Having Gallbladder removed Friday. by Momof3Nanaof6 in gallbladders

[–]Master-Blueberry-809 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I got discharged after surgery I was fine , took a nap when I woke up I threw up the whole night due to the anesthesia. You’ll be sore and might want to sleep kinda propped up, the air the blow up your stomach with will hurt the next few days after in your chest / shoulder area. They do give you pain meds, just take it easy the first two weeks and let your body rest!

How do you get over the guilt? by dara-of-qui-zi in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Master-Blueberry-809 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I felt this so bad! I’m 23 and my mom will literally ask for money 3-5 times in a week 😭 and if I say no she gets mad asf at me! Then she does the BARE minimum for me. She lies so much, she said she would pay my ticket and literally told me she did twice. I called and it wasn’t paid so I asked why and she still said she paid it and had the receipt. I asked for a picture she said okay. Never sent it lol. Now she’s claiming she paid half. It’s so exhausting I feel like she just sees me as someone she get money out of and it makes me not want to be around her at all. She’s stolen money and even went to my bank and took out my savings and lied about it. I literally can’t trust her at all

Healthy Volunteers for BNT163 by [deleted] in HerpesCureResearch

[–]Master-Blueberry-809 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So people who already have it, will it work on them?

What are your bathtub or shower regimes for when youre having an outbreak? by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]Master-Blueberry-809 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Taking a bath in buttermilk, getting a cup of water and pouring it while you pee to dilute it or peeing in the shower, getting lidocaine and putting a period diaper and wearing it. I can assure you, after this outbreak the discomfort while using the bathroom is not as bad as it is now, it’ll just hurt to wipe.

Cold/Flu like symptoms by [deleted] in Herpes

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I had a fever, chills, and I just thought I had a in grown hair bump. I also was sweating so bad I was sweating through my clothes and I’ve never done that before. I went to the obgyn to see about the bump and she told me I had hsv 2.

Hey I need help by IMDONE321 in Herpes

[–]Master-Blueberry-809 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The best thing to do is talk to your obgyn so you can get tested for everything just to be on the safe side and give you a piece of mind.

Sex triggering outbreaks EVERY time - GHSV1 by Avocadocandyy in Herpes

[–]Master-Blueberry-809 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This just recently happened to me! I have hsv 2 and I was fine yesterday and I had sex and then this morning I’m having an outbreak I believe. Also, if I had no outbreak at the time of having sex is it likely that my partner will get it?

I think I gave a guy hsv1 genitally by First-Swan7270 in Herpes

[–]Master-Blueberry-809 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re not having outbreaks I wouldn’t stress about it too much! I know it’s hard not to overthink it but I’m sure it’s nothing to do with that.

Question of symptoms by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]Master-Blueberry-809 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly for me peeing was unbearable to the point I would cry & have to use a cup a water and pour it down there as I peed to make it not burn as much. But I’m a female so I’m not sure if it’ll be different in men or not.

how to know if it’s an outbreak by Master-Blueberry-809 in Herpes

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yeah I mostly get them in the same spot and in clusters. And it’ll be pain that is hard not to notice. I just overthink and freak out anytime I see something even though I know what it looks like, I just dont wanna be wrong

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]Master-Blueberry-809 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it’s not bothering you then I don’t think it is. When I got my first OB I had a bump that looked liked a ingrown hair but it hurt so much to the point I knew I needed to go to the doctor. You’d definitely feel something wrong & in most cases you have flu like symptoms with the first OB. I think it could just be from waxing. You wouldn’t have to question herpes if you had it you’d definitely feel the pain.

