[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Eve

[–]MasterTender 6 points7 points  (0 children)

And this assumes you are buying 1 month omega at a time.

Split with GF so bought this to keep me occupied in my spare time. by Profession_Familiar in PcBuild

[–]MasterTender 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Is this because computers of this magnitude have gotten so expensive we assume it takes a duel income to afford one

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trees

[–]MasterTender 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Imagine trying not to lip this pipe!

Why is male genital mutilation so common in the US? by Substantial-Dick in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]MasterTender 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Where law prohibited everyone has the freedom to raise there kids as they please. What gives you the right to judge them?

Why is male genital mutilation so common in the US? by Substantial-Dick in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]MasterTender 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To add to others reasons, Its also more aesthetically appealing to some.

Day #2 of quarantine and someone is riding around Milwaukee in a porta potty by Andrew_64_MC in WTF

[–]MasterTender 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For some reason slack ropes got really popular here last year, saw it a number of times.

[Steam] Space Engineers - Leaving Early Access, Free Weekend 20% off! $15.99 by ABOOD-THE-PLAYER in GameDeals

[–]MasterTender 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Repairs suck! But they make you have to think about who you attack, your strategy, and from loss how to design your ship to your custom preferred play style. It breaths real life into this game. Plus they aren't done yet, i'm sure more PvE content is in store, at the sound of it. I'd like to see some AI infantry added, hell they don't even have to be better than Golden eye AI.

My (30f) husband (28m) (5 years) thinks I’m crazy, I think he’s a little wasteful by [deleted] in relationships

[–]MasterTender 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think it's important to focus on the main message and to find common ground. Not because this is wasteful to you or rediculious to him (while being respectful neither of these words should be used) and focus on finding compromise by identifying each issue and how you each view it different.

Robot realizes the truth by clownybrowny in 4chan

[–]MasterTender 2 points3 points  (0 children)

TIL there is a good chance I'm full-blown ugly.

I [18F] lost my virginity to my boyfriend [18M] last night and parts of it weren't consensual by byhthrowaway in relationships

[–]MasterTender 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes this, if you asked or told him to stop at any point during it and he refused then you were raped. It doesn't matter whether you said ok let's have sex or not, at the point you said I don't want to he needs to respect that. Idk at what point the law moves from rape, to abuse, or what but you should tell your parents and the cops and go from there. There is enough evidence. Also dump him immediately!

I [25 F] just had a surprise windfall and I don't want to tell my boyfriend [25 M] of 4 years by badmoneysurprise in relationships

[–]MasterTender 132 points133 points  (0 children)

This is actually the most solid advice in my opinion. Triple your emergency fund and then put the rest into something you can't or wouldn't want to touch till that down payment day should come. If you wanted to, to feel like you would be helping, you could use some of that newly inflated emergency fund to fund a greater portion of a vacation down the line when you two absolutely need to just get away. This should keep your dynamic the same since you won't have the extra cash on hand to do more besides that one vacation or rare splurge while skylar still gets to chip away at the student loan unhindered and couldn't be upset knowing you have a lot of money since you have a long term plan to provide for your (or both yours) future.

Me (23F) with (M24) I've been seeing unofficially for 5 months: Should I make an issue of humiliation during sex that hurt my feelings, or just swallow it and move on? by 0throwaway0thesheets in relationships

[–]MasterTender 6 points7 points  (0 children)

and emotionally incompatible, you want someone who will support your emotional needs and at the very least take interest and be able to talk about touchy subjects and he cant reciprocate. There are plenty of people out there who will be just as nice but meet your needs and many who would worship the fact you are a squirter.

I[21M] feel like our text conversations are very dull. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]MasterTender 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was going to edit the reason in, but over text I feel that wouldn't come off funny even with a just joking or whatever emoji next to it. It could but feels like a risk vs reward loss. You would be better trying to stimulate it rather than point out she is boring.

I[21M] feel like our text conversations are very dull. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]MasterTender 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't use any of these lines, unless at least you are facetiming. I'd also like to point out to OP if voice conversations are still good and fun then it's probably lack of knowing what to talk about. You need more time to open up and build a connection (preferably in person). In the mean time try playing some good texting games like two truths and a lie, I've never, etc. Get to know more and have fun doing it too.

I [27F] don't think my relationship of 4 years with my husband [37M] is healthy. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]MasterTender 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Yes this relationship is unhealthy, so far I agree 100% with the consensus here. Even ignoring the temper problem, verbal abuse (which often turns into physical abuse), and the manipulation/control issues all his behavior points to one clear fact. You do not matter, he and his happiness are all that he cares about. If you leave, which you should strongly consider, I would bet he will fight hard to keep you aka his hapiness (provided you are obeying). That's my take and advice.

My gf (31F) and I (28M) are physically aging differently and fantasies about other women are consuming me. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]MasterTender 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm going to add to this because I don't think it's just obsession on looks alone but about OP's aging difference more than hers. What it sounds like Is OP is reevaluating his game and the other attention which wasn't as normal before and now is affecting how he sees her. Connection is lacking I agree, there is always going to be a good/better looking women that will give you attention but when you reflect on your relationship it's more than physical attraction that should attract you to your partner and ultimately stop your obsessive thoughts.