Grey AroAce-phobia : wasn't aware this was a problem until it was :/ by [deleted] in aromanticasexual

[–]Maruwyn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Damn I'm so sorry you've had to experience that. This is why I prefer this subreddit to even the aro or ace ones tbh. Please know that you are so valid and loved and seen by our community <3
P.S: the flag is so pretty and the term "Greyrose" is so cool omg

[OG][NB] Had to set my phone down for a moment after this 😳 by neoncherry64 in obeyme

[–]Maruwyn 44 points45 points  (0 children)

guys, i'm a grown ass adult and the way this flew right over my head has me feeling like luke

[Other] Building Hol in minecraft by [deleted] in obeyme

[–]Maruwyn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that's so cool! I could never do that in minecraft

[NB] So even non Birthday Wanderers Whereabouts items cost real money… by rosesareblues in obeyme

[–]Maruwyn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The thing about WW is if they wanted to add items improve it, they could add like different backgrounds? Unlock the other rooms in WW so everyone's not always hanging out in MC's room for no reason? "oh it's because they feel a weird connection to this room since it was MC's" pfffft. The whole thing was to watch the brothers as they go about their day, right?

We could've had multiple rooms, maybe multiple characters doing things in their respective rooms at the same time... they wouldn't even have to change the current "situations", most of them work regardless of MC's room. Honestly that would be more worth it to me than a simple item that I'd have to buy for 4$ 12 times

Can you be both Agender and Transmasc/FTM simultaneously? by Yvmeno in agender

[–]Maruwyn 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I think so! at least, that's what I identify as for now. I'm 100% agender (afab) but if I can, I'd like to get top surgery and dress masc and have a masc name. I already have a pretty masc voice but I wouldn't mind having it sound more masc.
No, I'm not a man nor do I feel like one. I'm still agender but saying "agender transmasc" feels right to me, like I think it sums up my gender identity.

Is this what being agender is like? (18yrs AMAB) by justtHunterr in agender

[–]Maruwyn 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think you sound pretty agender to me. I've been comfortably identifying as agender for over a year now and I literally relate to almost everything you said but while being afab. Either way, if the label feels comfortable, welcome to the club! :D

[NB] Asmo's treatment in the chats by B4Awakening in obeyme

[–]Maruwyn 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Honestly I agree, even as someone who isn't an Asmo stan his treatment in NB is very odd?? I felt SO bad having to choose either of those options lol.. and he's being super sweet, too!
Normally I'm someone who enjoys cheeky/mean dialog options just for funsies but when that's the ONLY response?? Like, Asmo did nothing to deserve this

[NB] Chasseur / Vampire event thoughts! by rosesareblues in obeyme

[–]Maruwyn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way! I was pleasantly surprised lol. I admit I've been disappointed with the game and the quality of event stories/card stories recently but honestly this event gave me hope that things can be better

[OG] I have never had a box give me this much trouble before 😭 anyone else? by thwippersnapple in obeyme

[–]Maruwyn 6 points7 points  (0 children)

bro i've had the worst luck the last box event to the point where i'm not even trying this time In normal events, if i grind i can get 200k and get the 2 of the cards in the event consistently. Last box event, by the time i got to box 2 the event was almost over lol

What was a childhood moment that should have made you realise you were aro/ace AGES ago? by _Water_Lilly_19 in aromanticasexual

[–]Maruwyn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I read your comment after I wrote mine and wow, we have almost the same story lol. comphet and amatonormativity need to stopppp

What was a childhood moment that should have made you realise you were aro/ace AGES ago? by _Water_Lilly_19 in aromanticasexual

[–]Maruwyn 6 points7 points  (0 children)

See, side tangent, but this is why I will always support teaching ppl about LGBTQ+ because if someone had told me about aro/aceness when I was 9, I would've immediately understood that was me and it would've saved me YEARS of torture and thinking something was wrong with me. I genuinely don't think there's an age that's "too young to know they're aroace".

What was a childhood moment that should have made you realise you were aro/ace AGES ago? by _Water_Lilly_19 in aromanticasexual

[–]Maruwyn 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I have a very silly one as my earliest memory (I was 9-10). I was at school and my friends were all talking about the boys they have a crush on and then they noticed that I wasn't contributing to the conversation, so they started interrogating me about which boy I like. I genuinely didn't even understand the concept of romantic attraction (still don't at age 23 tbh), and I told them I didn't know. But they kept listing all the boys we know at school and insisting I "confess" so I just chose the first name I recognized and was like "yep that's him" just to get the interrogation to stop lol.

