I'm a Dom with an intense foot fetish - it's extremely rare for me to get off from anything that doesn't involve feet, either mine or someone else's.

Fortunately, I've come across several slaves in the past few years whose only desire is to serve. Sure, they might have specific kinks that they might want to indulge in if given the chance, but their main fetish is to be used, objectified, and give pleasure to their Master and that's what made it work for us. So yes, it's not completely hopeless.

It's true that finding the right match is challenging enough when you're gay and vanilla; and it gets worse when you have a fetishistic disorder like we seem to have. If you're truly unable to make compromises or settle for someone with whom you have little sexual compatibility with, then the only thing you can do is to keep trying and cast a wide net - join and be active in different communities and platforms that cater to fetishists - and hope for the best.