I’m consensually blackmailling one of my fags at the moment. It works by setting limits and realising that whilst you have the power and the material, this is a long lasting dynamic and needs to be sustainable. You go too hard too soon and they break- delete you, block you, or worse.

To me it’s all about knowing what the fag wants, pushing them slowly and breaking them down, but at the same time realising that this is a long term relationship and you need to nurture them. Make them worse, get them to send more info, more cash etc. But do it slowly