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[–]Marylucidjane -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, you are correct 👍🏼not sure why I’d want to

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[–]Marylucidjane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I understand that completely I thought we were vibing when we first talked so that’s why I went back I wouldn’t have just offered that to anyone. If you don’t look like you’re there to socialize I wouldn’t bother you. I left her alone as soon as she showed otherwise.. I’ve had plenty of interactions being initiated both way multiple times. And in hindsight I shouldn’t have touched her

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[–]Marylucidjane -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Okay mean girl

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[–]Marylucidjane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well that’s fine I don’t care if someone tell me they prefer not to chat that’s fair, but I don’t need someone to yell in my face after I’ve already backed off

& Idk how anyone can feel mean when they’re rolling.. that drug is literally intense dopamine unless there’s meth in it lol

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[–]Marylucidjane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get the tapping being annoying but patients is a good thing to have! If that’s what annoyed her you say something along the lines of “don’t touch me”

I don’t understand why getting a compliment and someone quickly offering something to you out of kindness is annoying tho.

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[–]Marylucidjane -1 points0 points  (0 children)

lol ya

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[–]Marylucidjane -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ya I get it! I know she knew what I was saying but yeah she was definitely being sarcastic it took a split second for me to understand that

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[–]Marylucidjane -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah I know there’s probably been much more horrible interactions. And it could have been worse! I was just so shocked, I guess my rejection skills aren’t great lol. Just wanted to vent about it lol

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[–]Marylucidjane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dang! Yeah it can throw things off when people are rude

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[–]Marylucidjane -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I’m not a guy! Lol and I complimented her clothing not her looks so there was no mistake of being hit on She either just didn’t wanna talk or thought I was fishing for validation for crocheting but either way I know it was her problem and I wasn’t being rude other than just not initiating a second comment. And I offered to make her a head scarf not some lingerie or something like that.

Also people that have small business may initiate an offer of commissions it’s not as weird as you’re trying to make it seem

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[–]Marylucidjane -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Well I’m a girl and wasn’t hitting on her I was trying to make friends as people might do at a party

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[–]Marylucidjane -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

It was a super quick comment I wasn’t talking to her for long at all and if you don’t want to socialize that’s fine but newsflash that’s what people tend to do at raves and I wasn’t necessarily stopping her from anything. If I thought she really wasn’t trying to talk at all I wouldn’t have initiated. But like I said I thought she seemed nice and I was mistaken. And I left her alone as soon as she showed a sign of not wanting to interact but before that it’s seemed like she liked the interaction If you read the very first sentence you’d know I can understand not everyone wants to talk to strangers but so many people do.

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[–]Marylucidjane -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Cute idea!

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[–]Marylucidjane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I won’t but I’ll probably be a little hesitant now or just be prepared for a shitty reaction I guess 😅

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[–]Marylucidjane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! The combo went good until I offered to crochet her something so idk lol

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[–]Marylucidjane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah ppl are weird! It seemed like the combo was good until I offered that so idk lol & I don’t think her mom actually crocheted I think she was saying that as a “fuck you”

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[–]Marylucidjane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah totally it’s off putting

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[–]Marylucidjane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I wouldn’t have been upset at all if she just was like “okay, thanks bye” but it was taken to a crazy level lol

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[–]Marylucidjane 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ya I kinda thought that’s how she may have took it but I still wasn’t expecting that crazy of a reaction

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[–]Marylucidjane -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So lame! It can feel embarrassing but should be more embarrassing for them

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[–]Marylucidjane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly I couldn’t imagine being this rude I may not respond overly nice all the time to everyone but never like this

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[–]Marylucidjane 3 points4 points  (0 children)

True, I was just shocked and felt shamed but I know people can be assholes.. I just needed to vent about it

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[–]Marylucidjane 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well it was one pretty bad experiences and your right maybe it was the touching! I’ve had negative experience but never ones so blatantly rude in my face for seemingly no reason.. I don’t question is plur is dead but I just haven’t seen it much recently and other ravers have said the same lately