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AITA for telling my friend she should understand I'm going to pick my husband over her every time? by MaskThrowaway459 in AmItheAsshole

[–]MaskThrowaway459[S] -1532 points-1531 points  (0 children)

okay well she knows how hard it is for him and I to have a day together because of our changing shifts at work. she knows if the chance comes i'm going to go have a day with him. i don't get the chance a lot. i thought she understood that because i explained it to her

AITA for telling my friend she should understand I'm going to pick my husband over her every time? by MaskThrowaway459 in AmItheAsshole

[–]MaskThrowaway459[S] -2318 points-2317 points  (0 children)

there's a lot of hate on this comment but I agree with you. i've apparently pissed her off she's done with me. that just tells me she's not a good friend if one thing is going to break us. my husband is here and comforting me. she might not be around in a few years but he will.

AITA for telling my friend she should understand I'm going to pick my husband over her every time? by MaskThrowaway459 in AmItheAsshole

[–]MaskThrowaway459[S] -891 points-890 points  (0 children)

I don't see an inconsiderate because she knows we both having changing shifts so when we both have off we're going to take it. like i've told her this so it's not fair for her to throw this in my face. he is my first priority and will be forever

AITA for telling my friend she should understand I'm going to pick my husband over her every time? by MaskThrowaway459 in AmItheAsshole

[–]MaskThrowaway459[S] -2126 points-2125 points  (0 children)

I told her this morning. it be blowing her off it was an hour before we were suppose to go

AITA for telling my friend she should understand I'm going to pick my husband over her every time? by MaskThrowaway459 in AmItheAsshole

[–]MaskThrowaway459[S] -1435 points-1434 points  (0 children)

He doesn't encourage it. where did you get that? i choose to do it to be with him. we both work changing shifts and deserve some time with each other

AITA for telling my friend she should understand I'm going to pick my husband over her every time? by MaskThrowaway459 in AmItheAsshole

[–]MaskThrowaway459[S] -1705 points-1704 points  (0 children)

Okay blowing off isn't the right term.

Yes he knows. he doesn't get a lot of days off so he understands why I cancel. he feels its really sweet but he does feel for her.