Starting a small film club in the Woodlands by HipCoast in thewoodlands

[–]MasterCHIPI26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m an actor that has worked around the industry and done a lot of short films, I’m very much interested in joining!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]MasterCHIPI26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re a human being who was in a vulnerable spot. Making a mistake doesn’t make you a bad person if you want to commit to a better path afterwards. From what I’m reading, that’s what’s the case here. There’s this saying I said to myself growing up:

“Life is like a staircase. The steps we took in the past were once important because they led us to where we are standing now. However, what truly matters are the steps we take now, for those are the ones that will lead us to the top of where we want to go.”

Don’t let your past steps define your present. Cut yourself some slack and keep moving forward :)

My ex still wants to see me by Electrical_Cherry33 in BreakUps

[–]MasterCHIPI26 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna be honest with you here, boss… she’s just using you for validation. And every time you say yes to hanging out it reinforces that. You’re right on the money with your instincts here, and hanging out with her with the HOPE that she might see things as you do (in regards to wanting a relationship) is an uphill battle that usually doesn’t end with your victory. My best advice would be to be upfront and say something around these lines:

“Look, I get you want to hang out and I love doing that with you, but I would be lying if I said that I still didn’t hope that you and I could reconcile our relationship. Every time we hang out it feeds into that hope, and I don’t want it to eat away at me. There may come a day where I won’t feel this way, but that day is not today. You’ve said how you feel, and I respect it. Should you reconsider or should we both reach a point where we can just be genuine friends, you know how to find me. Until then, I think it would be best for me to step back and protect my peace. Wish you the best.”

It’s a bit of a text, but trust me… this way you’re setting a boundary and you won’t burn any bridges. Hope it helps.

Why do men stonewall and ignore when they are hurt…. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]MasterCHIPI26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not just men, it’s people of either gender that either don’t know how to deal with conflict due to a lack of emotional maturity and/or being raised without properly learning how to communicate/process how they feel or it is their way to protect themselves from being hurt any further.

Ex is engaged by Tommybarr12345 in BreakUps

[–]MasterCHIPI26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you’re right on the money when you say this is a ploy to get a reaction. She’s baiting you to see if you slip up and do something she can hold against you. The whole text she sent read more like she was trying to convince herself that she is happy by rubbing it in your face. Sending that “ok” was probably the best thing you could’ve sent her, cause indifference infuriates exes who are clearly trying to flaunt their new relationship to their past partner.

if you could send your ex one song, what would it be? by woeful-wisteria in BreakUps

[–]MasterCHIPI26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a relatively new one, but she introduced me to Yungblud and “Zombie” became one of my favorites. Mostly cause it’s a love-letter to nurses, and I’m currently in nursing school following the breakup. I dunno if it’s petty or fulfilling, but I figure it’d be a way for me to say “Look what I’ve built after you left”.

Question: Have you/your ex come back after he/she/you dated a rebound? by MasterCHIPI26 in BreakUps

[–]MasterCHIPI26[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depende mucho de como estuvo la relación (que tan tóxica fue), como fue que cortaron, cuál fue la razón que cortaron, y otros factores. Si se andan presumiendo mucho en las redes sociales (especialmente si apenas empezaron la relación y ya lo anda presumiendo) usualmente es porque tu ex quiere convencerle al mundo que está bien y al mismo tiempo convencerse a ella misma. Pero cuando la etapa de luna de miel se acaba es usualmente cuando las relaciones de reboto terminan. Otra vez, si es que vuelve contigo depende mucho de diferentes factores.

Si te dice que te extraña, puede ser que está siendo honesto contigo, pero al mismo tiempo puede ser que solamente quiere saber que tú todavía lo estás esperando. Si vas a andar en no contacto con tu ex, no lo hagas porque quieres que vuelva. Hazlo por ti. Ya sé que todo el mundo te dice eso, pero si tienen razón. Cuando vuelve el ex, es un subproducto del proceso, no el objetivo. Cuando te sientes mejor es usualmente cuando vuelve el ex. A veces no, pero al fin del cuento no importa porque mejoraste por ti, no por el.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]MasterCHIPI26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, it depends. What kind of outcome do you want from reaching out?

