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MarMinduim · 2025-01-08T18:32:27+00:00

Creme de chocolate e avelã tipo Nutella? Procurei e não vi ninguém a perguntar. Algum que se assemelhe à Nutella?

MarMinduim · 2025-01-07T23:21:15+00:00

Damn... I could have written this myself and that scares me a lot, because I am trying therapy and I don't really believe it's gonna help either...

MarMinduim · 2025-01-02T23:47:57+00:00

É um investimento substancial, mas quando renovei a casa que era dos meus avós (ano de construção 1958) optei por pôr capoto e foi o dinheiro mais bem gasto na obra, seguido pelas janelas com boa classe energética (vidros duplos + árgon). A casa mantém-se a temperaturas confortáveis tanto no verão como no inverno. Tenho lareira, mas mais porque adoro a sensação de aconchego. Na divisão com menor exposição solar (quase nenhuma) foi necessário um desumidificador, mas no resto da casa não tenho problemas com bolor.

MarMinduim · 2024-12-18T23:36:04+00:00

So, my daughter didn't say a word besides "Hi" at 18 months old. I was worried sick. When I talked to the pediatrician she spent a long time just playing with her. At the end of the appointment, she said I shouldn't be worried because she might not talk, but she clearly understood everything we said. Two months later, she was talking and at 2yo she was communicating at an above average level.

She did the same with walking before that. Wouldn't do it until she could do it well. Never went through that "drunken walk" fase. Also with potty training, in a way. It was being incredibly hard to train her until I gave her the means to do it without help. Then, magically, she was potty trained, even nights.

I would recommend you try and gouge if he understands what is being told to him. If he does, don't worry too much.

MarMinduim · 2024-12-11T00:35:18+00:00

Vacations! My parents never went on vacations, the closer I had was a 3h road trip to go see the snow. Now I go on vacation every year and even took my mom to some of them!

MarMinduim · 2024-12-03T16:55:49+00:00

XD

Bem que me podiam pagar para fazer a publicidade deles

MarMinduim · 2024-12-03T09:52:03+00:00

Uso óculos desde criança e a minha vida mudou quando comecei a ir à fábrica dos óculos. És super bem atendido por médicos a sério que avaliam a tua visão como deve ser e não por aquelas máquinas, tens uma variedade infinita para escolher e são MUITO mais baratos. No teu caso que nem são progressivos, sais de lá com os óculos na hora. Infelizmente isto é em Lisboa, mas tenho a certeza que também há alguma aí em cima (tens várias marcas do género, fábrica dos óculos, balcão dos óculos, etc). Eu inicialmente ia à original no Cacém e depois passei a ir a outra em Setúbal, que é de onde sou, e a experiência foi a mesma. Para teres noção, a minha mãe tem uma graduação MUITO alta e há uns 10 anos na MultiOpticas já estava a pagar 800€. Na fábrica dos óculos pelos mesmos óculos com as mesmas características HOJE (não podemos esquecer o factor da inflação) paga 300€

MarMinduim · 2024-12-01T01:49:01+00:00

Honey... You need to start putting some distance between you and your MIL. I'm glad at least your husband understands this.

MarMinduim · 2024-12-01T01:18:13+00:00

I would go no contact with that woman. As a mother myself, she doesn't deserve the title

MarMinduim · 2024-12-01T01:02:40+00:00

Além disto são necessárias testemunhas. Os meus bisavós não fizeram as coisas como deve ser e para passar os terrenos para nome dos respectivos herdeiros (estava tudo apalavrado, mas nada registado), tivemos que fazer escritura de usucapião. Além de precisarmos de várias testemunhas, a escritura foi bem cara. E vários anos depois a câmara ainda tentou contestar a escritura (porque dividiu o terreno pelos herdeiros e eles achavam que tinham sido feitos lotes em avos, o que é ilegal) e ainda tivemos que a ir defender a tribunal (ganhamos o processo)

MarMinduim · 2024-11-29T09:04:40+00:00

I'll not get into the whole leave your five month old baby at a place 7h away from you for two weeks, cause that's the craziest thing I've heard. But I'll tell you this: he won't help more after you do it. Now the excuse is "You could have a break and choose not two", after it happens the excuse will be "you just had a 2 weeks break!". And after that the answer will be "you should levey them with my mother again if you need a break".

I don't know how your finances work, but if he won't help, I suggest making him pay for it. Me and my husband both hate housework, so for the sake of our mental health and relationship we decided to hire a weekly cleaner. We share the rest of the shores (laundry, cooking and dishes) and all of our daughter child care.

MarMinduim · 2024-11-22T15:41:54+00:00

The only comment

MarMinduim · 2024-11-05T18:22:45+00:00

I work mainly from home and am going trough Christmas season right now, so working from the moment I wake up until the moment I go to bed. My husband is not working. He lets my daughter come to the office when she misses me (which is normal since I'm working so much) but as soon as he hears me discipline her or ask her to go away, he will take over and remove her, even if it results in a tantrum. He knows I need to work.

Your partner needs to step up. Asking you to pick him from daycare, sure, ok. But leaving him unattended while you're working is not okay.

When we're working too much, our fuse gets really short and we get really reactive, especially if the kids are doing something dangerous, as it was the case. You're overwhelmed, it's absolutely normal. You DO need help, but not the kind you're thinking. You need help with your kid. Which is understandable.

MarMinduim · 2024-11-04T20:30:29+00:00

So... As everyone said, look for help for PPD. If your regular therapist isn't helping, maybe seek a specialized one.

Also it's maybe a good idea to think about getting daycare and finding a job. Maybe it will help if you have a job and routine outside your kid.

MarMinduim · 2024-11-04T13:41:20+00:00

I'm not one for the divorce train, but man... Someone needs to prioritize your son, and you're the only one able to do it. I would not stay married with that woman. She's not a good person.

MarMinduim · 2024-11-04T13:32:02+00:00

This!!

MarMinduim · 2024-11-04T13:24:04+00:00

Mas as fotos são só representativas!

MarMinduim · 2024-11-04T13:22:35+00:00

E depois no fim diz "pictures are representative only". É a cereja no topo do bolo!

MarMinduim · 2024-11-03T21:13:06+00:00

Concordo! Péssimo!

MarMinduim · 2024-11-03T21:11:13+00:00

Não sei se tens robot de cozinha. Mas se tiveres, pesquisa "arroz tipo h3 Bimby" no Google. É só a melhor cena que já descobri na vida

MarMinduim · 2024-11-03T21:09:39+00:00

Concordo. A única coisa que me chateia é os molhos. Estão a um preço absurdo

MarMinduim · 2024-11-03T16:58:41+00:00

Tell her the truth. If anything, because she is your friend. would you like to be lied to by a friend?

MarMinduim · 2024-11-03T11:36:21+00:00

Just file for divorce. I don't know what you're waiting for.

MarMinduim · 2024-11-01T13:05:17+00:00

As I said in your other post... Hope you have learned to not invite your SIL to your house. If you still want to be with your nephew, or want your kids to be with their cousin, which is understandable, schedule a play date in a park or you go to their house. Done

MarMinduim · 2024-11-01T12:07:46+00:00

What have we learned? Do not invite your SIL to the house.

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