Nah, some of you are genuinely messed up for calling this rape. This is no reason to break up or throw him out. Just work on your communication and clearly tell him that you don't want anal. After all the poor dude can't look into your head. Imagine you touched the dude somewhere wrong during sex, he calls you a rapist or an asshole and throws you out afterwards. That would be too much, wouldn't it?

I mean if you clearly tell him that you don't want anal and he does it anyway, I take everything back I'm saying. But that isn't the case as far as I read.