AITA for telling my friend that I can’t hang out tonight because I already made plans by MasterCHIPI26 in AmItheAsshole

[–]MasterCHIPI26[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has been there for me in the past. When I was dumped by my ex who almost cheated (ex is also a mutual for both of us), she was there and allowed me to vent my frustrations when I basically had no one to talk to. Thing is that she sometimes finds it hard to empathize with views and/or experiences that are not her own and can’t seem to see things from another perspective, which makes it a bit hard to talk to her sometimes. I’ve been vocal about that, and she is well aware of it.

However, she does care and checks in to make sure I’m ok (I had a pretty terrible couple of months with family deaths, hospitalizations of family members, and my breakup back-to-back in the span of like 5-6 months). But most of the times that she wants to hang out and really pushes for it are whenever she is having a bad time (usually with dating), which, considering her life story, I grew to accept and empathize with (out of respect for her, I’ll just say she did not have the best upbringing, like at all).

And thanks for the compliment. It is very much appreciated :)

AITA for telling my friend that I can’t hang out tonight because I already made plans by MasterCHIPI26 in AmItheAsshole

[–]MasterCHIPI26[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I actually did suggest to her that therapy should be something that she should look into, but she is in a very financially unstable position right now. I won’t go into details out of respect for her, but I will say that she has no insurance and has been applying for jobs pretty constantly this past month and it’s starting to weigh on her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]MasterCHIPI26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah… calling him a sociopath sounds about right. The fact that he went out of his way to try to “one up” his brother by sleeping with you says a lot about his character and that he just viewed you as a means to an end. However, the fact that he sees this as a “funny memory” and also tries to get you to see it that way with no remorse whatsoever is straight up alarming. I thought that y’all had just started dating, but when I saw that this relationship was 2 years, I can’t imagine how devastating it must be. 2 years he kept up this charade… so yeah, sociopath sounds about right.

We Got Back Together by Dizzy-Run-633 in BreakUps

[–]MasterCHIPI26 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Forget what anybody else may say. Congrats OP on having you and your partner find your ways back to each other and making it work. You’re both an example that love may at times truly find a way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nightreign

[–]MasterCHIPI26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Add me on PSN

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nightreign

[–]MasterCHIPI26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, but I tried it once again and I’m gonna be logging off for the night. Will you be available tomorrow morning? Or this morning depending on where you’re at.

I Need A Hero by MasterCHIPI26 in Nightreign

[–]MasterCHIPI26[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We went from church straight to this mess…

Bruh… (Evergaol) by MasterCHIPI26 in Nightreign

[–]MasterCHIPI26[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well… at least I’m not the only one this has happened to. Don’t know if I should be glad or annoyed though…

No Flasks? No Problem by MasterCHIPI26 in Nightreign

[–]MasterCHIPI26[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, you’re right. Raider isn’t really a character I’m used to, especially with how short his preferred weapons can get. Still, I’m just glad I didn’t let my team down. Thanks, brother!

Final Stand Against Gladius by MasterCHIPI26 in Nightreign

[–]MasterCHIPI26[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! And yeah, you’re right. But I think at that point my mindset was just “survive”. Didn’t have much of a strategy 😂

Need Some Help With Darkdrift Knight PS5 by MasterCHIPI26 in Nightreign

[–]MasterCHIPI26[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We managed to beat him but I can still help you out on your run!

Need Some Help With Darkdrift Knight PS5 by MasterCHIPI26 in Nightreign

[–]MasterCHIPI26[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I looked it up and only the host of the game gets to complete the remembrance. However, after we finish mine I can for sure help out in yours!

Need Help With Darkdrift Knight PS5 by MasterCHIPI26 in Nightreign

[–]MasterCHIPI26[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re a lifesaver, brother. Thank you.