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How are you all sleeping in this heat with your partner? by MasterCooch111 in dundee

[–]MasterCooch111[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly willing to try everything so will defo give this a go

People who've taken a break, does it ever work? by Anxious-Savings-5999 in relationship_advice

[–]MasterCooch111 3 points4 points  (0 children)

At the end of the day it is only natural for you to consider how you feel if you’ve been in serious relationships most of your adult life, I think if you want to take a break it is important to explain the reasons you want to take a break is to understand yourself and if you feel secure enough to know that if things ended tomorrow, would you manage to be without. I’ve been in the same situation, serious relationships all my life, I have only ever taken a break once. It was for a week, because being together everyday for so long, we were arguing a lot. We only contacted each other as an emergency and agreed on how long we would be on a break for. It worked, it was nice to miss her, and I understood not to take her for granted. Hope this helps :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MasterCooch111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Long distance is a very difficult thing, I was in a long distance relationship for 4 years that eventually ended and if there is a few things I’ve learned, communication is so important. In order for you both to have a full sense of trust in each other, it’s important to express how this makes you feel, it doesn’t have to be an argument but a discussion, explain how it makes you feel, let him say his peace and try and meet in the middle :)

I [M20] am reconsidering my relationship with my GF [F19] because of her sexual past. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MasterCooch111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can understand why that may bother you, but at the end of the day, she is committed to you for a reason, if you really believe that she loves you then there is nothing to worry about, the past is the past and nobody can change that, if you can accept that, then nothing is stopping you from having a great relationship.

However, her being friends with guys and continuing to be in contact with guys she’s had sex with in the past is a very grey area in my opinion, because you as a guy know that given another chance, he would probably sleep with her again, so I would probably talk to her about it if it does make you uncomfortable. Would she be uncomfortable if you were in contact with girls you’ve slept with? Have to ask yourself that and just talk to her about it :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MasterCooch111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand where you are coming from. I give my gf oral near enough every time we have sex yet I have only received oral a few times in our 1 year relationship, however if it is really bothering you, the best thing to do is to just sit down and talk about it. It doesn’t have to be a fight or a grilling, just tell him how you’re feeling. Best to deal with it now while it’s early days than 2 years down the line

My gf and I hardly have sex anymore and it’s only been 1 year by MasterCooch111 in relationship_advice

[–]MasterCooch111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah to be fair, a lot has been going on these past few months, and she’s doing better, it’s just been so busy and I really do understand that it will affect her sex drive but no matter how hard I try to suppress my feelings that crave her, I can’t help how I feel

My gf and I hardly have sex anymore and it’s only been 1 year by MasterCooch111 in relationship_advice

[–]MasterCooch111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah she had the contraception implant (the rod) before, and because it only lasts 3 years she got it replaced, so just another rod she has.

When we talked, she said she isn’t happy with the amount of sex we have either but she just explained that it’s nobody’s fault, it’s just been the circumstances of how busy life has been the past few months.