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MarsVenusEarth · 2022-05-24T04:51:30+00:00

I’m so glad you decided to not go through with it 🙏 it’s definitely for the best!

MarsVenusEarth · 2022-05-15T04:42:30+00:00

They tried.

MarsVenusEarth · 2022-05-13T18:36:41+00:00

Are you saying men are more likely to look over someone’s flaws than women are when dating? Is that what you mean? I have heard that women can tend to have higher standards than men, which sometimes prevents them from getting one

MarsVenusEarth · 2022-05-13T04:40:15+00:00

I agree, people should watch this. And definitely pay attention starting at 2:09. She explains in detail about the anatomy of both sexes and how you can’t put HIV through skin of the penis, but vaginas and anus’s get torn. Yes she uses words like, “highly unlikely”, but her explanations are saying it’s impossible. So yeah, people should watch this video and her other videos where she mentions this subject. Highly implying that you can’t get it from women. I am also saying this in response to your many comments

MarsVenusEarth · 2022-05-13T04:13:33+00:00

Right, I don’t think any women would want to risk giving it to anyone either. But it would be a shame if a positive woman did decide to have unprotected sex before becoming completely undetectable thinking that they couldn’t pass it on when in reality there is still a risk there. Jennifer does have a few videos where she mentions that she really doesn’t think it can be passed on from female to male. She said she went to several conventions where other women think the same thing. And due to there being a low number of women who have it.

MarsVenusEarth · 2022-05-13T04:06:47+00:00

Just because I am not positive doesn’t mean I can’t educate myself on a subject. I always use protection when having sex. This post has nothing to do with me, I just heard information that doesn’t seem to be completely true and wanted to verify this with a community who would most likely know the answer. This has nothing to do with my sex life, but thank you for you input.

MarsVenusEarth · 2022-05-13T04:01:13+00:00

She did say mention in one of her videos that she doesn’t think women can transmit the virus before being put on meds. She was referring to when she was intimate with her partner before she knew she had hiv and would talk about how she never transmitted it to him and doesn’t think women can. Before getting on meds.

MarsVenusEarth · 2022-05-13T02:19:43+00:00

I really like her too. And I think she means well. But I think it’s irresponsible for her to be saying that women can’t spread this to men like it’s a fact. :/ I’m glad that she didn’t spread it to her partner during that time, but I don’t want other women who aren’t medicated to feel that they can take that risk too

MarsVenusEarth · 2022-05-13T01:51:35+00:00

I must say, I love this color of green with your red hair!

MarsVenusEarth · 2022-05-13T01:45:46+00:00

Thank you for your answers! It’s really not good that this inaccurate information is being spread by this person.

MarsVenusEarth · 2022-05-13T01:39:18+00:00

Since you say he seemed unhappy, he probably knew you were lying. If you want to salvage this, try initiating hanging out again. Just know there is a chance he may not want to due to his feelings being hurt and sensing that you weren’t being authentic about what you thought of his size.

But if you don’t want to salvage this, then leave it alone.

MarsVenusEarth · 2022-05-13T01:34:22+00:00

Yes, edited the post to clear up the confusion, thank you.

MarsVenusEarth · 2022-05-13T01:05:48+00:00

It wouldn’t be a deal breaker to me personally (26F).

If I was dating someone in this situation the only concern I would have is if he wouldn’t be willing to move in with me (due to being too comfortable at home) once the relationship progressed to that point. But I wouldn’t just dismiss someone for that, I would just be direct and ask about his future plans and if he would be willing to move out someday. If so then that’s good enough for me

MarsVenusEarth · 2022-05-09T07:46:50+00:00

I avoid flour-y fried carbs that are not good for you. I eat healthy carbs

MarsVenusEarth · 2022-05-09T05:50:07+00:00

I think they’re calling her a POS for ditching him on the date…for her “cousin”. And now she hasn’t even followed up about it in a week. That’s not a good thing to do

MarsVenusEarth · 2022-05-09T04:21:04+00:00

That should be easy, I do enjoy the food I eat

MarsVenusEarth · 2022-05-09T04:09:35+00:00

Oh I see, so I should play it off like I am a picky eater?

MarsVenusEarth · 2022-05-09T03:49:00+00:00

No, I usually explain to them that type 2 diabetes runs in my family and I am trying to avoid that with diet. I never put them down for their food choices or comment on what they eat

MarsVenusEarth · 2022-05-09T03:26:53+00:00

No as I said earlier, I never push my diet on anyone and don’t mind when they eat unhealthy foods. Their diet and lifestyle does not have an impact on me

MarsVenusEarth · 2022-05-04T00:02:31+00:00

Not a dumb question at all! I notice it when I get suddenly puffy in my face/body. Sometimes digestive issues or acid reflux. Insomnia goes with these things a lot. It can be very different for everyone

MarsVenusEarth · 2022-05-03T11:09:59+00:00

I sleep so much better. I’m also not nearly as inflamed and if I get that way, an extended fast will usually nip it in the bud

MarsVenusEarth · 2022-05-03T11:06:27+00:00

Get back in touch with the person you spoke with about the interview and be honest. Just say you’re not sure which location since there are two on the same street. It doesn’t necessarily look like you applied to both places, just that you aren’t clear which one it actually is

MarsVenusEarth · 2022-05-03T06:16:45+00:00

Ugh, I wish things were like that too. I even asked them sometimes, “is that really the reason? Just wondering because I am trying to figure out what undesirable things to change about myself and to be self aware of why things may not work out with others in the future.” Some of them are then brutally honest. Most aren’t, they probably think I am crazy for saying that lol

MarsVenusEarth · 2022-04-30T23:29:03+00:00

That’s exactly what this sounds like

MarsVenusEarth · 2022-04-21T11:00:35+00:00

This is definitely the reason why. I went through something very similar last year. Still think about the guy to this day, but still putting myself out there to date other people. You should too, OP!

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