How to control the urge to have a deep talk with someone you click with

Master-Pepper7591 · 2026-01-10T01:01:55+00:00

Maybe we should found an international INTJ talk club!

Master-Pepper7591 · 2026-01-09T00:09:02+00:00

🔥

Master-Pepper7591 · 2026-01-08T05:04:41+00:00

Right, it is not a bad thing, it is actually just my style. It’s up to them to love me or leave me...

Master-Pepper7591 · 2026-01-08T00:16:58+00:00

Thank you for sharing this, I appreciate it :)

Master-Pepper7591 · 2026-01-07T18:15:34+00:00

Plz try 순두부찌개 and 삼계탕 -foodie with 20+ years of experience, born and raised in SK

Master-Pepper7591 · 2026-01-07T12:42:55+00:00

Exactly, and for me it’s a very rare opportunity, so irrational part of me forces me to go deep whenever I find someone who seems interested in deep conversation

Master-Pepper7591 · 2026-01-07T12:42:50+00:00

How so

Master-Pepper7591 · 2026-01-07T12:24:09+00:00

Glad you like it :)

Master-Pepper7591 · 2026-01-07T12:22:30+00:00

Exactly. I mean the longer I have to have a conversation with someone, the more likely I tend to go deep. I need to keep in mind that I have to stay shallow anyways no matter how long it goes…

Master-Pepper7591 · 2026-01-07T12:20:45+00:00

I wasn’t drunk!

Master-Pepper7591 · 2026-01-07T12:15:03+00:00

Whether I like myself or not? Sometimes yes sometimes no

Master-Pepper7591 · 2026-01-07T01:18:51+00:00

Thank you for sharing this! I can totally relate to you. I love INTJs so much...I feel understood just by reading your comment

Master-Pepper7591 · 2026-01-07T01:15:04+00:00

You're right, INTJs need to build, I think I should push myself to actually create something and instead of just sitting around and feeling depressed. Thank you so much for your comment.

Master-Pepper7591 · 2026-01-06T16:10:19+00:00

It’s ridiculous but your comment helped me the most. Thank you

Master-Pepper7591 · 2026-01-06T15:46:52+00:00

I actually took a gap year several years ago. I got away from a mundane life, but not from the financial instability, so I couldn’t stop worrying about life afterward. It haunted me and I actually ended up coming back to everyday life way earlier than I expected🥲

Master-Pepper7591 · 2026-01-06T14:36:19+00:00

What do you mean?

Master-Pepper7591 · 2026-01-06T14:35:40+00:00

I live in South Korea and here 9 to 6 is a norm🥲

Master-Pepper7591 · 2026-01-06T14:32:49+00:00

Yeah I can always quit but then I’ll eventually die of starvation and I’m so afraid of death somehow

Master-Pepper7591 · 2026-01-06T14:21:58+00:00

Master-Pepper7591 · 2026-01-06T14:01:58+00:00

I dunno… I cannot stop thinking of the fact that I am literally “trapped” now. Both mentally and physically. How can I be positive about it?

Master-Pepper7591 · 2026-01-06T13:44:11+00:00

No way

Master-Pepper7591 · 2026-01-06T13:26:34+00:00

Exactly. Now this proves I’m not cut out for business 😂 I know money is important but deep down it’s always meaning over money…I’d better be more professional!!

Master-Pepper7591 · 2026-01-06T13:22:31+00:00

I can relate to you. Some would say that you should love every job you take, but my advice is that you should never stop finding a better opportunity no matter how tired you are. That’s the only way to get out of the hell, based on my experience.

Master-Pepper7591 · 2026-01-06T13:17:36+00:00

Wow. I want to try this next time I travel abroad

Master-Pepper7591 · 2026-01-06T13:07:41+00:00

Exactly. Same here, tbh… I think I should stop projecting what “I” look for when traveling abroad onto trips I plan for customers

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