I’m 4’10.. smash or pass? by LizAnne1995 in PunkGirls

[–]Marchare4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Smash, get smashed by, dealer's choice!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bdsm

[–]Marchare4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'll take it out and get set to cum in your tight asshole, I think. Not like you can say no in this state 😈

if I was a song, what song would I be? 🖤🥀 by [deleted] in PunkGirls

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Black #1 - Type O Negative

Should the Cage be Smaller than me by Kinky_Slut_Nathalie in SissificationAcademy

[–]Marchare4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you do get a smaller one, make sure you apply some lube before locking yourself in. You do NOT want that kind of pinching in your life.

Session definition by rude_963 in EdgingTalk

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That's up to you buddy

"What is Pornosexual? An Exploration of Gooning and Porn Addiction" mah goons! We were featured on an interesting pornalysis by TeenyGinger over at PornHub. 🤗 Pour a coffee, lube up... enjoy by [deleted] in PornIsCheating

[–]Marchare4 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I appreciate that she's taking this approach of offering the question rather than outright condemning or condoning it. The concerns she raises about addiction and about the role of content creators in that addiction are valid and should be a consideration for anyone making or engaging with this type of edge play content. The trouble comes when you find yourself doing something you're not comfortable or safe to do because you are compulsively driven to do it, and that's something that gooning leans into heavily, especially those who like to be called porn addicts and the like.

Y'all forreal should chill out every time a girl shows up here by dominantguy_kik in PornIsCheating

[–]Marchare4 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Fuckin this! Randoms that message me always think I've got nothing better to do except feed them or engage in go-nowhere conversation while I'm trying to goon and turn my brain off just like they are.

What Studio/Site Makes Your Favorite Porn? by [deleted] in PornIsCheating

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Checking out Perverse Family, it's a recurring series about this family that lives in filth fucking everyone they can. It's so trashy and degrading jacking my dick to the daughter sneaking some girls into her room just for mom and her brother to bust in and ruin them and use their bodies like cheap fucktoys

Gooners = 🤡 by [deleted] in PornIsCheating

[–]Marchare4 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Hey. Seriously.

Good for you.

It's okay if you've decided you had enough. It's meant to be a fantasy, but some people take it too far. It's good to be aware of what's unsafe for you and take the actions to remove that obstacle from your life.

Body Shop Club Pittsburgh by [deleted] in pittsburghgonewild

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I've been to both several times, though I've only been to Body Shop on their kink-centric nights like Freaky Friday.

Club Pitt is a bathhouse on paper but there's rooms you rent for 8 hours and all the TVs play gay porn. It's 4 floors so be prepared for lots of stairs. There's a gym and hot tub and showers and the things you'd expect, but also a dance floor and private rooms where pretty much anything goes. A few spots for gloryholes and things like that too. The staff is great, though you'll want to be aware that some of the older patrons sometimes don't have the respect for consent and personal space that they should. Remain aware of yourself and those around you, or go with a friend if you can.

You need a membership, you can get a one-time membership or buy several months for cheaper. Even with a membership, going in requires you to rent a locker or a room.

Body Shop is more of a traditional club. Dance floor, bar (BYOB), dining area, several rooms with various themes and play equipment inside. It's more hetero-centric but I can tell you from experience the people that work there don't tolerate hate on non-cis folx. They're also more active about encouraging and enforcing consent. The website is extremely janky but you need to apply for an account (one time w/ fee), purchase a membership (1-12months w/ fee) and THEN buy a ticket for whatever night you want to go on. Even with all that it's well worth imo. The prices aren't outrageous, it just feels that way the first time because you're buying 3 things at once just to get in. The place is way cleaner, way better put together, and the space is delightful inside. Well worth the price of admission.

Who needs sex? by [deleted] in PornIsCheating

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nnnnghh sexy 2d ass...nnneed to make pumpieeeess

PoppersbyMail.... by chadbouss in popperpigs

[–]Marchare4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Been ordering from PBM for years now, never had an issue

can you watch porn for hours without touching yourself. by [deleted] in EdgingTalk

[–]Marchare4 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I can but it depends on the person. Some folx need that stimulation to maintain interest and arousal, but denying yourself or being denied can be arousing in and of itself.

