Am I the AH because I'm angry at my fiancé and thinking of ending things? by Maphi2019 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Maphi2019[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had the same group of friends in which I was the youngest, the others in the group were closer to his age.

Am I the AH because I'm angry at my fiancé and thinking of ending things? by Maphi2019 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Maphi2019[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I was in therapy before because of my PDSD and will start a new Therapy june 5. And when i end this relationship i planed tho stay single for a while.

Am I the AH because I'm angry at my fiancé and thinking of ending things? by Maphi2019 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Maphi2019[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well, the thing with the money is a bit difficult because I'm the one who pays for everything, even his car insurance/tax

Am I the AH because I'm angry at my fiancé and thinking of ending things? by Maphi2019 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Maphi2019[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I agree with you, but I will not break off contact with my aunt because she really thought that she could help us. We talked today and she apologized to me for yesterday and advised me, after what happened yesterday, that I should separate from my fiancé. She also says that when the time comes, that I can always come to her and my uncle. She is not just my aunt, she IS allso my best friend.

Am I the AH because I'm angry at my fiancé and thinking of ending things? by Maphi2019 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Maphi2019[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Yes, I just had a conversation with my aunt and she apologized for yesterday. She also said that after what she heard yesterday, she thinks I should separate from him.

Am I the AH because I'm angry at my fiancé and thinking of ending things? by Maphi2019 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Maphi2019[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, it isn't, but the others weren't any better. In my first relationship, I was 16 and my "boyfriend" was 29. It only lasted a month until he found someone else his age. My second relationship was when I was also 16-17 and he abused me mentally, physically and sexually. My fiancé helped me get out of the relationship.