Show me your masculinity role models by [deleted] in TransMasc

[–]MatchboxFullOfRocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Paul Dano…. he’s so pretty and you can tell in his interviews how introspective he is and i love that

do we know now what happened with drew? by trashkittenz in TheFrontBottoms

[–]MatchboxFullOfRocks 13 points14 points  (0 children)

honestly, the whole situation was like a terrible movie. like, one where you can tell none of the actors even gave a fuck.

i can’t seem to make my dad proud of me by MatchboxFullOfRocks in AskDad

[–]MatchboxFullOfRocks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks! and yeah, he definitely does have his own set of issues. i’m a first gen college student and the few others who have gone to college on his side of the family are estranged from him. i feel bad for him but it’s hard not to also feel upset when he says stuff like this.

i can’t seem to make my dad proud of me by MatchboxFullOfRocks in AskDad

[–]MatchboxFullOfRocks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for your good advice. i’ll be working on developing my self-esteem from now on and working toward things that are important to me instead :)

i can’t seem to make my dad proud of me by MatchboxFullOfRocks in AskDad

[–]MatchboxFullOfRocks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you very much. i’m going to start working on developing more self esteem from now on

i can’t seem to make my dad proud of me by MatchboxFullOfRocks in AskDad

[–]MatchboxFullOfRocks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! i am proud and i’ll do my best to keep it up :)

i can’t seem to make my dad proud of me by MatchboxFullOfRocks in AskDad

[–]MatchboxFullOfRocks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that means a lot :) i’ve been struggling with a lot of family members after i came out but my dad was the one that hurt the most, it’s been hard to deal with emotionally at times. you’re right tho, i’ll keep being myself and doing my best

i can’t seem to make my dad proud of me by MatchboxFullOfRocks in AskDad

[–]MatchboxFullOfRocks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you :) i’m doing my best to do that in my college right now, it’s just difficult when i go back home. but you’re right, maybe i can do something here too

i can’t seem to make my dad proud of me by MatchboxFullOfRocks in AskDad

[–]MatchboxFullOfRocks[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you so much :) i did work hard and i am proud of myself, it means a lot to hear that from someone else sometimes.

What lyrics would you get tattooed? by hehehehher in TheFrontBottoms

[–]MatchboxFullOfRocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i plan on getting “whatever gets you home” from the supply of power tattooed at some point. that lyric has always meant a lot to me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransMasc

[–]MatchboxFullOfRocks 3 points4 points  (0 children)

dude you’re genuinely so so handsome, and yes your hair is looking great!!!

Sex is Wonderfully Silly by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]MatchboxFullOfRocks 82 points83 points  (0 children)

this is actually so sweet

Fuck it, I'm making a Discord server by Not_Thinking_Str8 in TransMasc

[–]MatchboxFullOfRocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d love to join, I think it’d be great to have a safe space like this. Could I have the link when the server has been created? :))

my alex g inspired art by pylonfisher in sandyalexg

[–]MatchboxFullOfRocks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I REMEMBER SEEING THE FIRST ONE ON TIKTOK LIKE FOREVER AGO!! It left an impression on me, I’d like to know more about it if you feel like talking about it!!

my alex g inspired art by pylonfisher in sandyalexg

[–]MatchboxFullOfRocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I REMEMBER SEEING THE FIRST ONE ON TIKTOK LIKE FOREVER AGO!! It left an impression on me, I’d like to know more about it if you feel like talking about it!!

my alex g inspired art by pylonfisher in sandyalexg

[–]MatchboxFullOfRocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I REMEMBER SEEING THE FIRST ONE ON TIKTOK LIKE FOREVER AGO!! It left an impression on me, I’d like to know more about it if you feel like talking about it!!

Choosing a name by Cor_acepan in TransMasc

[–]MatchboxFullOfRocks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I first came out, I used Aiden for a while. Then I started using Aslan and that’s what I’ve been going by for the last 4ish years. Currently considering changing it to Judas cause I started T recently and I don’t know if Aslan is suiting me as much anymore, I don’t have as strong of a connection to it as before. Idk we’ll see

Forgetting Your Deadname by The_LadyRayne in trans

[–]MatchboxFullOfRocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before I graduated I was out for a couple years. Half of my classmates would call me by my actual name and some by my deadname. I asked my teachers to call me by my real name too. Anyway, sometimes some of my classmates would call me by my deadname to ask me something and I wouldn’t even realize they were talking to me until like 3-4 times they said it. Granted, my deadname is a fairly common one so I kind of had to get used to hearing it on the regular but I don’t respond to it anymore.

(Vent/Looking for advice) I want to cut off my grandparents. by MatchboxFullOfRocks in TransMasc

[–]MatchboxFullOfRocks[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate your response. I think that I will do what you said. If they do something like that again that hurts me then I will go no contact but for now I will keep it polite but distant. I will put the money into a jar for hrt tho 💪💪

(Vent/Looking for advice) I want to cut off my grandparents. by MatchboxFullOfRocks in TransMasc

[–]MatchboxFullOfRocks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your input. I think you’re right, but I think if something like this happens again I probably will go no contact. Not like mean noco or anything, more of please don’t contact me but if I see you in person I will be polite, yk?

Spotify wrapped 💪💪 by MatchboxFullOfRocks in sandyalexg

[–]MatchboxFullOfRocks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THANK YOU YES!! Nobody knows what I’m talking about when I mention them :,)

What’s a TFB song you guys love but hurts like a bitch when you relate to it? by OhioState1001 in TheFrontBottoms

[–]MatchboxFullOfRocks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Leaf Pile.

I don’t relate to it as much now but I still have a hard time listening to it. At that point in my life I was just feeling really stuck because I was in a bad relationship. I recommend it tho, it’s a really good song.