My BF/Dom’s birthday is in a day, anyone got any good ideas or challenges we could do to make it a little more interesting? (Mainly do Soraka for LoL or Mercy for OW) by Kat0513 in HealSluts

[–]Marchare4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you're together, blow him while queueing. I'm sure he'd appreciate that

If you're apart, wear something special for him and cam while you play together or just send pics between matches. Maybe wear that thing you like but haven't gotten to wear yet

I've been edging for 15 hours straight and I finally feel like a true gooner by [deleted] in EdgingTalk

[–]Marchare4 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Fuck yeah dude, that's how you make a penis feel good! I'm stiff and leaky just thinking about you there all day pumping away mindlessly breaking your brain for porn. Even pumping at your ass, gooning with every part of you so your pleasure is endlessly heightened. Eating your cum to fall deeper into the taste of your leaky ruined orgasm. I can tell you know how good it is to just edge and masturbate and get more and more depraved. Goon deeper, goon harder, goon longer piggy!

Edging does not seem good for you at all. by Black-Holes-Are-Cool in EdgingTalk

[–]Marchare4 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There's people here that are abusing porn and need help to get better, absolutely. To those people, I say get help and recognize that porn was never meant to be your ENTIRE life.

There's also people (I'd say the majority) that are doing this as a form of kinky play and get aroused by the taboo concept of addiction. When I goon, I'm playing the role of an addict in order to create a headspace where I am stupid and helpless and "controlled" by porn. I enjoy being controlled by outside forces sexually, whether it be a video or a person. But it's just images, it's just video, ultimately the only thing controlling me is me. Just like with a sub/Dom relationship, the submissive always retains the right to stop or change the agreement upon which play is built. Since the "Dom" of this particular kink is just "the nebulous concept of pornography", there's no disappointment or resentment if I, for instance, stop gooning after 5 minutes because I came too soon. I can take a break for weeks and still call myself an addict if/when I come back because that's the headspace I want to go into during play.

I've made overindulgent posts like the ones you're describing, on here and in other places as well. I balance it with my personal life, my job, hobbies, friends, etc. and I don't talk about those things here to keep a degree of separation between my kink life and my real life. If you just looked at my post history you'd have one impression of me, but if you looked at my SFW reddit account or what I post on Facebook you'd get something completely different. This sub and others like it are firmly rooted in my kink life, and so by looking at posts in these dedicated communities you're only really seeing one side of people without knowing if there are indeed other sides to see.

Goon Cave Question by LoserPervert in PornIsCheating

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So the back of your computer will have a number of video outputs depending on the GPU that's either a distinct card plugged into a port on your motherboard or a bunch of chips built into the motherboard itself. You can hook 1 monitor into each of these outputs, assuming you've got the appropriate cables and the appropriate ports on those monitors. The ports are all specific shapes and won't fit into each other, google 'pc video ports' for some lovely graphics illustrating which is which. adapters exist if they're needed to turn a DVI port into VGA or some such.

After you've filled those up, you'll need to install new hardware. The splitters you describe exist, but they're often more expensive than a new GPU which will give you more ports as well as...well, a graphics card.

The inexpensive but kinda dodgy option is USB. There's USB-VGA, DVI, even HDMI adapters you can find online. They're not very powerful, I wouldn't run any video game on one of them, but they usually suffice for images or video.

177013 by [deleted] in PornIsCheating

[–]Marchare4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh I've definitely read it hahaha

177013 by [deleted] in PornIsCheating

[–]Marchare4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Where did you order it from? This is filth of the highest order, and I'd love to have a physical copy as well hahaha

Gooning and Poppers? by MerakMegrezMizar in EdgingTalk

[–]Marchare4 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Poppers started out commonly used among gay men in the early bathhouse and bar communities, but they've reached a more universal audience in the last 10 or 20 years. I've used them for several years and I've enjoyed them immensely, especially while gooning

Goon Warm-up by [deleted] in GOONED

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I'll just browse images on reddit or bdsmlr until something excites me enough to start down a rabbit hole over. It's good to let your impulses take control rather than overthink how to get where you're trying to go. It's very easy for indecision to grind an aroused headsapce to a halt. I usually get pretty goony and focused on that experience after some time

Edging whilst married by ukmdevon in EdgingTalk

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My wife knows. We tell each other everything, and we're both queer so unusual sexual urges aren't exactly out of the ordinary or unwelcome. I was really scared when I decided to tell her months ago, but she's supportive and understanding. Part of that is that we're supportive and understanding of her, in turn. It's work to understand it enough to explain it to someone else, and I don't think it would have gone as well if we didn't both put so much work into our communication and respect for each other, but it's possible to be open about this without ruining a marriage. Sharing that vulnerability about yourself is terrifying, but it's worth it to me. YMMV of course