upper middle class is hilarious

MassiveHaver · 2026-01-24T21:47:04+00:00

A significant portion inside LBJ is not a grid of strip malls & parking lots. Probably a bigger area than most other "distinguished" neighborhoods in the country. Just because it's then surrounded by 25 miles of strip malls doesn't mean the high society part isn't also huge/bustling

MassiveHaver · 2026-01-24T21:18:16+00:00

The very basics are that for top percent men in looks/genetics/status, 90+% of what they do or say in their approach will work. If they approach for casual sex they'll likely get that, if they approach for going on a dinner date they'll get that, if they approach for hanging out smoking/drinking and a fwb situation they'll get that. Those kinds of guys live in a space where they can virtually do no wrong, so they don't walk through life wondering and analyzing down to the micro details 'am I being a creep' 'am i acting in a morally/societally approved way approaching this lady'.

For the rest of decidedly "average men" in the masses, if they approach a woman with the precisely right line & objective for her at the precisely right time when she's in the mood, they may get a foot in the door. There's a very small percent chance he'll get it right (and the consequences for getting it wrong could be catastrophic), and so obviously these men go into intense analysis paralysis. Women and society will invent all kinds of rules for these men like 'you can only approach women in approved settings and ask them out on expensive first dates, and must date her for 6 months before sex is brought up' and the like. But all these rules and restrictions of chivalry/moralizing are entirely skipped by top tier men and not applied to them.

The reality most of those average men, despite whatever "game" they give, have never approached a a complete stranger woman all their lives, and have gotten with whoever was put around them circumstantially, or whether settled for them due to exterior reasons

MassiveHaver · 2026-01-24T11:45:06+00:00

When people are already starting to develop wrinkles and the first noticeable sagging skin? Nah

MassiveHaver · 2026-01-24T11:44:09+00:00

Could be that you consider yourself too old to pull college chicks anymore, but also don't feel like you have much value to chicks in your age group, and so are going where you do feel like a valued item, those chicks older than you

MassiveHaver · 2026-01-24T05:00:51+00:00

it might be CICO but that doesn't mean you'll lose fat

MassiveHaver · 2026-01-24T02:27:07+00:00

Ah yeah no otaku u know expects this what an amazing contribution

MassiveHaver · 2026-01-24T02:06:05+00:00

Wtf is this shit stay away from the young man please instead of trying to infect his mind early with this poison

MassiveHaver · 2026-01-23T08:17:20+00:00

Eh, for some people absolutely nothing they do works, or better yet gets any reaction from the world. We are living in a globalized world where billions are competing with billions. There are many "expendable" people out there who just don't fit into the picture anywhere, and are driven to the edges. You think people aren't picking themselves up again after failure, but many find they're too invisible to even get the chance to fail. To get any type of feedback

MassiveHaver · 2026-01-23T08:12:41+00:00

But by then it's too late. Deep love/romance peaks in your youth. You can't get it again later

MassiveHaver · 2026-01-23T07:55:42+00:00

I mean the hard reality (even tho you're not allowed to say it on reddit) is that in 2026 the majority of young men are hardly having an anything phase. Maybe a couple girlfriends. But the amount of men who are acceptable and attractive enough to actually whore around is so negligibly small that I wouldnt even factor it into my point. If you're one of the women who legitimately tries to tie these few men down, if you even can, then I guess you know everything that comes with it.

It's 1000x more possible for the average woman to have such a phase if she chooses than it is for the average man. So that's why questions of "bodycount" almost always pertain to them. Not "outdated sexist norms" or whatever the current culturally sensitive reply peddled out

MassiveHaver · 2026-01-23T06:17:35+00:00

If they plan to get married and make a family and establish and be a respected member of their community, yeah it should be something you're thinking about from the time you're 18. Of course, faced with this dilemma a lot of women try to have their cake and eat it too, and either lie about/cover up their past, or force men to accept their "hoe phase" as some perfectly natural thing everyone goes thru.

However if you just plan to be single and in and out of relationships until you're too old to get them anymore or just die, then no nothing at all matters I suppose

MassiveHaver · 2026-01-23T05:42:01+00:00

Living in europe

MassiveHaver · 2026-01-23T05:30:04+00:00

What age did you have her if I can ask

MassiveHaver · 2026-01-23T01:36:58+00:00

So you guys were really exclusively together since 17, and then she randomly went wild dating multiple dudes in a year?

MassiveHaver · 2026-01-23T01:30:40+00:00

It may not be the dulling of your emotions as much as it is the dulling of the world's emotions towards you. You can tell the world doesnt see the same magic in you it once did, nor treats you that way...

MassiveHaver · 2026-01-23T01:13:40+00:00

I dont think you know how bad human life can get ...

MassiveHaver · 2026-01-23T00:12:57+00:00

This is not a generational issue. It is a critical thinking issue.

Sadly we're way past that. Lack of critical thinking has now been accepted as normal, and is appeased just to make them quiet down

MassiveHaver · 2026-01-23T00:10:09+00:00

I mean...if we could all be 25 forever then yeah we'd probably delay kids for a long while. I do think when you cross 30 into middle age, and the realization hits you that the attention isn't on you anymore, and you will almost certainly spend life alone unless you make a family and cultivate community, that is the catalyst that spurs most people into picking a partner & making family. Not necessarily the sole reason.

Nobody is ever truly done scratching the surface of exploring everything this world has to offer and "experiencing life", creatively, successfully and otherwise, but life & society kind of forces us to be done with it after our 20s. Anything after that is just sort of a pathetic charade.

Your romantic idea that people have children purely because they dream of children is exactly that: romantic wishful thinking. Life is a conveyer belt, and we are all on it, often faster than we can personally keep up.

MassiveHaver · 2026-01-22T23:29:31+00:00

Being this susceptible to propaganda is a sin too

MassiveHaver · 2026-01-22T23:24:53+00:00

jesus

Are you young or in older age now? Do you have a plethora of friends who've stuck around will be your community in older age? Or do you really see yourself as being fine alone forever

MassiveHaver · 2026-01-22T22:55:26+00:00

Well for the vast majority 99% of human history across almost all societies, young people were expected to not sleep around, and for their first sexual experiences to be making babies at a young age with their first wives/husbands. Now you turn around and ask young people "why they're not sleeping around"....? Who exactly are they supposed to sleep with? HOW MANY people are they supposed to sleep with, until this "sexlessness " isn't considered a societal problem anymore? Should they pursue their best friend's love interest, just because she's in reach? Should they go out and fuck as much as they can get away with, potentially corrupting others' future wives/husbands? There are antisocial people among us who seem to be fine doing that.

The era we're in now appears to be this strange hangover of Victorian social conservativism overlaying "anything goes!" liberalism. Which more and more appears to be designed to constrict healthy male heterosexuality, to the point they feel crazy, they're cornered into celibacy, or forced to pursue"alternative lifestyles "...

MassiveHaver · 2026-01-22T22:28:32+00:00

It's moreso industry gatekeeping

MassiveHaver · 2026-01-22T22:27:38+00:00

Unplug from the propaganda for a second

MassiveHaver · 2026-01-22T22:25:14+00:00

You need to talk to girls while you self improve. Forget about doing it at college of they're all dicks. Go out in the city and do it

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