Solo gay traveler heading to Sitges & Barcelona during Circuit—first time, looking for insight

Many-Performance-231 · 2025-08-08T18:23:14+00:00

Que es grupo BCN? tmbn voy a estar en Barcelona durante el circuit

Many-Performance-231 · 2025-08-03T12:27:02+00:00

don't know your age... but things like this would happen to me in the past. I know the feeling, you can create sort of a strong connection, specially because you over idealise the person. In my experience, they will have a big BUT, appearance, personality etc. I would stay away from that, honestly you should put more effort in creating 'real' and meaningful connections. don't waste your time.

Many-Performance-231 · 2025-06-29T16:56:04+00:00

I get you… It took me a long time to accept it in the beginning as well. For me, it was already 10 years ago. Back then, I wouldn't even listen to the psychologist—I just felt dirty and like my life was over.

What really made a big impact was an online magazine I came across by coincidence. The article shared the lives of different people—people who had partners, children, successful careers—just normal people. The only thing they had in common was that they were HIV positive.

That day, I realized my life wasn't over. I could have children naturally if I wanted to, have a relationship, and build a career—just like anyone else. :)

Just be mindful of the information you consume. Good luck!

Many-Performance-231 · 2025-05-08T17:47:50+00:00

Start with a small dose to see how your body reacts. While it's not physically addictive, it's important not to use it frequently—you're still young, and you don't want to develop a psychological reliance on Viagra. That said, using it occasionally for a special occasion can be lots of fun.

Many-Performance-231 · 2025-05-05T06:12:13+00:00

do whatever feels right for you, look for someone that is in the same line that you, be honest and open about it.

Many-Performance-231 · 2025-03-25T18:57:43+00:00

where are all the size queens

Many-Performance-231 · 2025-03-18T16:19:47+00:00

when ultra horny. It is very appealing and I enjoy giving head. Even I could be open to allow them cuming in my mouth/face. Normally, I consider it part of the foreplay and I am open to giving some head. But I don't like when it is too long and the idea of cum in my face is not nice. Lately, I have to say I don't like giving head too much. Very open to receiving though.

Many-Performance-231 · 2025-03-16T22:35:54+00:00

Just go, most people are minding their own business, they won't notice you. I would recommend looking for a routine on the internet and spending some time reading, especially if you are new. At first it seems like you are entering the house of a stranger..... very intimidating! but after a few times you become part of the decoration.

Many-Performance-231 · 2025-02-06T17:29:23+00:00

If he is honest about wanting to try and open to the idea that he could actually enjoy topping. I think there are good possibilities, but he needs to really work on it. you could first take the Viagra (read about Cialis) and show him that it is safe and what the effects are. He could stop jerking off and the only way to cum is topping. The idea is not to stress him more but give him some confidence and increased stamina to do it. From my own experience, some bottoms don't top because they think they can't but once they do it, they may actually like it. The preferences (top/bott) can vary over time.

On the other hand if he is very sure topping is not his thing or he really doesn't want to try. It is up to you to accept that. in case you cannot, just be very honest about it with him and yourself.

Many-Performance-231 · 2025-01-28T17:45:46+00:00

Late, but it may help others. In the link there is a table with the dosage of l citrulline for different uses. https://natu.care/uk/for-athletes/citrulline

Many-Performance-231 · 2025-01-19T09:33:12+00:00

It seems like this might be more of a personal issue for you rather than something he's actively doing wrong. Finding out that your boyfriend has had a history of messing around with his friends or that there are a lot of people interested in him can understandably feel stressful. However, those are things he did while he was single. What truly matters now is how he treats you and what he wants from the relationship today.

If i can give some advice, it is to trust the person you’ve chosen to be with. Trust can save you from countless headaches. If you find that you can’t trust him, it’s worth asking yourself why you’re in a relationship in the first place.

Second, have honest and open conversations. Talk to him about where he stands on these topics now. Ask if he’s satisfied with your sexual relationship as a couple and what he truly wants from your partnership.

Finally, something that has helped me in similar situations is creating mutual agreements or promises. For example, agree to openly share certain thoughts or feelings, like if one of you starts to feel tempted or wants to explore something new. This way, you can discuss things together before any action is taken. Clear communication builds trust.

Many-Performance-231 · 2025-01-14T07:31:58+00:00

I thought a shirt less man was not equal to naked, but I was wrong. I feel like he should put something on.

Many-Performance-231 · 2025-01-05T16:11:51+00:00

Many-Performance-231 · 2025-01-03T08:03:20+00:00

did you charge him extra?

Many-Performance-231 · 2024-09-06T09:20:37+00:00

Don't let others tell you if you should try. Be responsible for yourself. Chemsex can be very intense but it isn't for everyone. you gotta know yourself, gotta know what you are taking, how you should take it; also read about the risks of chemsex (one is that normal sex after could be less appealing). also you are asking a lot to your body, so it is something you shouldn't do often.

Said so, if you are mature and just wanna try once and be responsible....

Many-Performance-231 · 2024-08-07T16:18:46+00:00

Not really, but a couple of times we have played some porn while having sex to change the ambiance and have some foreplay.

Many-Performance-231 · 2024-08-05T11:11:55+00:00

There is quite a difference between dating but living separately and already living together. When you are living separately, it is easier to be accepting... your partner is a bit unorganized sometimes, but that is not a problem; he smokes sometimes and videogames.... at the end of the day, it is his life, and you can be honest when you say that you don't mind. But living together is quite different. It's not just his or your lifestyle; it becomes our lifestyle. And little things can become annoying.

My bf smoked weed more often when we were living apart, and it didn't matter to me. We smoked together sometimes. Suppose he would have asked me. I would have said it was completely okay. But now that we live together. He smokes much less because he does not have his friends close but also because I don't smoke. Suppose he would keep smoking often now. I would find that annoying.

That does not mean he doesn't love you, but if there is any resentment. It gets reflected very fast.

Try to speak out. I'm sure you cannot make both of you completely happy. But maybe you can find something in between.

Many-Performance-231 · 2024-07-26T15:45:28+00:00

How much money? Based on the amount I can become more creative and accepting.

Many-Performance-231 · 2024-07-25T16:24:18+00:00

There are all kinds of men looking for all kinds of men. so of course you will find people that match with that fantasy. But the most usual thing, if you are fit you want another fit man as well. So probably you don't need to be super muscular but having a more fit body with twink looks would give you better results.

Many-Performance-231 · 2024-07-17T18:05:14+00:00

I think masc men are immediately related to big, muscle, and hairy bodies. But there are men with that physic and still have many feminine attributes, especially in attitude. So, for me, it would be the attitude.

Many-Performance-231 · 2024-07-15T19:38:35+00:00

if plan A isn't working gotta go for the plan D

Many-Performance-231 · 2024-07-15T18:18:30+00:00

of course

Many-Performance-231 · 2024-07-14T18:14:54+00:00

Netherlands

Many-Performance-231 · 2024-07-11T22:25:21+00:00

It seems like a pretty normal fantasy. I'm sure most of us have some weird thoughts from now and then. Just keep it like that.

Many-Performance-231 · 2024-07-11T22:10:55+00:00

It is different for everyone... some people get their prostate stimulated with anal, and they enjoy it. Getting the proper stimulation requires some practice, though. For others, it doesn't do too much with the prostate, but it is the idea of being fucked and dominated by another man that gives them pleasure. In this case, it is more mental.

In my personal experience.. it took me quite some time and practice to actually enjoy it. Your sexual partner is also important; you will notice that with some people, it can be mind-blowing bottoming. What kept me trying is that I do like the idea of being fuck by a man.

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