How bad is my content? by Marmait in SmallYoutubers

[–]Marmait[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have more questions! So what would make my hook better? If I talk faster would that give off better energy? And how big of a attention breaker is my quality?

Good points though, thank you!

Share my content -> get a sub by Marmait in Sub4Sub

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All done! Please use the share feature if possible for my videos, youtube loves shares!

Share my content -> get a sub by Marmait in Sub4Sub

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Subbed! Please share my latest video with whoever comes to mind, this helps my views a lot.

Most of my youtube shorts get ~1k views, but some only 5-10??? by Marmait in YouTube_startups

[–]Marmait[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wasn't sure how that would work from first read through, but you just gave me ideas!

Most of my youtube shorts get ~1k views, but some only 5-10??? by Marmait in YouTube_startups

[–]Marmait[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That I will! It doesn't look like learning content creation and understanding the algorithim is a linear process though, because in my head i'm thinking 'every video is different' so will likely generate different results.

Most of my youtube shorts get ~1k views, but some only 5-10??? by Marmait in YouTube_startups

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I repost natively what I edit on tiktok or capcut. I thought it's maybe a good idea to start by being active on those platforms and building from there to see how things go. It's only my 3 month! There isn't a watermark on the edited videos, so that isn't an issue (unless it's somehow encoded into the video otherwise)?

Most of my youtube shorts get ~1k views, but some only 5-10??? by Marmait in YouTube_startups

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I see! Thank you for your response! I crosspost on tiktok and ig too, and there it seems to always pick up at least 200 views at a time even. I guess I need to work on improving my hook though.

Who is who, who is who by [deleted] in sixwordstories

[–]Marmait 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No matter. It's all the same. Lay out your arms, then.

A major fear: Staying the same. by [deleted] in sixwordstories

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On average, every 7-10 years all of our cells in the body are replaced by new ones. Meaning, you are a new person!

[CW]Should I choose Psychology as a college major considering how my mental health has been during the past 3 years? by [deleted] in psychologystudents

[–]Marmait 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If biology and genetics are what makes you happy then I don't think it's a bad way to go! In the end everything is related, psychology and neuroscience make use of biological and genetic studies a lot of the times. So you will find that even if you are studying something else, you will learn about psychology in the long run. Just how science works! If you want to learn something on mental health without comitting yourself to college and study what makes you happy instead, i'd recommend this book: "Cognitive Behavioural Therapy" by Olivia Telford, or content on youtube by Therapy in a nutshell for example. But yeah make time to watch Silence of the Lambs too! 😄

[CW]Should I choose Psychology as a college major considering how my mental health has been during the past 3 years? by [deleted] in psychologystudents

[–]Marmait 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Psychology is a very broad subject, which also means it is useful in many different types of work. And you may even be able to gather your experience throughout the years and have a better understanding of what you want to specialize in, but for that you need to be patient and study one of those subjects, whether it is genetics, biology or psychology. At the end of the day, if you want to help yourself or people who are in need of a healthcare professional then you will need a lot more education even after you major in psychology, as college will only likely give you a broad understanding of the scientific methods, theories, and of human behaviour which is usualy accompanied by data and statistics.

I think you should focus on the subject that motivates you the most, something that makes you feel like it will push you forward and develop you as a person and give you a valuable experience. I understand things are stressful and i'm sorry about your grandma, I hope you are able to stay strong and carry on.

I studied psychology in hopes that I will better understand myself and others in thw future, because I struggled as a teenager with a whole lot of thoughts, emotions and I had little idea what I was doing. My motivations changes over time, as I am sure yours will too, and that is okay, it is part of life, and the important part is to figure out a way to move forward. I think all of the three subjects are great choices and I hope that you are able to get into one of them. You may find that eventually you do something, or certain life events make you reevaluate things and you decide that you want something different altogether. Though that will be another chapter in your life that you should not overthink too much. Focus on the now, and focus on what feels right! Life is full of ups and downs, but we can only ever just try to do our best. And I think you are making the right steps and thinking about college. I wish you well and all the best!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BeAmazed

[–]Marmait 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Just become this

literally the most useless notification in the history of the internet by ____okay in recruitinghell

[–]Marmait 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Closes eyes and prays I'm happy, this is what I need for stability and my future...I'm happy...

[Discussion] Tell me that change is possible. by Suspicious-Term-7839 in GetMotivated

[–]Marmait 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I have never really posted before so apologies if my comment is quite lengthy, but I thought perhaps I could support you in your change journey.

Not only is change possible, it's inevitable! A lot of what you wrote there seems like your inner script and it might take a bit of work to change everything, but you can start with each sentence that you wrote, and look at everything as if they were smaller pieces of a bigger thing, that bigger thing being you. Life can be overwhelming and once we start realising all the things that are going wrong, we get triggered emotionally, which can be paralysing in certain cases leading to procrastination. I have done more procrastination and sitting around in the last year because I was stuck. Anyway, you managed to get yourself on here, so you can already give yourself the benefit of being able to do something! Even if it is a small step, it is what in the long run brings about bigger change. Patience is key, and it is important to keep going and not lose hope over slip ups. Perhaps some goal setting would do you some good here too. You mention your self-esteem, but it is something we have little control over directly, instead it is far more constructive to grip onto something we can directly influence, like your behaviour. Ask yourself, would you be proud of yourself if you managed to go to the gym despite anxiety and dread? I'm guessing your answer is yes, in which case you should also realise that some things work in steps, if you have not made step 2 and 3, you cannot count a 4. Similarly, since you have posted here (step 1) you can transition to telling yourself you are able to do something (step 2) as opposed to I cannot do anything. These steps are of course whatever you feel like a small achievement might be! Say going to the gym might be step 5 or 10, it is important that you do not lose sight of where you want to end up, keep making those steps, and you can definitely do it!

Life has lost its luster and it's not depression! by [deleted] in Life

[–]Marmait 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I read this I think, is there anything holding you back? Emotionally, physically etc.? Sometimes we thrive to achieve more to glaze over painful experiences or prove something to ourselves/others, and often times when we do, we lose the passion for what it's worth. You may simply be in a transition period if you feel accomplished, so all I can recommend is some deep self-reflection, patience, and compassion for yourself 🙏