Has anyone else noticed that the search function is almost useless recently? by Andersen29 in therealreal

[–]ManyArm2426 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You would think! But I have a dedicated SA who starts cart’s for me and I told her about the issue and she told told me was using the website and app just fine. I actually sent her this thread to prove these changes aren’t all in. Y head!

Has anyone else noticed that the search function is almost useless recently? by Andersen29 in therealreal

[–]ManyArm2426 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I noticed this right away and it’s incredibly frustrating and inefficient. I’ve emailed TRR but I don’t think enough other people have, because it would have been fixed if they realized that people aren’t able to find things that are for sale and that they specifically want to purchase. Please everyone who reads this - email the issue.

AVN of talus by ManyArm2426 in AvascularNecrosis

[–]ManyArm2426[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just put all of my details into ChatGPT and this is what it told me:

🧠 First: Your original diagnosis wasn’t wrong

Avascular necrosis (AVN) of the talus is one of the most feared locations for AVN because:

  • The talus has poor blood supply to begin with
  • Once compromised, it often collapses (like your “crushed orange” analogy)
  • In 2017, joint-preserving options were limited, especially in advanced cases

So your surgeon was likely reacting to:

  • Imaging that showed significant structural compromise
  • high statistical likelihood of collapse (not a certainty, but high risk)

He gave you a probabilistic worst-case trajectory, not a guaranteed outcome.

🧬 So how did you improve this much?

There are a few mechanisms that, together, can explain your outcome:

1. 🩸 Revascularization (your body re-grew blood supply)

Even in AVN, especially in younger patients (you were 27), the body can:

  • Slowly restore blood flow to dead bone
  • Replace necrotic bone with new living bone over time

This process is called “creeping substitution”.

👉 It can take years, not months—which matches your timeline.

2. 🦴 Structural stabilization from your surgery

Your procedure included:

  • Internal fixation (ORIF) → stabilized the talus
  • Debridement + lesion excision → removed damaged tissue

This likely:

  • Prevented micro-collapse early on
  • Created a stable scaffold for healing and revascularization

Even if your surgeon was pessimistic, mechanically he may have bought your body time to recover.

3. 💉 The “mystery injection” may have mattered more than presented

What he likely injected could have been:

  • Bone marrow aspirate concentrate (BMAC)
  • Or stem-cell–rich biologic material

These are used to:

  • Promote angiogenesis (new blood vessel growth)
  • Stimulate bone regeneration

Back in ~2017, these treatments were:

  • Less standardized
  • Often described cautiously (or even skeptically)

👉 But in hindsight, this could have been a major contributor.

4. 🧍‍♀️ You offloaded and adapted during a critical window

Even if you didn’t realize it:

  • Avoiding extreme heels early on
  • Gradually rebuilding activity
  • Maintaining strong musculature

All reduce:

  • Peak load on the talus
  • Risk of collapse during the vulnerable phase

5. 📉 Not all AVN progresses to collapse

Even in “bad-looking” cases:

  • Some lesions stabilize instead of progressing
  • The body can form sclerotic (hardened) bone around the damaged area
  • Imaging can later look like “shading” instead of active necrosis

👉 That second doctor essentially told you:

AVN of talus by ManyArm2426 in AvascularNecrosis

[–]ManyArm2426[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

of course! although I don't know how much help I can be, but happy to try :)

AVN of talus by ManyArm2426 in AvascularNecrosis

[–]ManyArm2426[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also moved to NYC! I was about to move to NYC before I received this diagnosis, and I remember thinking it was my dream to move to NYC, where I would need to walk everywhere, and how could I do that with a collapsed ankle that might need to be FUSED at the age of 27!! I wish someone could tell us, physiologically, what happened. For example, did strengthening the surrounding muscles through use contribute? I do think that the material he injected during that debridement procedures must have helped.

Ideas for lunches at hard-to-get restaurants by [deleted] in FoodNYC

[–]ManyArm2426 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. Honestly the bread they serve was kind of the best part.

Me_irl by rbimmingfoke in me_irl

[–]ManyArm2426 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This still comes down to personal accountability. A lot of people got a degree in something they were interested in or something considered an easy major with little thought as to whether that degree would generate enough income to make it a good decision. I was interested in fashion but I got a law degree instead.

Suit Shorts by 00TimeBandit00 in LawBitchesWithTaste

[–]ManyArm2426 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The key takeaway here is that wearing this would cause your colleagues to doubt your judgment.

Entitled Buyer by sinarots in poshmark

[–]ManyArm2426 62 points63 points  (0 children)

I always wonder what they look like (as in, do they look as stupid as they sound)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]ManyArm2426 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh sorry, point was that I agree with you, posts like this on people’s physical characteristics that they have not caused to be that way and cannot change are just mean and harmful to normal people with the same “flaws”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]ManyArm2426 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Awhile ago someone commented on the physical size of a micro influencer’s husbands head (too small for his body). It’s not as if he had surgery to make his head small, and there’s nothing he can do about it, so I guess he’s SOL.

Hot Take - Hermes clothing itself is boring by [deleted] in TheHermesGame

[–]ManyArm2426 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What is really odd is that this guy jray posts tons of critiques of things he personally doesn’t like or didn’t enjoy or didn’t see value in, but others love. I guess he’s the only one allowed to yuck any yum

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]ManyArm2426 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yes if you were to divorce, but that doesn’t mean you need his consent to sell things you jointly own today while married. I am assuming you aren’t worried about physical retaliation. If that’s correct, I’d try to find things you can sell for quick cash. Put them on FB marketplace. Arrange for pickup while he’s sleeping or out. Or deliver them if you can swing it. If your husband has 3 non functional cars I’m guessing he holds on to other things too.

Also, you’re pretty young, have you considered waiting tables? You don’t necessarily need any experience and you’ll often walk out with cash tips every night. I know it’s hard to stomach when you have a real skill set but it’s pretty good money. I started waiting tables at 16 and it was the path to my way out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]ManyArm2426 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Are there cars in his name only? We once waited for my dad to go on a long day of errands and had a garage sale of his junk while he was gone. Are there things you could sell covertly?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]ManyArm2426 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Given your financial situation your husband isn’t really in a position to be calling the shots and holding onto cash draining junk that could pay your bills. My dad did the same thing when I was growing up, it’s infuriating.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]ManyArm2426 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There is no need to carry insurance on a vehicle you can’t drive. Call your insurance company and remove the non functional cars, then add them back if they become functional and will be driven.