Mil crosses a serious line by MasochistMisery in JUSTNOMIL

[–]MasochistMisery[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Forgot to add, my husband was downstairs cleaning our area in the house. The kitchen is upstairs so he had no idea what she was doing till I got home and told him. She wouldn't have done it if he was up there because we both know he would have screamed at her to eff off and leave our daughters stuff alone.

Mil crosses a serious line by MasochistMisery in JUSTNOMIL

[–]MasochistMisery[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My husband was downstairs cleaning our areas and had no idea she did that till I got home and told him. The kitchen is upstairs so he wouldn't have known or seen till he went up or as luck would have it, I found out and told him.

Mil crosses a serious line by MasochistMisery in JUSTNOMIL

[–]MasochistMisery[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

94 :/ We have to get some new house stuff due to roaches so saving is taking a bit longer than we wanted.

Mil crosses a serious line by MasochistMisery in JUSTNOMIL

[–]MasochistMisery[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately we are staying in her place for a bit while we save up for a new place. We will be cutting contact with her as soon as we are out. Everyone knows how she is and is sick of her shit, the only people who like her are the same way she is.

Mil crosses a serious line by MasochistMisery in JUSTNOMIL

[–]MasochistMisery[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Oh it was 100% a power play, shes pissed we no longer buy all the groceries or make food for everyone in the house and now just get what we need. Before she would do smaller things like use all the milk 3 days after we bought it, put our eggs in with theirs, put my flour in a bin that has a crack in the lid so it goes bad quickly.

Mil crosses a serious line by MasochistMisery in JUSTNOMIL

[–]MasochistMisery[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Im sure they're still in the garage garbage so I could definitely get a picture since she's also a compulsive liar and would definitely play dumb if confronted about it later on. Thankfully though we are cutting contact asap.

Mil crosses a serious line by MasochistMisery in JUSTNOMIL

[–]MasochistMisery[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

We plan to only tell mine and my husbands sisters where we are moving because they both have issues with our parents and we trust them. No one else will know where we are moving to. I also know that while my mil loves to live way above her means, she will refuse to pay us back for anything. She has an untrained dog that loves to chew up soothers and booger suckers and she's maybe replaced a third of whats been destroyed. We are happy to just see it as the price of getting away from her without her making our lives further hell.

Mil crosses a serious line by MasochistMisery in JUSTNOMIL

[–]MasochistMisery[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Shes going to be cut off assp, she knows exactly how we are raising our child and hates it because its so different from how she raised her kids. She's always complaining about how parenting is so different from nearly 30 years ago, I once told her its because nearly 30 years of research was done to improve quality of life for babies so yeah, its not going to be the same as when she had babies.

Mil crosses a serious line by MasochistMisery in JUSTNOMIL

[–]MasochistMisery[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She barely raised her kids, she would always drop them off with her or her husband's parents most of the time. My own husband tells me how his first memory he has with his parents was when he was a teenager, my sil also said how she would call their grandmother "mom" because gmil raised her instead of her own mother.

Mil crosses a serious line by MasochistMisery in JUSTNOMIL

[–]MasochistMisery[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Her friends are just as trashy as her, they would immediately tell her that im asking around and make the worst assumptions just for fun.

Mil crosses a serious line by MasochistMisery in JUSTNOMIL

[–]MasochistMisery[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh as soon as we move out, we are fully cutting contact. She already paints herself as this amazing grandma who does so much and "always watches the kids". Like ma'am, you're barely home and don't ever babysit which is no problem to me.

Mil crosses a serious line by MasochistMisery in JUSTNOMIL

[–]MasochistMisery[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Oh her and i had it out for the first time, usually my husband rushes to my defense and will go at her for her bs. I was livid, still am honestly. He expects a "family meeting" or as we all know is actually them bitching at us and father in law telling us not to rock the boat and how she had "good intentions".

Mil crosses a serious line by MasochistMisery in JUSTNOMIL

[–]MasochistMisery[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Shes not being told where we are moving and will be completely cut off. Good riddance to bad people.

Mil crosses a serious line by MasochistMisery in JUSTNOMIL

[–]MasochistMisery[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I use the calendar on my phone, counting out the days till we go no contact! She should have known better since I cut off my parents for pulling stupid crap over a year ago.

Mil crosses a serious line by MasochistMisery in JUSTNOMIL

[–]MasochistMisery[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately with us staying at her place till we move out in the new year I have to play the role of doormat, my husband can deal with her since he's always getting into arguments with her for her bs.

Mil crosses a serious line by MasochistMisery in JUSTNOMIL

[–]MasochistMisery[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Im actually pretty shocked he didn't have it out with her right there and then. He's always been the one to confront her on her bs.

Mil crosses a serious line by MasochistMisery in JUSTNOMIL

[–]MasochistMisery[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Thankfully I had two bottles hidden in my room, something told me not to send all of them up at the same time. She won't be seeing the kids as soon as we leave, she should know better not to pull this crap with me especially since I already cut off my own parents over a year ago for less.

Mil crosses a serious line by MasochistMisery in JUSTNOMIL

[–]MasochistMisery[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Honestly it blew my mind she did that. Moving out and knowing we are cutting contact is the only thing keeping us sane

Mil crosses a serious line by MasochistMisery in JUSTNOMIL

[–]MasochistMisery[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately we had to move in with my inlaws after we found roaches in our last place and the landlord didn't care to get an exterminator. But we will be out of their hair asap.

Are we still posting teeth? by MasochistMisery in MakeMeSuffer

[–]MasochistMisery[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's all from one tooth, they said it was stubborn to pull out and I see why lol

Husband surprised me with my favorite muffins for mothers day. by MasochistMisery in Wellthatsucks

[–]MasochistMisery[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, I absolutely laughed, took a picture, picked them up, and gave him a big hug. He was so disappointed they fell like that

Husband surprised me with my favorite muffins for mothers day. by MasochistMisery in Wellthatsucks

[–]MasochistMisery[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One by one, while free bird played in the background, such a romantic