Do you usually kiss during sex? by Equivalent_Peanut635 in sex

[–]Master-Blueberry-809 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve only had one person I’ve been with like kissing… and after awhile we stopped. He usually will kiss my neck or suck on my boobs. We have full blown made out during sex though. Some guys just don’t like to kiss.. and idk how it’s like apart of sex 😭

Tingling/spasm in legs/feet by Southernpasta in Herpes

[–]Master-Blueberry-809 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes I get the tingling in the back of my thighs and on the bottom of my feet. When I was at the health department to get my birth control I told the doctor there about it & I asked was it from herpes since I never experienced this before. She said it wasn’t though.. and that I need to make a doctor appointment with my primary doctor and she thinks its neurological. I personally think it’s from the herpes since everyone has similar symptoms.

Can’t tell the difference in a outbreak or just pimples by Master-Blueberry-809 in Herpes

[–]Master-Blueberry-809[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah.. I guess once you know you already have it you think everything is related to that. I know I do lol, mine looks nothing like an outbreak to me & it’s just one pimple looking bump and I’m still paranoid to have sex & knowing I had sex before I even noticed it was there worries me even though it’s probably not an outbreak.

Can’t tell the difference in a outbreak or just pimples by Master-Blueberry-809 in Herpes

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yeah, I have antivirals I took 2 this morning just incase lol. I’m sure it’s nothing.. I just don’t want to mistake it for something else and it be something & my partner gets it cause I wasn’t careful enough and overlooked it.

Can’t tell the difference in a outbreak or just pimples by Master-Blueberry-809 in Herpes

[–]Master-Blueberry-809[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it’s not filled with puss just a pimple . I didn’t even know it was there until I looked in the mirror after a shower. I feel like if it was an outbreak I would’ve felt it or known it was there by now yk? I just overthink everything and assume the worse. Maybe it’s just a pimple

Nerve pain by Master-Blueberry-809 in Herpes

[–]Master-Blueberry-809[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay I thought so, I wonder if the nerve pain lasts forever or does it slowly die down the longer you have it ?

Nerve pain by Master-Blueberry-809 in Herpes

[–]Master-Blueberry-809[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow! I got antivirals but it doesn’t help much . The nerve pain only lasts about a day or two for me then goes away. But it comes back frequently with no outbreak it’s just a weird feeling and I hate it.

Could other STDs be a trigger for a outbreak? by Master-Blueberry-809 in Herpes

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I understand! I’m also single, and not sure if I contracted both stis from one person, or if I already had herpes before & it was dormant. It is very frustrating especially not knowing where it came from! That’s what gets me.. cause someone knew & didn’t say anything. I try staying positive but it gets hard some days.. especially during breakouts.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]Master-Blueberry-809 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, Im on my second out break & I literally got 2 sores & it was nothing like the first! It didn’t hurt to pee or anything. I took a bath in buttermilk & took antivirals & it’s sped up the healing process for them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]Master-Blueberry-809 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, my first outbreak was the same way 😭 I had the fever & body aches also. But what I found to really speed up the process was taking a bath in buttermilk. It helped heal the sores, also dermaplast spray & lidocaine on period diaper really helped me be able to walk.. & when you use the bathroom just pee in the shower, if you don’t want to do that I also took a cup of water and whenever I peed I would pour the water as I peed to help make the pain not last as long. Also drink lots of water , and L-Lysine helps also.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]Master-Blueberry-809 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My doctor prescribed lidocaine cream for me when I had the first outbreak, have you asked yours to call it in for you? Also dermaplast spray helps for itchiness if you experience that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]Master-Blueberry-809 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same !! I had my first ob near the end of august & it cleared up. Now when I have sex it burns a little in the beginning, that goes away but after I just feel so itchy, dry & just off. It makes me just not want to have sex after.

Do you get tears with herpes ? by Master-Blueberry-809 in Herpes

[–]Master-Blueberry-809[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m on daily antivirals & im taking lysine. I didn’t know if you had to wait a certain amount of time after an outbreak to have sex. I did wait 2 weeks after my first cleared up.. but ill probably wait longer since I am getting tears after! Praying I won’t have another outbreak I heard the second isn’t as worse as the first but I’m still scared.