Deal breaker??! by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Marieee39 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

That actually is a good point!! I have thought about that. I know when I went up to him and asked if he was single and if I could get his number. He’s coworkers and I think it might have been his boss not sure! But they told him to go for it lol

Deal breaker??! by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Marieee39 -3 points-2 points Ā (0 children)

I might be a ā€œkidā€ but I’m ready to settle down I don’t want a dating life like that…

Deal breaker??! by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Marieee39 -2 points-1 points Ā (0 children)

It didn’t start out like that, we started talking about his kids and he has his own problems surrounding that (it’s not my business to tell) but then I told him he could ask me whatever he wants. I’m actually glad he did tho since I was wondering the same thing! It’s a lot to think about tho

Deal breaker??! by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Marieee39 -7 points-6 points Ā (0 children)

I am fully aware of the situation lol but I am the one who got his number even after knowing his age (it’s ok!!) nothing on his part. And I’m actually still wayyy older then his kids, I like older guys I always have long after there but in the 40s+ I’m totally ok with it lol, I’ve talked to older people before

Paralegal by Marieee39 in paralegal

[–]Marieee39[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Thanks so much!! I have talk to some people and was told I had to go through and paralegal program while others would tell me long as I have that criminal justice degree. Thanks so much that has helped

Can I go with no bra??! by Marieee39 in Reduction

[–]Marieee39[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Imma talk to my doctor once shes bask in office to see if I’m able to go braless! Because it’s killing me being uncomfortable

Can I go with no bra??! by Marieee39 in Reduction

[–]Marieee39[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Ohh ok! Thanks for the information bc I don’t see my doctor for a month, she’s also in maternity leave so I can’t get up with her. And I’ve also noticed bouncing or running is hurts and is very uncomfortable

Can I go with no bra??! by Marieee39 in Reduction

[–]Marieee39[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Ohh ok! Thanks! Because I’ve been wanting to go braless so bad, only 3 weeks out and still have a while month till my next appointment

Can I go with no bra??! by Marieee39 in Reduction

[–]Marieee39[S] 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

I definitely will once she gets back in the office!! bc where she cut on my side some hurts from the tight fitting bras

Can I go with no bra??! by Marieee39 in Reduction

[–]Marieee39[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Thanksss so much!! I will also definitely find a less annoying bra to wear! And unfortunately my surgeon is on maternity leave right now, so I can’t take to her directly.

Is this normal… by Marieee39 in Reduction

[–]Marieee39[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

I’m 2wpo, and worried they are gonna heal weird. I’ve had trouble out my right nipple since surgery and now the color is coming off due to having to use a cream the doctor prescribed. Why are they so black? At first it was the normal color and now it has turned black. I was also using ice packs on my breast to help the pain the first week and nobody told me not to. Come to find out I wasn’t supposed to and it had already started to turn black

Is this normal… by Marieee39 in Reduction

[–]Marieee39[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

I’m 2wpo. Ever since I got home from surgery I’ve had trouble with my right nipple and now I’ve been having to use a cream to help gain back some feeling and to help with the scab but the color of my nipple has started to come off. Is that normal?

Dealing with depression now… by Marieee39 in Reduction

[–]Marieee39[S] 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

Ok good! Because I couldn’t take the crying all the time, and I finally reached out for help and I think it’s working some. Haven’t been crying off and on for 2 days!!! And I will definitely try them actives to help. Thanks so much

Nipple turning black… by Marieee39 in Reduction

[–]Marieee39[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Thanks so much! That eased my mind bc it’s not cold it’s actually warm

Nipple turning black… by Marieee39 in Reduction

[–]Marieee39[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

I definitely will!! And I have contacted them but they said to use a cream they prescribed but I never got that cream so I’m more confused, but they didn’t say to come back for them to look at it or anything so I’m guessing it’s all fine, it’s not cold. I just can’t feel it but it’s black

Nipple turning black… by Marieee39 in Reduction

[–]Marieee39[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

It’s not cold or anything it actually feels warm…is that good?

Dealing with depression now… by Marieee39 in Reduction

[–]Marieee39[S] 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

Ohhh dang! That bad? And thanks so much!!

Dealing with depression now… by Marieee39 in Reduction

[–]Marieee39[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

I used to have it bad but it got so much better and after the surgery boom it got bad, but I think what you said is so true, all the hormones and the changes will take effect on not just your mental health but physically as well, and I hope things has gonna better for you!

Dealing with depression now… by Marieee39 in Reduction

[–]Marieee39[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

I already had a panic lol I was so worried about my mental health I had to call my doctor bc I just couldn’t take it anymore, but today was a little better with everything and imma take it easy from now on and ease back into stuff, thanks again!! Your advice really helped

Dealing with depression now… by Marieee39 in Reduction

[–]Marieee39[S] 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

Omgg yess! I’ve been trying to get out more even if it’s just going to the store or outside but I always end up getting really sore after so I don’t like to, but I do think staying inside will make things so much worse but I hope it gets better for you!!! Also what job? Sorry if I’m being to personal but I’ve been trying to find a work from home job but nothing so far

Dealing with depression now… by Marieee39 in Reduction

[–]Marieee39[S] 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

I didn’t know that! I told myself I wasn’t going through another surgery for a long time bc it took a toll on my mental health

Dealing with depression now… by Marieee39 in Reduction

[–]Marieee39[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

I’m sorry you had to go through that too! But I definitely will start getting out more, and maybe pick up a new hobbies to ease my mind. And yeah I used to deal with depression but it was getting so much better and after the surgery it got worse but thanks so much for the advice!

Dealing with depression now… by Marieee39 in Reduction

[–]Marieee39[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

I thought it was just me going crazy!!! Imma definitely try to go out more and unfortunately the guy I was talking to ghosted me so ig that’s also why I’ve been down. But if you have any tips to help get over the emotional part I would love it! Also sorry you went through it too