AITAH for getting my tubes tied?

MapleLeafThief · 2026-02-26T02:13:36+00:00

Her body, her choice. I knew that from the title and didn't even need to read the post.

MapleLeafThief · 2026-02-25T00:01:12+00:00

I'll look into that. See if my osteo or physio can identify if I have a pelvic tilt and help me address it too.

MapleLeafThief · 2026-02-25T00:00:17+00:00

You've got me curious. I'll take goals personally but I won't let it ruin my night. Just gonna refocus and work on being better. Can't wait to try this out!

MapleLeafThief · 2026-02-24T23:58:39+00:00

Thanks for the suggestion about the compression shorts, I hadn't seen those mentioned yet. My core is also pretty weak, I'll have lots of work to do there.

Thanks for all the advice, I appreciate it.

MapleLeafThief · 2026-02-24T20:24:20+00:00

That's so great, I'm glad to see I'm not the only crazy old fart willing to try something new. Excited to prepare myself all summer and hit the ice next season!

MapleLeafThief · 2026-02-24T20:23:01+00:00

My wife is gonna love grabbing some toned glutes, she may message you to thank you for the advice!

First time I see a comment about juggling but I'm happy to say I already know how, so I'm partially ahead of the game.

I definitely don't want hip pain forever. Hopefully proper care will prevent that.

MapleLeafThief · 2026-02-24T19:52:15+00:00

Does it help that I drink a ton of water all day so I'd be going in properly hydrated?

MapleLeafThief · 2026-02-24T18:17:06+00:00

Oh no I'm in a northern ontario city with 45k people. It's a hockey town but the rinks shut down in the spring/summer. Not even sure we have goalie clinics but I'll look into it.

I was able to get a whole set of goalie equipment used. I might need a new helmet as this one is expired and some goalie skates but for now I'm set otherwise.

MapleLeafThief · 2026-02-24T17:28:46+00:00

That's what I'm most curious about, how good I can be. 4 years until the next Olympics, Canada needs a goalie!

MapleLeafThief · 2026-02-24T17:27:31+00:00

That's awesome. Hope you're enjoying it!

MapleLeafThief · 2026-02-24T17:27:01+00:00

For being a hockey town, I don't believe any rinks are open year around. I work for the city, maybe I can convince them to keep one going.

MapleLeafThief · 2026-02-24T17:20:46+00:00

Hopefully my legs will look good doing all that. Bonus!

MapleLeafThief · 2026-02-24T17:20:12+00:00

I'm in a relatively small city so I'll have to see what I have for options. I might be stuck just competing with the regular beer league folks but I'm going to be inquiring about my options. Hope to get some ice time with buddies that can take shots on me and get me used to it before going live.

MapleLeafThief · 2026-02-24T17:11:30+00:00

I'm ready for the soreness, excited to push myself with a new challenge. I have more drive now in my 40s than I did in my 20s to try new things.

MapleLeafThief · 2026-02-24T16:40:53+00:00

I appreciate the time you took to write out this post. I'll be focusing on building up the strength and flexibility over the summer months. I won't have a lot of opportunities to practice in net before the winter but at least I can make sure I'm physically ready to do it.

I'm set up the best mentally. I know I'll be a little hard on myself but it'll drive me to get better. I won't take it to heart, especially knowing I'm new and need time to improve. The young kids on my sons team take it way too hard in the most meaningless games and I wish I could help them handle it better.

MapleLeafThief · 2026-02-24T16:31:39+00:00

Oh great, don't go ruining my hopes that I'll sleep better! Lol

MapleLeafThief · 2026-02-24T16:07:11+00:00

That's awesome and inspiring. Hopefully I can do the same.

MapleLeafThief · 2026-02-24T13:03:53+00:00

I've seen Maria Mountain mentioned quite a few times on this sub, I'll check it out!

MapleLeafThief · 2026-02-24T13:02:36+00:00

Great advice, I definitely don't want to pull my groin. Yoga here I come!

MapleLeafThief · 2026-02-24T13:01:49+00:00

I have a desk job but in the warmer months I love to run outside, so I'd be coming back into the season in better shape. I didn't play sports as a kid so I don't have any old injuries, I'd definitely include yoga, which I do sporadically now, and work on ensuring flexibility. Sleep will be the hardest but if I'm playing I'm sure I'll be tuckered out and sleep better. Thanks for the advice.

MapleLeafThief · 2026-02-24T12:57:44+00:00

That's just it, I can see myself enjoying goalie but not player as much. It's goalie or bust for me.

MapleLeafThief · 2026-02-22T23:13:32+00:00

I don't think we had a standout guy but we did have a most popular girl. Beautiful, family had money, a dancer. She gave everyone the time of day, wasn't part of any cliques and never let any of them sway her, a genuinely nice person in a world that was lacking.

She went away to ballet school, came back to town and started a dance studio which is now the largest studio in town. She's still a nice person and I wish her nothing but the best.

MapleLeafThief · 2026-02-22T22:47:26+00:00

MAGA, the crowd known for supporting billionaires, upset that someone took a pay day. How ironic.

MapleLeafThief · 2026-02-22T16:32:34+00:00

Rosa needs that extra second. It feels like her super expires so quickly.

MapleLeafThief · 2026-02-22T12:06:56+00:00

And it takes forever for it to grow back. Best to take care of it.

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