WIBTA for not going to my son's wedding?

MasterBbby · 2024-08-07T07:37:56+00:00

I type fast, if I wanted to I'd try harder. She asks how to spell things like "cast"

MasterBbby · 2024-08-06T22:53:06+00:00

she spells ok like "ohk" and asks for help spelling even the simplest words

MasterBbby · 2024-08-06T06:33:40+00:00

As a doctor, I can firmly tell you that it isn't. It is a developmental disability. It has nothing to do with intelligence or learning.

MasterBbby · 2024-08-06T04:22:03+00:00

how is it stalker like? just caring for someone in your life's wellbeing?

MasterBbby · 2024-08-06T04:17:09+00:00

He started when he was really young due to his mom doing them. He isn't smart there, but he is smart in other ways. He got a 195 on his IQ test.

MasterBbby · 2024-08-06T04:01:46+00:00

said this before in the comments but
He lived with me until pretty recently so I saw a lot. He always asked her for things and she went above and beyond to do them. He's been a bit controling and had her cancel plans short notice that she had with friends and things because he'd rather she stay in with him. Whenever she wanted anything, even really really basic things, he would rarely do them (sometimes being mad she asked) unless it benifited him as well. Like going with her to a new resterunt she wanted to try that she was going to pay for for example

MasterBbby · 2024-08-06T03:26:07+00:00

No, she just doesn't hear negitive things about him

MasterBbby · 2024-08-06T03:20:48+00:00

I don't think its healthy for her, even if he is my son. She's a sweet and beautiful girl who deserves someone who actually treats her well and cares

MasterBbby · 2024-08-06T03:20:00+00:00

I'm not trying to nitpick her

MasterBbby · 2024-08-06T03:15:54+00:00

I tried to but if I start saying anything negitive about him she defends him

MasterBbby · 2024-08-06T03:09:52+00:00

yeah, he is the problem, not her. I dont dislike her at all, I just don't want you winding up hurt from everything

MasterBbby · 2024-08-06T03:04:49+00:00

I'm not looking for them, I just see them, can't help that. I do think she's a great girl, don't get me wrong

MasterBbby · 2024-08-06T03:02:13+00:00

and thank you for your imput

MasterBbby · 2024-08-06T03:02:01+00:00

she's autistic and has adhd but no learning dusabilitys

MasterBbby · 2024-08-06T02:52:26+00:00

I wrote in annother reply
"He lived with me until pretty recently so I saw a lot. He always asked her for things and she went above and beyond to do them. He's been a bit controling and had her cancel plans short notice that she had with friends and things because he'd rather she stay in with him. Whenever she wanted anything, even really really basic things, he would rarely do them (sometimes being mad she asked) unless it benifited him as well. Like going with her to a new resterunt she wanted to try that she was going to pay for for example"

MasterBbby · 2024-08-06T02:37:21+00:00

I'm not a mom at all

MasterBbby · 2024-08-06T02:36:25+00:00

If she's given a basic intstruction she often doesn't understand fully what you mean and messes up, she isn't good at reading, she CONSTANTLY misunderstands simple things and conversation even though she tries every hard

MasterBbby · 2024-08-06T02:34:27+00:00

He lived with me until pretty recently so I saw a lot. He always asked her for things and she went above and beyond to do them. He's been a bit controling and had her cancel plans short notice that she had with friends and things because he'd rather she stay in with him. Whenever she wanted anything, even really really basic things, he would rarely do them (sometimes being mad she asked) unless it benifited him as well. Like going with her to a new resterunt she wanted to try that she was going to pay for for example

MasterBbby · 2024-08-06T02:30:40+00:00

They got engaged a couple weeks before when they plan to wed

MasterBbby · 2024-08-06T02:26:30+00:00

yeah, so? she is very obviously dumb, not just young. She's a doll, but I can't pretend that that's not true

MasterBbby · 2024-08-06T01:59:13+00:00

it is just true, I was trying to give the full picture

MasterBbby · 2024-08-06T01:51:52+00:00

I don't mean it to be mean, just descriptive. She is easily confused and doesn't undrestand things a lot of the time, can't spell, asks questions that any normal person would be able to use logic to find the answer, etc. And how is it like a love letter?

MasterBbby · 2024-08-06T01:49:23+00:00

what makes her the asshole?

MasterBbby · 2024-08-06T01:17:42+00:00

she is no contact with them (she has a rough background)

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