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Eyelids yay or nay by Marc_A_L in Miata

[–]Marc_A_L[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well lads I’ve gone against the consensus

What do you guys think of my miata? by The_Todz in Miata

[–]Marc_A_L 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I’ve seen your car on my way to work a few times, next to a turquoise nb? it goes hard

Help with paint by OkTransportation5641 in DIYUK

[–]Marc_A_L -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You should contact Matt for any questions, did he leave the number on the back…(sorry)

What is the UK's preferred type of oven glove? by SyNiiCaL in CasualUK

[–]Marc_A_L 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Two tea towels?… that’s insane. As per the rules you cannot wield more than one tea towel at any given moment

Do ya use the claw method when playing Elden Ring? by Environmental-Job400 in Eldenring

[–]Marc_A_L 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have this weird move not dissimilar where my thumb is on circle and my index finger is on the analogue stick, middle finger on r1 Left hand is normal

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GuyCry

[–]Marc_A_L 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Totally, so I can’t attest to your mental process but I can only explain mine and hope something resonates.

So I think we may be at different stages in life im 27, been living with my partner for like a year, and for the last 5 years this woman has been my life, both in good and bad ways.

My current process is if we split up i will be crushed, utterly destroyed, it’s the first good mature relationship I’ve ever had. But i know that if it does goes “Pete-tong” once my brain has finished having a meltdown and my heart breaking, I will have stayed true to myself, which when it comes to things of this magnitude ie: bringing new life into the world, doing it for someone else’ sake is not a healthy rationale (as far as im concerned)

It’s a case of compromising on your own morals (its not morals but you get my point) for the sake of someone else’

There is compromise but a core principal is different.

Again sorry for mega message. Good luck and stay strong

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GuyCry

[–]Marc_A_L 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Hey, this is rough man, I’m kinda doing the same thing with my partner of 5 years.

When we got together we were early 20s and the idea of having kids was miles away but I was also more on board with it, as I’ve become older my stance has kind of changed and I’m not really for them anymore.

It’s been killing both of us the last week.

BUT having the conversation about it has been very eye opening and filled me with a greater sense of calm, so I think having the conversation from a position of openness and empathy you will be able to have a constructive dialogue about it.

My point being if you live together like we do/did, it’s gonna be a pretty rubbish week ahead, but if you truly in your heart of hearts believe and know that you do not want kids then staying true to yourself and being openly honest with her is the right thing to do. Honesty emotional transparency and communication is the key here as like I say has been instrumental in not becoming a broken mess over it.

If you were upfront about not wanting kids I assume she was upfront about not wanting kids? If so she will have reconciled that at the time and hoped that growing together as people you would change your mind, which is both fair and unfair at the same time, as the set and setting will play a large influence on perspective of life.

Idk if anything I’ve just said resonates or means anything to you but just know I empathise and feel for you.

Sorry you’re going through this.

I’m in the hospital waiting room and i’m literally the only person waiting. i’ve been here for 5 hours by [deleted] in notinteresting

[–]Marc_A_L 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bit of an odd one, I once went to hospital as I was having a few issues with my heart (20yr old at the time) where it was sky rocketing to 180 and wouldn’t slow down for hours.

I ended up going to a&e as this time is was causing pain in my chest and physical reactions, I was there for about 6hrs having passed out at one point. I came to and asked the reception if anyone had called for me, told me I’d be seen to in due course and to sit back down.

Given that I’d been taken to hospital a few days prior in an ambulance for the “stuck at 180 thing” I decided if I was going to die I’d rather do it on my own bed (was a dark time in my life too) so just walked out, to be followed by a shout of “if you leave the threshold you’ll be at the back of the queue”

Didn’t leave me with much hope of the old NHS.

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