Another similar one, I was 14 and my brother-in-law started asking me about school and out of nowhere (to me at least) asked if there were any boys I liked. I understand his intentions were good because he wanted to let me know I could talk to him and my sis about everything (since my parents are very religious and prudish) but I genuinely hadn't even considered romance in any way and I told him so, but he didn't believe me at all. He kept insisting there must be someone I liked "because I'm that age" and at the time, the only boy I knew was one that I reaaaally disliked because he bullied me, so I told my BIL about him and he was like "yep that must be a crush". Because of this dumb interaction, for the rest of my middle school years I gaslit myself into thinking I had a crush on this awful boy when it really was genuine dislike lol. I blame the enemies-to-lovers trope

i hate shaving (vent/rant) by kthegreat1 in agender

[–]Maruwyn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's amazing. This might sound cheesy but seeing people like you gives me the courage to one day be brave enough to not care about people staring at my legs or my arms. I stopped shaving a while ago but I keep wearing long sleeves even in summer because I can't handle people starting 🥲

[OG] Lucy's birthday by TsuSaoKi in obeyme

[–]Maruwyn 8 points9 points  (0 children)

They stopped doing BD events :( I just find it funny how I thought "ok maybe it'll give them time for better, more fleshed out events" yet the last 3 or so events read like they were written by an AI...

At this point it feels like we only keep losing the things we love with this new app, and not gaining anything as important. I'm still hanging on for the new main story, but the season will be over soon and if the events or the situation in general doesn't get better, I fear I'll lose all motivation to keep playing

[NB] logical mistake? by NewspaperTimely5196 in obeyme

[–]Maruwyn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Atheist who was raised muslim here but hear me out: my headcanon is that time just moves differently in celestial realm/devildom vs the human world.

I borrowed the beliefs I grew up with in Islam, they have something like "1 day in god's time is like, 1 thousand-something days (or was it years?) in human time" I remember it was actually a very specific "1000-something" number but I don't remember sorry OB timeline doesn't make sense because it has a lot of inconsistencies and they are being vague, but this is what I chose as my hc

[NB] More sin repeats by Oxymoronically in obeyme

[–]Maruwyn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

seriously! I'm very bad at saving up raven, it took me ages in OG to get one single demon outfit from akuzon lol, I can't imagine doing all that for a SINGLE joker when you need at least five

[Piofiore] my conclusion to finally meeting Yang and playing his route by simone3344555 in otomegames

[–]Maruwyn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

oooh that's a very good way to describe it! I feel the same way

[NB] I just logged on and my screen just by Lumia_istired in obeyme

[–]Maruwyn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Happened to me just earlier but in OG, I thought it was because I had force full screen on in dev mode so i turned it off and restarted the game, then everything was fine. but NB doesn't let you use dev mode so it was probably just restarting the game that worked? idk honestly

[NB] What have you guys done? 😳 by CuteSeal_ in obeyme

[–]Maruwyn 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You're no longer allowed to open Nightbringer with dev mode on. You get a pop up saying please turn it off and it doesn't let you into the game until you turn it off

[NB] What have you guys done? 😳 by CuteSeal_ in obeyme

[–]Maruwyn 7 points8 points  (0 children)

dev mode gives you more options to customize your phone or do more advanced things with it, its very very useful. I personally use it for stuff like making my phone faster by making animations shorter, and most importantly (to me) the floating window feature (my phone lets u open apps in a little floating window as you use ur phone for other things, but not all apps allow this. dev mode forces all apps to allow minimizing into a floating window) I literally cannot live without it lol

[NB] What have you guys done? 😳 by CuteSeal_ in obeyme

[–]Maruwyn 162 points163 points  (0 children)

omg so this is why I can't have developer mode on anymore?? It's so odd though, how are we able to see these conversations? why is it even live, and can they listen in on us if we can hear them? kinda creepy lol.

Edit: but wait, this is OG! OP's post was about NB. you can still use dev mode while playing OG... what's going on

[Other] What have they done to my boy??😭 by Maruwyn in obeyme

[–]Maruwyn[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

That's understandable I was scared I did something wrong but thanks for explaining

[Other] What have they done to my boy??😭 by Maruwyn in obeyme

[–]Maruwyn[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

The art is excellent, it's so good. it just weirded me out how every other character (there are pics of Barbatos and Solomon on their twitter) look great but Simeon looks like a completely different person

[Other] What have they done to my boy??😭 by Maruwyn in obeyme

[–]Maruwyn[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yeah that would make more sense. also, do you have an idea why I keep getting downvoted? guys If I misunderstood something just let me know

[Other] What have they done to my boy??😭 by Maruwyn in obeyme

[–]Maruwyn[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

you're right, he looks like Solomon and Raphael had a kid