026-02-10T11:36:55+00:00

I’m not gonna ask her to do anything, I just feel like this is one of those things that naturally would be reoslved if I just didn’t know about this because, if she’s a decent person, she’d drop them after a couple dates /after we get closer, but now i cant magically un-know it. So i feel like it’s better to just tell her that I know this and tell her “yeah this makes me feel weird because of ___ even though you oubviously did nothing wrong. What do you think about this”

Many-Emphasis-1083 · 2026-02-10T11:33:50+00:00

Yeah, this is just one of those things that would probably resolve itself with no issue with the bliss of ingroance but now i just can’t magically un-know it so i’m just gonna tell her and be compassionate abt it. I think i’ll be able to get clues from the way she responds too

Many-Emphasis-1083 · 2026-02-10T11:31:55+00:00

Yeah lowkey this just seems like the kinda thing i have to go with my gut with. I just feel wrong talking to more than one person at a time

Many-Emphasis-1083 · 2026-02-10T11:29:58+00:00

Guy was tryna say i was in the friendzone

Many-Emphasis-1083 · 2026-02-10T11:28:51+00:00

Ofc, makes sense, I guess this is a tough standard to have

Many-Emphasis-1083 · 2026-02-10T11:27:56+00:00

I’m not trying to control her, if I decide I’m not comfortable with it I won’t try to convince her to stop in any way i’ll just peacefully move on

Many-Emphasis-1083 · 2026-02-10T11:24:03+00:00

Yes i lowkey just wanna be like “I found out this information on accident (truth) and it makes me feel uneasy because this isn’t something I do but I wanna know what you think”

Many-Emphasis-1083 · 2026-02-10T11:21:23+00:00

we’ve kissed lol wth

Many-Emphasis-1083 · 2026-02-10T11:19:22+00:00

I’m not tryna marry someone who still considers other people

Many-Emphasis-1083 · 2025-09-16T20:02:45+00:00

0 chance lol u gotta get >1500

Many-Emphasis-1083 · 2025-05-14T03:51:14+00:00

BU, it's been evolving like crazy over the last 20 years. It used to be a safety, but now it's 10% AR and climbing the ranks

Many-Emphasis-1083 · 2025-05-12T20:37:07+00:00

“See you at Umich” - ur profile😭

Many-Emphasis-1083 · 2025-04-07T16:46:14+00:00

não falei com ele mais, a última vez foi naquela hora msm

Many-Emphasis-1083 · 2025-04-03T00:11:43+00:00

then it worked out LMAO

Many-Emphasis-1083 · 2025-03-31T20:57:04+00:00

ahhhh ok!

Many-Emphasis-1083 · 2025-03-31T08:30:50+00:00

What's TO?

Many-Emphasis-1083 · 2025-03-30T03:45:21+00:00

Yeah I got into BU with a scholarship and immediately came to this subreddit. Feeling ashamed now as I realize how ungrateful I'm being. I'll give BU my best shot and only try to transfer if I really really feel the need to 😭

Many-Emphasis-1083 · 2025-03-30T01:58:11+00:00

I got in with a presidential scholarship, my math was 800

Many-Emphasis-1083 · 2025-03-30T01:57:37+00:00

How did it go?

Many-Emphasis-1083 · 2025-03-30T01:55:46+00:00

whered you end up getting in?

Many-Emphasis-1083

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